kiwisub12
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Our bdsm play isn't sexual, but it is. When he is beating me , he is aroused. As am i, but there are times when i don't want an orgasm, i want to be beaten into subspace and left alone, and orgasms are over the top, too much in addition to the beating.
the D/s part of our relationship isn't sexual - it just is. It is my pleasure to serve my Sir, and it is his pleasure to receive it. There usually isn't anything sexual about it, but the occasional slap on the butt and pinch on the nipple go a long way to making me love to serve him.
As for where i found my Sir? - on collarme - he was the first one to suggest we meet - within a couple of weeks of me going on-line and putting up a profile. He was local and we met at Barnes and Noble - where i was most comfortable. If you are wanting a real time relationship then fairly quick meetings may weed out those that don't want to meet, just talk about it. And if you meet somewhere public there is no danger to the sub/slave type, so if that is the excuse, then they are full of it. 
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RE: Dom/sub introductions and meetings - 
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