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lally2 -> RE: Non masochist 'sub space' (6/3/2010 3:09:04 AM)
i have never experienced sub space through pain, the pain just feels like pain and i dont get that endorphin rush or anything close to it. the catharsis afterwards possibly puts me in a different (settled) place afterwards, but thats about it. i have however experienced a sort of 'spaced- out' feeling from just being with my M and having that happy, kinda vulnerable, safe, enclosed feeling. im not at all sure its possible to reach sub space if youre not the sort of masso that gets off on pain, but good luck trying. [:D]

HisSub1213 -> RE: Non masochist 'sub space' (6/3/2010 10:57:37 AM)
I'm not into heavy pain either. He can put me into space very easily though, sometimes just simply by taking me by the hair and whispering in my ear. For me a lot depends on the mood, what we're doing, our surroundings, etc. I do have good meditative and visualization skills and I'm sure that probably helps to ease me into subspace quickly. I try not to over analyze it and just go with the flow. If it happens it happens if it doesn't, I had fun anyway. ;)

Andalusite -> RE: Non masochist 'sub space' (6/3/2010 5:45:15 PM)
I'm fairly masochistic, but have gone into subspace from having my hair pulled (not hard enough to hurt), wearing a hood, bondage, and other things that didn't involve much or any pain. I had the impression from your OP that you might also be interested in increasing your pain tolerance. Using breathing techniques (somewhat similar to Lamaze), energy play, a more gradual warmup, initiating subspace through a non-pain-related method, and just gradually getting more comfortable over time have all been effective for me in that area.

Malkinius -> RE: Non masochist 'sub space' (6/3/2010 11:03:21 PM)
Greetings loverly.... quote: ORIGINAL: loverly really really hot sex with someone i adore who makes me have lots of orgasms can put me into subspace and has. A former slave I had in training called that "slutspace". She did go into subspace as well and felt that they were almost the same. She preferred the slutspace. <grins> Be well.... Malkinius

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Non masochist 'sub space' (6/4/2010 7:09:53 AM)
~Fast Reply~ Pain doesn't do it for me. AT ALL. Bondage (esp rope), blindfolds and gags, along with the right kind of Domming, will do it. Rope alone can send me into subspace & has lots of times. i can't imagine pain sending me into subspace, it just pisses me off. ~sweetsub~

sugarbabylove -> RE: Non masochist 'sub space' (6/4/2010 4:08:07 PM)
Thank you all - you've been really helpful and given me lots to consider. [8\|]

daddysliloneds -> RE: Non masochist 'sub space' (6/5/2010 9:11:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sugarbabylove I'm not masochistic but would like to 'push' my pain threshold for He, as triggering sub space is something he enjoys. We 'play' a little, but he is considerate of me. Has anyone here experienced a similar situation and, if so, how was it resolved (if at all)? I am happy to clarify if necessary. Thanks [:)] if he wants to send you to subspace so badly, then he needs to find your triggers,not what he assumes is the trigger for everyone in general...i'm a masochist but for me, subspace isn't always connected to pain play; actually, most times it isn't... for me to reach subspace, you have to get into my head; have the ability of making everything from my mind disappear except for you, your voice, and everything that is going on between us at the moment.

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