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DarwinsLilHelper -> RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contemporary BDSM? (6/10/2010 5:37:17 PM)
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We had a nearly decade of what I like to refer to as "Fad Sexuality" fueled by the massive niche communications made possible by the coming of age of the internet.
The explosion in communications caused by the internet allowed every shut in dweeb living in moms basement or trailer trash Barbie strait out of her third child support filing on the third different guy...To suddenly be "Edgy" and take on the airs of a sexual pioneer.
The word Lifestyle started being confused with Sexuality by morons who's lives revolved around nothing more important than the narcissistic short term needs between their legs. I like to think of this brand of stupidity as "Identity Fucking". All the School, good works, my children, The people I helped and made their lives better were not my lifestyle...Just who and how I fucked. Thats my lifestyle and legacy...How pathetic.
Oh but wait! It even gets more pathetic a couple of years later when all these self proclaimed pioneers of sexual freedom and enlightenment, who have supposedly freed themselves from the sexual repression and dogma's of religion and morality start making up a whole new set of dogma and repressive rules like we all needed a new BDSM book of etiquette and Sexual Political Correctness. In essence a new BDSM Bible with the words..."We must accept every form of sexual expression no matter how fucked up or dangerous." stenciled in big read letters on the cover.
In the 1950 the church lady's at the PTA wanted to pass judgement on your sexual expression...Now it's a few self appointed idiots, who've been to a two hour BDSM seminar at a MUNCH full of low self esteem fat chicks, that want to lay down the rules of whether your sex life is kosher in a BDSM Chat or Forum.
The Bad news...And also the good news is, That the edgy little fad is fading fast. BDSM websites, chats and online communities are a shadow of their selves five years ago. Online communities that boasted 3000 people online in 2005 now are lucky to have 300 people online. The sexual tourists are leaving fast...On to the next big Edgy thing..."BDSM...Phaff, thats so two years ago."
So basically in a couple of years we'll all have our little sexual niche back like we liked it. Gone will be the little Dungeons and Dragon players with their 10th Edition Complete rules of BDSM and all the idiot internet nebish, sexual predators, with nothing going for them at all, except their need to act like a daddy Dom in the biggest herd of submissive, low self esteem, sheep ever brought together in one valley to be run down and abused....The Internet.
Worry not. All Fads cum to an end.
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