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Best strap-on for her? - 6/1/2010 2:06:37 PM

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looking for a good strap-on that pleasures her while she uses it on her partner. Preferably one for beginners. Any suggestions?

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/1/2010 2:12:59 PM

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Yes. Have "Her" involved in the shopping process. Not doing so is one of the BIGGEST mistakes that you can make, in My opinion, especially if she is a beginner.

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/1/2010 2:14:49 PM

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I mean what strap-on would you recommend =)

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/1/2010 2:24:07 PM

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Kind of the point. What I would recommend could be far different than what she would like. I can tell you that there are a lot of things to consider when making your first purchase. Size, not just of the toy, but of the woman, too, play a part. Do you want a model with a harness or without one? Price range matters. Would she prefer one that vibrates or one that doesn't? Double ended or not?

The top three going are the Nexus, the Feeldoe, and Doc Johnson's Snap-Loc. That's the simple answer, so we'll get past that. You can shop for them through JT's Stockroom.

Now, something for old Lady Pact in exchange. Please, please, please, for the love of God and all that is sacred and holy, please tell Me that you are not planning to buy her one as a "gift".

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/1/2010 2:43:14 PM

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The "Vac-u-lock" strapon harness has attachemts you can buy that has a double sided attachment, so 2 dildo's/cocks can be put on both sides, when she put's on the harness with thisa attachment, 1 dildo/cock goes inside her & the other side goes in whoever she is is going to be fucking.

www.vac-u-lock.com/detail/1/4/1/144/0/double-dong-plug.html

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/1/2010 2:49:27 PM

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@ladypact no lol not as gift so let your worries fade =). Thank You for your help!

@curbisub ty for the suggestion!

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/1/2010 8:10:57 PM

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I'd just like to note that the best reviewed ones don't have a double dildo shape, they have one coming out the front and one going in at the bottom. so that double sided attachment might not work as well as you think it will.

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/2/2010 10:17:30 AM

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OP
Take a look at the Nexus...
http://www.extremerestraints.com/strap-ons_36/nexus-double-ended-dildo_1818.html
Stout Feeldoe
http://www.extremerestraints.com/strap-ons_36/stout-feeldoe_1400.html

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/2/2010 11:44:51 AM

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Definitely go for a harness. Not only are they easy to clean because all insertables are removable but you can change the size of the dildo. Go for one that has removable metal ring attachments. Leather gives, metal will keep her erect

http://www.sh-womenstore.com/Sex+Toys/Strap-on+Harnesses/Best+Selling+Harnesses/Double_Strap_Harness_Black_Leather.html

Look at lesbian sex toys

This http://www.bondara.co.uk/womens-sex-toys/strap-ons/1500/strapless-strap-on-bend-over-boyfriend.html kind of shape is going to be one of the nearest things you get to a double ended dildo that you can actually use with a strap-on.
Designers really do need to come up with something better.

Personally I find that I don't need anything inside me when I'm using a strap-on. So long as the position of the dildo is putting force in the right places (which it should if properly fitted) then I'm getting off as much as the person on the other end of it is.

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/2/2010 11:48:01 AM

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I'd just like to note that the best reviewed ones don't have a double dildo shape, they have one coming out the front and one going in at the bottom. so that double sided attachment might not work as well as you think it will.

Works pretty good from My angle. I'm betting there are more than a few folks who have this in common with Me would say so. LOL.

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 6/2/2010 8:24:28 PM

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Try getting this one...it has a small battery operated bullet that help stimulate you both.
Using a harness with it is a good idea. Keeping a grip on it with vaginal muscles alone is very tiring.

http://www.passion8.co.uk/Feeldoe-More-by-Tantus/productinfo/80166/

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 9/14/2010 6:52:31 PM

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Sure, but I will need some info first. What size waist does she have? They are not "one size fits all"

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 9/21/2010 4:28:23 PM

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A Feeldoe is by far the best strap-on for a woman hands down my wife loves it.

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 9/26/2010 10:37:35 AM

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A Feeldoe is by far the best strap-on for a woman hands down my wife loves it.

The Feeldoe is not a strap-on. It is a specialized double dong.

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RE: Best strap-on for her? - 10/9/2010 1:51:30 PM

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I personally adore the clear harness - you can find it at The Stockroom for only $28. It's affordable, fits just about everyone and you can tell when it's clean.

If you want her to have "extra" fun, buy her a lovely toy to go insider her while she uses it...

Have fun.

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