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Andalusite -> RE: What Is Your Definition Of A "Brat"? (6/1/2010 7:32:40 PM)
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I think that I might have had some difficulties if my former submissive had come across that way. I admit that making the jump from fantasy (that I knew wasn't realistic) to reality made me a little tentative at first, and I tried to err on the side of caution. His integrity, trust, and encouragement for me to explore and see what actually worked for me made it a very easy transition. He was playful and silly, but not in a way that threatened my control of him in the slightest. My femsub playpartner has a fantastic sense of humour, and occasionally enjoys mild physical resistance play, but I wouldn't consider her to bratty. I haven't really played with anyone in between who really was into swearing or intense non-physical resistance play, or who I would call a SAM or a brat. I do know a lot of people who identify that way, who are with people who enjoy that aspect of them.
When I agreed to be a submissive and a slave in my last two relationships, I really liked that they didn't feel threatened by my power or my silliness or my interest in tussling around. I tried to discuss where the line was, and stay well within what they considered to be respectful and acceptable behaviour. In one egalitarian kinky relationship I was involved with in the past, I threw Legos at the guy once, but we were joking around and being silly, and I didn't hurt him at all. I could understand if someone considered that behaviour to be bratty in general.[;)]
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