RE: Do I or Don't I?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Do I or Don't I?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: Do I or Don't I?

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Do I or Don't I? - 4/11/2006 2:54:04 PM

collegebeauty

Posts: 41
Joined: 2/27/2006
Status: offline

I had a Dom once tell me that he thigns that I'm not "just a sub" that I'm really, and truly a slave, wanting my every movement controlled. Now, I'm a very independant person, and I like to be IN CHARGE on occasion (usually I express this in my work). He began, over time, asking me to do more and more rediculous things - I wasn't allowed to drive over a certain speed (which was under the speedlimit), if he called and I didn't answer, regardless of the reason, I punished, I wasn't living with him at the time, I was serving he and his wife on a WEEKEND ONLY basis, yet he made all these rules for my life. It didn't take very long for me to say "get lost."

Coincidentally, he didn't try to tell me "you're not really a sub." He just attempts to slander my name to everyone he can get to in the community in our area. Fortunately, I also have friends in the community and my integrity, reputation and personality can stand up for themselves. I've only ever had "Just so you know 'X' is talking trash about you again, but I set him straight" or something along those lines.

_____________________________

Beauty

"I am always doing things I can't do, that's how I get to do them." - Pablo Picasso

"Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you." - Richard Bach

(in reply to TemptingNviceSub)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: Do I or Don't I? - 4/12/2006 1:49:47 AM

acctonthelook

Posts: 245
Joined: 3/28/2006
Status: offline

Touched a memory for me. It was in a Vanilla relationship. For 7yrs I dealt with that. You know my answer...WHATEVER! <<< Raising my hand >>>

Now if it was a Dom who had control over me and I was bound... I'd buy him a key chain recorder and I'd record it for him!!!!!!

No one should forget or interpret your likes/ dislikes, soft/ hard limits.

(in reply to TNstepsout)

Profile

Post #: 22