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Lockit -> RE: Just when I thought I had heard everything (5/26/2010 12:22:27 PM)
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It was so much simpler back when the guys suggested to the other guys that wanted sex, to just tell her you love her. I actually think some hold classes over beers at a pub, to figure out how best to get what they want without having to go through much of anything. When I was sixteen and already with my first husband, but not married, my elderly aunt decided to give me a little talking to. She said; Lockit if you are giving the milk away for free, they won't buy the cow. I took offense to that, but after watching enough of these bulls, in a sense, I have to agree with her.
With so many giving it away on the just tell her you love her theory and not before they have proven they plan to be there for whatever dynamic's or relationship one seeks, the promises, the ploys, the game/hunt, works. Little effort to get the goods and they are down the road as soon as the little mama figures it out.
I have a little test and yes I do test people who wish to enter my life and only two have passed it and one skidded around it so well I was fooled. lol Good lesson for me!
That, I need time to trust and it will take me some time to be able to see if a dominant is the one for me bit sounds all good, but it is a ploy most often to get more time to play before they actually have to do something they never intended to do anyway. I figure if they can't take the time and rephrased for some of them... do the time... to know me, trust me and all that jazz, well I don't play with the lil bits they want me to play with. They have no problem trusting or giving up the bits, but get stuck on whatever it is a dominant would really want besides the lil bits. lol And they will say just about anything to get it.
I'll never forget the first time a guy tried that, I love you bit to try to get some and I laughed so hard I nearly fell off the sofa. I might have given it to him had he not said that! It's been a ride of laughter since then seeing how low they will go to make something happen. It is the exact reason I stopped handing it out! Had they shut up after saying I really want to do you, they might have gotten to do me. But when they put conditions into it, they gave themselves away and even the little slut in me was turned off because of the mind game. I'm supposed to be the manipulator! lol
The more creative one's do make me laugh and I use them for that, but that is about as far as anything goes. Thanks for the laugh buddy, now it's time to check out itunes, see ya!
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