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toyboyslut4u -> public humiliation (5/27/2010 3:23:26 AM)
i am a newly owned sub slaveboi, i understand that public humiliation is a part of bdsm routines, is it true? i like being publicly humiliated but know very few ways of being humiliated and used in this way. can anyone tell me a few ways to attain this as i would be very interested in being publicly recognised as my master's slaveboi..

DarkSteven -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 4:53:50 AM)
1. It is a part of some BDSM relationships, but certainly not all. I doubt that it is present in a majority of them. 2. Your Master will tell you how he wishes to be served. That's the basic rule. 3, Congratulations on your recent collaring!

sirsholly -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 5:03:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: toyboyslut4u i understand that public humiliation is a part of bdsm routines, is it true? i like being publicly humiliated but know very few ways of being humiliated and used in this way. can anyone tell me a few ways to attain this as i would be very interested in being publicly recognised as my master's slaveboi.. Certainly it is done, but i would hardly say it is a part of every dynamic. Where as you might enjoy public humiliation it is not a good thing when you subject others to you kink who have no desire to be a part of it. In other words...being led by a leash in Walmart, or kneeling at the feet of your Master in McDonalds, etc., is involving all that witness your behavior.

xxblushesxx -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 5:14:34 AM)
psssttt...Holly...he's looking for wank material!! Give the guy a break!

sirsholly -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 7:57:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx psssttt...Holly...he's looking for wank material!! Give the guy a break! oh hell.....i thorry!!![:(]

VeryNastyDom -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 10:34:49 AM)
Humiliation is like tickling yourself; it doesn't work. It happens when your Master puts you into a space where you are very uncomfortable on a moments notice; it is not something you can plan. Be a good little slave and take what he dishes out when he desires it to be so. I also agree with Holly that the place needs to be right. Most large cities have "kink friendly" neighborhoods where this sort of thing is perfectly fine, especially late at night on a Saturday. However, we shouldn't impose our lifestyle choices on our vanilla friends lest they try to do the same to us.

domcypher -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 5:52:58 PM)
Research on humiliation is not the responsibility of the submissive, it is that of the master, in my opinion. But, I highly doubt we'll see this "boi" again so.. moot point.

Jeffff -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 5:54:27 PM)
If you spend enough time here and read enough posts, you would assume a great many folks are into public humiliation.

DarkSteven -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 8:17:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: toyboyslut4u i understand that public humiliation is a part of bdsm routines, is it true? i like being publicly humiliated but know very few ways of being humiliated and used in this way. can anyone tell me a few ways to attain this as i would be very interested in being publicly recognised as my master's slaveboi.. Certainly it is done, but i would hardly say it is a part of every dynamic. Where as you might enjoy public humiliation it is not a good thing when you subject others to you kink who have no desire to be a part of it. In other words...being led by a leash in Walmart, or kneeling at the feet of your Master in McDonalds, etc., is involving all that witness your behavior. If they're already at Wal Mart or McDonald's, then they're sharing in the humiliation as well. Oh, you meant that the leash/kneel;ng was supposed to be the humiliating part? My mistake.

LadyPact -> RE: public humiliation (5/27/2010 8:52:52 PM)
Hold it. You belong to your Master. Why don't you know his thoughts on public humiliation?

toyboyslut4u -> RE: public humiliation (5/28/2010 2:33:06 AM)
i thank all of u..i surely have learned a lot about humiliation and also that it shall be taught to me by my Master in due course of time...i have been rightfully punished for my hurry to learn things that i am not ready for...i have also been commanded to render my apologies to anyone who were hurt or affected by my post....i sincerely apologise for it.

reynardfox -> RE: public humiliation (5/28/2010 3:15:37 AM)
Do what He tells you, when and where he tells you to, and don't open your mouth unless he wants to use it. Have you got his permission to write this inane drivel? It's a trip to the Masters study for you Boy.

toyboyslut4u -> RE: public humiliation (5/28/2010 3:27:04 AM)
yes sir thank u sir, i think i have learned my lesson about not to take matters in my hands... am in punishment for it and have to reply and apologise to u too for disturbing u and letting such trivial matters affect me.. thank you sir

Focus50 -> RE: public humiliation (5/28/2010 4:46:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: toyboyslut4u i am a newly owned sub slaveboi, i understand that public humiliation is a part of bdsm routines, is it true? i like being publicly humiliated but know very few ways of being humiliated and used in this way. can anyone tell me a few ways to attain this as i would be very interested in being publicly recognised as my master's slaveboi.. There are things I do to my girl, or have her do, that an ignorant outsider might regard as humiliating to her. But I don't and I'd never humiliate her publically anyway; so the outsider's perspective is irrelevant. If you enjoy public humiliation then I'd interpret that as meaning you're an exhibitionist, or maybe have some sort of self-worth issue. Neither are qualities that would attract my interest as a Dom. Focus.

maskslut -> RE: public humiliation (5/28/2010 5:35:37 AM)
well public humilliation does not need exactly to be very very explicit, for example if i had a plug up my ass, and went for a walk with my Mentor it would be embarresing to me, He would know it, but at the same time not embarressing the people around us... or depending on the city, or the person, walking with a very short skirt with no underwear is embarring... and so on...

DesFIP -> RE: public humiliation (5/28/2010 12:23:00 PM)
Don't do this where strangers have to see it. You want to be humiliated in public, then go ring your grandmother's doorbell in assless chaps, collar and leash, on your knees. Oh, you don't want to deal with the fallout from being publicly known as his bitchboi? Well, then don't force it on the rest of us either.

KYsissy -> RE: public humiliation (5/28/2010 12:41:47 PM)
quote: assless chaps Is there any other kind?

domincalifornia -> RE: public humiliation (5/29/2010 9:20:44 AM)
BDSM routines aren't routine. There are certainly activities that are pretty common -- collars and leashes -- but nothing is absolute. Lots of people don't like public play and prefer to keep this private. Lots of people don't like humiliation. This isn't one size fits all.

GinoVega -> RE: public humiliation (5/30/2010 11:40:25 PM)
Like most have said, some people do it but that doesn't mean it's a required part of the lifestyle. Some BDSM couples actually look down on public humiliation. Like me, some people find it un-classy and deplorable.

GraciousLady -> RE: public humiliation (5/31/2010 6:17:02 AM)
It's to early for me to be seeing this fantasy crap

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