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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/26/2010 7:20:59 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Nothing but love man... but I would slap you if you did ice. I fricking hate to be cold! Are you sure she digs that?

By the way, I love how open you are and how you are willing to discuss this stuff... just remember... discuss it with her! (I vote write her a sexy note and see what she responds to... and if you need someone to edit it, well I am just happy to offer my service... I would suffer through) *bat bat bat*

Helpful Hannah.

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/26/2010 7:56:11 PM   
domcypher


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Status: offline 		haha, no I'm not sure at all. I was thinking about putting an icecube in my mouth while I... explore ;) less direct than just dumping a bucket of ice over her (joke). One of those things that I'd figure out pretty quick if shes into or not. I'd really like to do something with sensation play, I feel like its a good gateway kink.

I'm a pretty straight shootin' open guy. I'm open to suggestions as well as grilling by the way ;)

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/26/2010 10:16:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss
There's been something that's been bothering me about this thread, and I figured what it is. It's the cuffs. Some folks really get freaked by bondage.


Sunshine, Yes, I've already decided to not use the cuffs. I had thought about using a necktie, but I can't bring myself to put my $150 ties through that! lol. Lame I know. they're very soft and would probably feel quite nice though. we'll see. I had thought about wax play, one of the first things I thought of actually. I just don't think shes ready for that yet. gonna stick with the ice for now.

Thanks.

I'm a sucker for cuffs (literally ). What about nice comfortable fur-lined ones rather than metal ones?

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/27/2010 12:08:23 AM   
domcypher


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Status: offline 		I had intended to get leather, fur lined ones, actually. Metal cuffs are no fun in my opinion. they tend to hurt, even the furry ones. the more i think about it, the more I think she'll be into it. one way to find out!

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/27/2010 12:32:45 AM   
reynardfox


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Status: offline 		Gawd! stop taking it all so seriously, you'll scare the poor bugger to death.
All the things you describe are done by frigginillas anyway, just enjoy the relationship and let things unfold naturally, chat about BDSM stuff but don't try to sign her up, just play and see where it goes. My Wife and I play with a lot of vanilla girls, gently gently, oh so gently, starting with dress up games and a lot of slap and tickle. Don't bolt for the collaring award ceremony right away.

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/28/2010 2:59:57 AM   
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- talk to her while you're nailing her..



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Damnnnnnnnn That is precisly what I was thinking. After I shoot my spouge <Man gravy> all over myself... One of my better lines is... " Lap it up like a good bitch"

BadOne


sighs....I have a dilemma.... I want to throw myself at both of you .... my heart is racing at the thought of romantic interludes with either of you .....  I can see it now

  • flowers (probably stolen from a grave)
  • mood lighting - the blue shadow of the computer screen open to your favourite hook up site still open while you woo me just in case things don't work out
  • wine - cheap and nasty in a cask...and yes, you will of course take the bladder out of the cardboard box when it is nearly empty to ensure you squeeze every last drop out of it
  • food - nothing but the best maccas happy meal for me of course (because you don't want to spring for a regular meal until you know I will put out)
Have I missed anything out Crazy person and SB?


Domcypher - it sounds like you and your girl friend are having fun with each other, keep doing that and introducing things slowly.  Let us know how things go


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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/28/2010 5:12:45 AM   
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- talk to her while you're nailing her..


swoons....the last of the true romantics



Dear god! Did I type that, and I was sure I'd typed "while you're making sweet, sweet music.."


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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/28/2010 9:16:42 AM   
wandersalone


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ORIGINAL: crazyml


quote:

ORIGINAL: wandersalone

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

- talk to her while you're nailing her..


swoons....the last of the true romantics



Dear god! Did I type that, and I was sure I'd typed "while you're making sweet, sweet music.."




too little too late Crazyperson, you are now officially off my "to do" list (buggar, and he was one of the few that can spell as well)


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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/28/2010 12:37:05 PM   
BoundDragon


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Status: offline 		I think you are totally right with the sensory play idea... Its how I first ventured into the lifestyle I suppose.
The ice cube in the mouth will be perfect.
The other thing is if you get her worked up enough you'll be able to see if she begs for you on her own, with you telling her to beg.

Switch between hot & cold... so the ice cube plus something hot (well warm) rather than wax maybe take it a step down a bit and just use a massage oil you can heat up. Switch between the two and see if that flicks a switch.

Right... I'm gonna stop writing now otherwise I'll have to dig the ice cube tray out of the back of the cupboard.
*mops forehead*

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/31/2010 1:43:01 PM   
domcypher


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Status: offline 		Just thought I'd add a little update, for anyone that cares. Went well. decided to keep it pretty low key on the kink. Well last night during some amazing sex she asked me to choke her. Needless to say I was quite surprised. Afterwards we talked about it and said she'd always wanted it but no one had ever done it. We talked about a few other things, turns out she is quite the kinky girl. She likes that I spank her and pull her hair, and shes very into trying bondage! Win.

