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Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 4:45:21 PM   
SocratesNot


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Status: offline 		Do you ever play competitive games with your Master / Mistress or with your slave?
If you are a slave and you win a game, does it make you "feel" less submissive?
If you are a Master / Mistress and the slave defeats you, do you feel that your authority is endangered?
If you are a slave, do you let your Master / Mistress win, even if you can defeat him / her?

Games in this category include pool, tennis, golf, table tennis, chess, poker, bridge, PES, etc.


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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 4:58:57 PM   
Elisabella


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Status: offline 		I love playing competitive games with my husband. Mostly in the form of computer games. I never let him win, and I don't feel less submissive if I win because the reason I submit to him is not his skill at games. After competing awhile we tend to team up and work together in awesome ways.

He totally owns me at pool but I'm much better at online Wheel of Fortune.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 5:00:55 PM   
catize


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Status: offline 		In my book, games are won by skill and sometimes luck. It's a game! I would have no respect for anyone who expected me to throw the game to boost their ego. That would be a sham, a pretense, and wouldn't be worth much at all.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 5:16:20 PM   
leadership527


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No - Carol doesn't "feel" submissive.
No - nothing can endanger my authority but myself
No - and if she did, she'd get a stern talking to.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 5:25:29 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

Do you ever play competitive games with your Master / Mistress or with your slave?


Yeah I love it.

quote:

If you are a slave and you win a game, does it make you "feel" less submissive?


Not at all

quote:

If you are a slave, do you let your Master / Mistress win, even if you can defeat him / her?


Nope. I play to win.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 5:52:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a very competitive spirit.

I love force play, I love games, I love fighting, I love winning.

But I love getting permission to do those things first more.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 7:59:21 PM   
noor


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Status: offline 		my master and i have a lot of fun playing competitive games from time to time. we usually just try to beat each other at finishing the crossword but every now and then we'll play cards - we used to do it more often. i'm normally not a very competitive person at all but when it comes to board games and card games i have a bitch streak - and i curse a -lot.- but it's all in fun and usually he knows that so it's not an issue :) it definitely doesn't make me less submissive or him less dominant, and i've never let him win at anything if i can help it ;) aside from board games and card games (and sometimes computer games...and beating him to finishing the crossword puzzle), i'm usually not very competitive, though. he's better at crossword puzzles (more practice) and i usually wipe the floor with him at cards.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 8:26:04 PM   
LittleBroken


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I have a very competitive spirit.

I love force play, I love games, I love fighting, I love winning.

But I love getting permission to do those things first more.


+1.
During ball games like rugby or Football I've been known to drop the shoulder and step in.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 8:33:10 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I expect my s type to give her all, including during games.  If my ego gets offended at her beating me fair and square, what kind of Dom would I be? That said, if I found her to cheat, that would bother me.


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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 8:39:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you ever play competitive games with your Master / Mistress or with your slave?
If you are a slave, do you let your Master / Mistress win, even if you can defeat him / her?



i don't think that it would challenge her dominance if i won, but i have lost on purpose before.  Probably more often than i've tried to win.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/30/2010 8:51:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you ever play competitive games with your Master / Mistress or with your slave?
If you are a slave and you win a game, does it make you "feel" less submissive?
If you are a Master / Mistress and the slave defeats you, do you feel that your authority is endangered?
If you are a slave, do you let your Master / Mistress win, even if you can defeat him / her?




Yes, we play cribbage, hearts, pinochle
What in the hell does winning a game have to do with submission
i am not a master
Why would I do something that silly?  He is NOT a child.  He is an adult and I treat him as such.  sheeshhhh



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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 11:19:23 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Miniature golf is a competitive sport here. And for some odd reason, we had a streak where the person scoring would always win the game. But it was mainly fun, not mainly competition. I'm never interested in win/lose, always want a win/win ending. However if I had to throw games so he didn't feel bad, then I would haven't been able to submit to him. He's more than secure in himself to know the difference from a game and real life.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 12:53:38 PM   
Andalusite


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Status: offline 		I enjoy playing competitive games, and it has no implications of power or authority. I think it might be fun to have a different consequence or reward for each game I win (or for major milestones within the game) and different ones for any I lose. It might be more practical to do the punishments and rewards afterward, or he might be amused by my getting worse and worse as I got into subspace or was processing pain, for example. Using a submissive as a scoreboard (whether or not I was the target) would be funny - we could use different colored clamps, for example.

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 3:17:02 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		What on earth does one have to do with the other?

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 3:24:14 PM   
SocratesNot


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quote:

I enjoy playing competitive games, and it has no implications of power or authority. I think it might be fun to have a different consequence or reward for each game I win (or for major milestones within the game) and different ones for any I lose. It might be more practical to do the punishments and rewards afterward, or he might be amused by my getting worse and worse as I got into subspace or was processing pain, for example. Using a submissive as a scoreboard (whether or not I was the target) would be funny - we could use different colored clamps, for example.


Wow Andalusite, you have really hot ideas.


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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 3:34:22 PM   
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NA

NO

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 5:23:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

i don't think that it would challenge her dominance if i won, but i have lost on purpose before.  Probably more often than i've tried to win.

That attitude would so not fly here. If I can't have your arse at gin rummy fair and square then I do not want it.



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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 6:15:38 PM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

i don't think that it would challenge her dominance if i won, but i have lost on purpose before.  Probably more often than i've tried to win.

That attitude would so not fly here. If I can't have your arse at gin rummy fair and square then I do not want it.




Well, if you challenged me to play strip gin rummy, i can assure you that i'd try to win.  i'm curious to see what other tattoos you have.  Heck, i might even cheat. 

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 6:42:23 PM   
blackpearl81


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Status: offline 		Unfortunately, there's only a handful of games that I play that Dom/mes play. Come to think of it, the *only* game that I've played with like minded people (read: kink related people) is/was World of Warcraft, and City of Villains/Heroes

But hey, if any Dom/mes like playing Call of Duty 4, Call of Duty: World at War (Nazi Zombies), Checkers or Chess, feel free to hit me up

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RE: Masters and slaves playing competitive games - 5/31/2010 10:50:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you ever play competitive games with your Master / Mistress or with your slave?
If you are a slave and you win a game, does it make you "feel" less submissive?
If you are a Master / Mistress and the slave defeats you, do you feel that your authority is endangered?
If you are a slave, do you let your Master / Mistress win, even if you can defeat him / her?

Games in this category include pool, tennis, golf, table tennis, chess, poker, bridge, PES, etc.



Well his daughter kicked both our asses at Monopoly once.  It was ugly - a complete slaughter.

We both submit to her after that. 


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