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willingboy4Domme -> first time being used with a strapon (4/10/2006 2:22:13 PM)
Hello everyone, my Mistress wants to use a strapon on me to "control me" what do i need to do to make sure this is a great experience for both of U/us?

bschwimmer -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/10/2006 2:47:24 PM)
hold tight grab your ankles and breath out

BBBTBW -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/10/2006 3:01:41 PM)
In my experience, I am a DOMINANT. you should do some relaxation exercises like, deep breathing, anal massage, stretching beforehand. I also give my submissives 2 or 3 (depending on the degree of filth) enemas beforehand so that there is no nasty/unsanitary mess. Just know that any anal play will stimulate your colon so if you don't clean the playing field beforehand, you might end of cleaning a HUGE mess afterward.

sublace -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/10/2006 3:05:53 PM)
Practice with different size dildos. The more you do it the better it feels. I love being filled with a strap-on!!!!!!! sublace

DiannaVesta -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/10/2006 3:07:46 PM)
Use good lube. I like AstroGlide. Start small and work your way up. They make anal dildos and plugs for a reason... the design is shaped so it starts in small then gets wider.

willowheart -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/10/2006 3:27:40 PM)
Lube --- lube -- and more lube. Frankly, enemas can leave one rather dried out and more fragile. Truth be told ? The rectum is hollow and fairly empty most of the day. If you have recently "evacuted" the premises, you should be fine. Unless your Mistress and / or you are neat freaks, enemas are not That important. Caution though! Fecal matter and bacteria from there should not go into the vagina or the mouth. E-coli bacterial infections can become a life-threatening issue. Post script: even after having had anal many times, after time goes by I seem to always forget how unbelieveably painful it is at first insert. I am so close to calling "Uncle", but I remind myself of how wonderful it will be when I get through this part of it. If it helps -- hold on to that thought. It will be WONDERFUL ! Post postscript: Oh! one other thing! It helps if the object (penis in mine -- in my case) is used like a vibrator. IE frantically jiggled around. During this time I try to relax and think "OPEN" ' It also helps to slightly push outward anally while it is going inward. Inserting some lube inside beforehand -- beyond both "rings" of muscles. Hope that helps.

willingboy4Domme -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/10/2006 3:32:21 PM)
Thank You all so much i will pass some of these on to Mistress....i am anxiously awaiting my first experience....[:)][:)]

Cloudz -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/10/2006 7:21:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta Use good lube. I like AstroGlide. Start small and work your way up. They make anal dildos and plugs for a reason... the design is shaped so it starts in small then gets wider. Anal eze

PeacefulWarrior -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/21/2006 8:27:40 PM)
In the beginning I was hesitant to engage in anal play but the more I learned the more excited I was to get started. I began with anal beads and the type I use the beads increase in size. Then I move to a small dildo in which I enjoy very much. I would to start playing with a strap on but for now I just prepare by engaging in my own anal play and this is what I suggest for anyone new or curious about anal play.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/21/2006 8:55:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Cloudz quote: ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta Use good lube. I like AstroGlide. Start small and work your way up. They make anal dildos and plugs for a reason... the design is shaped so it starts in small then gets wider. Anal eze Eros, flavorless (and bacteriostatic) lubes is my new favorite line of lubes. [8D] M

Real0ne -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (4/21/2006 11:31:56 PM)
spread em bitch and enjoy the ride!!! Ooouuuuhhhhh dianna has good taste in lube!

SummerRental -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/11/2006 12:27:44 PM)
go to open source sex 29 or if you have iTunes listen to Violet Blue's Open Source Sex 29

Najakcharmer -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/11/2006 2:17:50 PM)
Your domme should become familiar with the phrase, "Lube is a privilege, not a right" if she really wants to get your absolute attention. LOL

HCWT1 -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/12/2006 12:24:54 AM)
I dont see where the element of control comes from.If bound ,once in,enjoy the ride.there maybe some control over body,but the mind can still entertain the activity in what ever way it desires.If unbound, ride that shaft,like youv'e never ridden befor.As far as iv'e ever been able to gather,its all pleasure.

michaelGA2 -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/12/2006 12:31:22 AM)
is the use of a strap-on on a male sub a requirement?

Lashra -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/12/2006 5:21:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 is the use of a strap-on on a male sub a requirement? Depends upon the Domme and what the couple has agreed too. ~Lashra

Proprietrix -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/12/2006 7:43:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 is the use of a strap-on on a male sub a requirement? In my home, it's more of a limit, lol.

michaelGA2 -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/12/2006 9:20:10 AM)
i doubt i have anything to worry about...LOL

Najakcharmer -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/12/2006 10:17:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 is the use of a strap-on on a male sub a requirement? Um, were you looking for the Big Leather Book of Answers that dictates the proper and required terms for everybody's BDSM relationships? I really gotta get around to publishing that book real soon now. Send me $99.95 in advance to reserve your copy. You'll never have to do any of that boring negotiation stuff again, or waste time and energy thinking about what you and your individual partner need to create a healthy, sustainable D/s relationship that works realistically in both of your life circumstances. Think of all the time and energy you can save! Remember, that's just $99.95 to learn how you can get completely fucked up the ass. So reserve yours today! - Mistress Manners This goal can easily be achieved by believing arbitrary crap you read on the Internet from other people who think they can set up rules for other people's D/s relationships. Write your own damn Big Leather Book. There are no shortcuts to negotiating a working D/s relationship between two individuals.

moon69 -> RE: first time being used with a strapon (5/12/2006 10:36:25 AM)
LOL Daaaaaamn! With a response like that .....I'm sure he feels like you actually used a strapon on him!

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