Thanks everyone that contributed, I very much appreciate all the help and advice.

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/31/2010 3:08:41 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		Sutcher her labia closed then use a knife to carve your initials in her back and use the blood for anal lube.

Its always worked for me...

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/31/2010 3:17:46 PM   
lizi


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Just thought I'd add a little update, for anyone that cares. Went well. decided to keep it pretty low key on the kink. Well last night during some amazing sex she asked me to choke her. Needless to say I was quite surprised. Afterwards we talked about it and said she'd always wanted it but no one had ever done it. We talked about a few other things, turns out she is quite the kinky girl. She likes that I spank her and pull her hair, and shes very into trying bondage! Win.

Thanks everyone that contributed, I very much appreciate all the help and advice.



Glad it worked out to be a success...thanks for the update 

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 5/31/2010 8:36:15 PM   
lucylucy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domcypher
Just thought I'd add a little update, for anyone that cares. Went well. decided to keep it pretty low key on the kink. Well last night during some amazing sex she asked me to choke her. Needless to say I was quite surprised. Afterwards we talked about it and said she'd always wanted it but no one had ever done it. We talked about a few other things, turns out she is quite the kinky girl. She likes that I spank her and pull her hair, and shes very into trying bondage! Win.

Nice! Glad it went well, and thanks for the update. I was kind of wondering how things went.

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 6/1/2010 12:30:01 AM   
domcypher


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Status: offline 		Lucy, thanks for the advice! I'm sure you'll be hearing more from me in the coming months ;)

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 6/1/2010 5:17:21 AM   
wandersalone


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Status: offline 		wow how fantastic for you (and for your girlfriend) 

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 6/1/2010 6:32:32 AM   
sunshinemiss


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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 6/1/2010 9:31:11 AM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: wandersalone




quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

- talk to her while you're nailing her..



quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum
Damnnnnnnnn That is precisly what I was thinking. After I shoot my spouge <Man gravy> all over myself... One of my better lines is... " Lap it up like a good bitch"

BadOne


sighs....I have a dilemma.... I want to throw myself at both of you .... my heart is racing at the thought of romantic interludes with either of you .....  I can see it now

  • flowers (probably stolen from a grave)
  • mood lighting - the blue shadow of the computer screen open to your favourite hook up site still open while you woo me just in case things don't work out
  • wine - cheap and nasty in a cask...and yes, you will of course take the bladder out of the cardboard box when it is nearly empty to ensure you squeeze every last drop out of it
  • food - nothing but the best maccas happy meal for me of course (because you don't want to spring for a regular meal until you know I will put out)
Have I missed anything out Crazy person and SB?


Domcypher - it sounds like you and your girl friend are having fun with each other, keep doing that and introducing things slowly.  Let us know how things go



Damn do "I" know how to turn a girl on or what??? You musta been peeking over my shoulder knowing my checklist like you do. One of the parts you left out was when I utter/moan "oh YES I love my bitch" as I shoot my spooge all over your face... which would be your happy meal.

Just saying BadOne



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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 6/1/2010 9:59:28 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Awesome! Go grasshopper... there is nothing more we can teach you here ;-)

- Seriously, nice one man.

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 6/1/2010 12:12:47 PM   
SailingBum


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oo little too late Crazyperson, you are now officially off my "to do" list (buggar, and he was one of the few that can spell as well)




Duuuude,

I gotta tell you...dat wandering bitch you could had one smoking hot night with... but "Oh no" you had to go and ruin EveryFuckingThing whilst being romantic.....Now I get the wandering slut all to myself... Film at 11

I almost i did say "almost" feel like bringing da crazyone along and showing him how it's done. But why do I wanna give away my trade secrets??? ehhh maybe the "highlite reel"

BadOne

< Message edited by SailingBum -- 6/1/2010 12:18:00 PM >

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RE: bringing the new gf in. - 6/1/2010 2:48:53 PM   
wandersalone


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Damn do "I" know how to turn a girl on or what??? You musta been peeking over my shoulder knowing my checklist like you do. One of the parts you left out was when I utter/moan "oh YES I love my bitch" as I shoot my spooge all over your face... which would be your happy meal.

Just saying BadOne




.... ok that's it, I am jumping on a plane.  I have found the one weal twue womantic Domly type for me, screw the hearts and flowers, give me spooge and a happy meal!!!!

DomCypher.....I would like to thank you for bringing the Boat Person to my attention

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