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wednesdayschild -> I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 3:45:48 PM)
Okay, I should maybe not have written this post .... turns out he is legit, and his phone/car troubles were legit ... is there any way to delete this original post?

Level -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 3:51:31 PM)
quote: blah blah blah blah .... Indeed.

pahunkboy -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 3:51:50 PM)
Ill get the popcorn.

LadyAngelika -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 3:56:10 PM)
quote: So I get myself all dolled up -- and I do look gorgeous, let me tell you! -- and 6:00 comes The man is obviously a douche and you are better off without him. That said, it's 6pm on a Friday and you are all dolled up? Get off this message board and go out girl! Stop waiting for the world to come to you and go get it! - LA

DarkSteven -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 3:57:08 PM)
It happens. Sorry. The whole thing sounded legit, up to the point where he bought a car. I suspect that he may be married. Something's just fishy. Well, hell, check another off the list... on to the next Dom.

RedMagic1 -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 3:57:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika That said, it's 6pm on a Friday and you are all dolled up? Get off this message board and go out girl! Stop waiting for the world to come to you and go get it! Yeah! You viewed me a day or two back. Where do you live? I'll pick you up! And then... we'll stop by LA's![;)]

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 3:59:10 PM)
Dont put in any extra effort for a first meet? dont get all "dolled" up. I meet people how i normally dress I dont go out of my way to dress special for them in case i do get stood up, then i can just grab my green tea frap enjoy it in the sunlight and go about my night

pahunkboy -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 3:59:51 PM)
i blew someone off tonight. Not quite like that. I want a morning date.

UniqueRaven -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:00:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven It happens. Sorry. The whole thing sounded legit, up to the point where he bought a car. I suspect that he may be married. Something's just fishy. Well, hell, check another off the list... on to the next Dom. i caught that too. Did he not have a car? Was he renting a car just for your date? So then he bought one for your date and then didn't pick you up? Not doubting your story, just really confusing. Unfortunately this stuff happens to all of us. Smile and be happy it happened now and not farther into the future. [;)]

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:03:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pahunkboy i blew someone off tonight. Not quite like that. I want a morning date. (I Work night shift... Morning dates are night dates to me :P)

laurell3 -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:04:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika That said, it's 6pm on a Friday and you are all dolled up? Get off this message board and go out girl! Stop waiting for the world to come to you and go get it! Yeah! You viewed me a day or two back. Where do you live? I'll pick you up! And then... we'll stop by LA's![;)] She's in ohio, you better start driving! I'm sorry OP, it happens all the time though. The problem with the internet is the lack of accountability by some makes it sort of a mine field for dating. Hang in there! and I agree with LA, go out!

LadyAngelika -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:08:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance Dont put in any extra effort for a first meet? dont get all "dolled" up. I meet people how i normally dress I dont go out of my way to dress special for them in case i do get stood up, then i can just grab my green tea frap enjoy it in the sunlight and go about my night I slightly disagree with you. I always put effort in my appearance, not tons because I don't need to put tons, but always some. I always have a back up plan as well, to meet up with friends that might be somewhere. One night a few years ago, I got dressed up to the nines not only because I had a first date but because I actually felt like it and we were meeting somewhere posh late on a Saturday night for a cocktail (I hate being under-dressed). The guy ended up being some pompous blowhard who came on way to strong (one of his lines was actually "I'm already imagining what you are like in bed") and so I stuck him with the bill for a $22 Martini and walked out. I went across the street to another bar because I looked too damn hot to go home and sat next to the man that I would have one of the most phenomenal relationships with. My motto is to give life all I've got, because after all, I only have one. - LA

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:12:04 PM)
I always put effort into my appearence as well, As i said, I dont go out of my way, I dress normally in my usual clothing that is flattering to my figure and my normal make up... but i dont spend 2 hours getting ready for a date, it just seems wasteful,

pahunkboy -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:14:19 PM)
maybe the car has nothing to do with you. his old car went bad- and he is scrambling to fix a way to work.

LadyAngelika -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:22:13 PM)
quote: I always put effort into my appearence as well, As i said, I dont go out of my way, I dress normally in my usual clothing that is flattering to my figure and my normal make up... but i dont spend 2 hours getting ready for a date, it just seems wasteful, I don't spend 2 hours getting ready for anything. I can style my hair and put on light make up, dab a little perfume, slip into a dress and heels in under 15 minutes. I learned this in my 20s with my friends and their last minute late night clubbing calls! - LA

wednesdayschild -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:22:21 PM)
LA and others who said I should go out since I'm all dressed up -- I already sent the babysitter home! Silly me! But then, there's not much to do in this town by myself anyway .... And I have no cigarettes because I thought I was going out and was going to buy a pack while I was out ... then sent the babysitter home without thinking to run buy smokes first ...and now the kids are asleep for the night .... I haven't a clue how to get through an entire night without smoking. Any local Doms want to pick me up a pack of Camel Silver and stop in and say hello? Ha! Just kidding. <sigh> Thanks for all your comments -- you're all lovely!

LadyAngelika -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:24:43 PM)
quote: LA and others who said I should go out since I'm all dressed up -- I already sent the babysitter home! Silly me! Well we live and learn! Honestly, sorry it didn't work out. See this perhaps as a saving grace. - LA

lally2 -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:36:51 PM)
actually, you know what life happens - and one of the worst feelings is when 'life' hits youre fan and you know youre going to have to blow someone out and you know theyre going to think exactly what you thought right there and it doesnt matter how sincere you are, theyre still going to think that. recently, well this week i was supposed to meet up and i went down with a disgusting cold, my car has broken down too as it happens and i had to cancel. happily and thankfully He didnt see it as me trying to duck out. hate to say it, but you might have just done youreself out of someone simply by being overly sensitive and suspicious.

wednesdayschild -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:39:50 PM)
lally2, you're absolutely right ... I may have just ruined a good thing because I was being overly sensitive and suspicious!! my impulsive nature will be the death of me ...

pahunkboy -> RE: I just got stood up!! (5/28/2010 4:53:04 PM)
I am guilty tho of ducking of. I been stringing a guy along for 3 weeks now. Tho it would help if he was more talkative. as in ANSWER my question. rather then just pose his question.

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