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How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience course? - 4/11/2006 11:00:20 AM   
justmeagain69


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From: Upstate NY
Status: offline 		Ok, now generally I dont air my dirty laundry as it were, but being I have no intention of mentioning the actual name of this particular idiot, I thought I would share the lovely hello message I got this afternoon.  And I quote:

quote:

moron
you want a daddy, yet not one who is the age of your daddy?  sounds like you need some professional help  


Now, please bear in mind that my profile is very (at least in my opinion) specific about what I desire, what I expect and what I will an will not accept.  I can appreciate that as a sub I have less of a "right" to be specific in my desire, but I mean come on.....  I am a moron for knowing what I will be happy with and not?

Now again, I can deal with the idiocy involved in this posting to me and laugh it off as a total joke of pathetic Dom proportions....BUT what is the purpose or the gain for sending a message like this to someone and blocking them after doing so.  Is that because they know the are idiots and dont need me to tell them, or is it merely a "I got nothing better to do then trash someone for knowing what they want." symdrome that affects some of this lifestyle?

I know if I were to be age specific in a "vanilla" profile, nobody would give a second thought to an age limit.  But here?? What is the deal with the dbl standard?

Finally, what is it about a little girl looking for her daddy that has anything at all to do with a specific age set? 

Ok, that was a bit rantish, but I just really wanted to get it off my chest and out of my mind.

Thanks
Bex

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:06:07 AM   
wild1cfl


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Status: offline 		Having been on this site for many years, my wife and I get a lot of messages. WE had one guy from the UK who wanted to be a slave to us. We told him that we do not want anyone from outside the United States only because we have already done that and dealt with all the issues of immigration etc.  This guy would not take no for an answer and e-mailed us at least 2 times a day and asked for chat requests every time one of use would come on. We tried blocking him adn he came back with another name and harrassed us even more. I finally told him that if he continued I would report his profile to the moderators and have him removed.

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:09:04 AM   
IronBear


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From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		Lass the answer is inexpensive.. Ear plugs, shades and the block button........  You deserve better .. 

< Message edited by IronBear -- 4/11/2006 11:10:00 AM >

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:15:30 AM   
Sunshine119


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Joined: 8/8/2005
Status: offline 		Welcome to Collarme.  Too bad you jumped out of the gate and received such a negative response.  Unfortunately you will find here a few men who think they are Doms, but are really just ill tempered men who can't get any in real life and think submissives are all hard up 

Most, thank goodness, are here because they are Dominants and are looking for those of us who recognize that we are submissive.  Just to give equal time to submissives, there are those here who are just looking for a free ride and someone to take care of them, then whine loudly when no one answers.

So, just stick around, post on the message boards as much as you can, and people will recognize who you are.  You might even  find that  "Daddy" reading the boards, who is under 50 and just right for you.


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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:22:10 AM   
lesliee


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Status: offline 		My best suggestions; 1. use the block option and 2. count to ten move on or 3. send a wonderfully sarcastic msg right back at 'im.

Always,
lesliee

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:30:26 AM   
caitlyn


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Status: offline 		Ten to twenty percent of the email you get will have "issues." Better to just delete them and move on.
 
I also feel that the whole "Daddy/daughter" lifestyle choice is something that many people struggle with ... it probably does constant battle with their tolerance level.
 
Some win the battle and keep feelings to themselves ... some lose the battle and perhaps send angry email.

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:35:02 AM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		" is there a patience course? "
I've good news for you!!  Yes there is a course like that and your already enrolled!  Your ~Idiot~ was your first test... I'm sure you'll do much better
on all the following tests............

Welcome to the Club.....

Q

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:43:31 AM   
NothingNew19


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Status: offline 		now this is classic. that message sounds vaguely familiar...ah yes, i'd say i've received about a million of that same message just from a wide variety of boneheads. i find it actually quite amusing to post a mocking journal entry on the most notable of them. if he reads it, he'll know who he is. best of luck! 

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:46:05 AM   
justmeagain69


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quote:

  3. send a wonderfully sarcastic msg right back at 'im.



That is the part that is just bugging the bejeesus outta me.  The bastard blocked me after sending the stupid message, so all my wonderful sarcasm and dry wit (of which I have an abundance) has no place to go.  Seems he is full of advice and wants none in return... Too bad too, I had a great vacation spot to suggest to him too.  *pout*



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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 11:49:54 AM   
caitlyn


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Status: offline 		The new profile picture is pretty cool Q ... but you really ought to right justify the profile text to get the full effect.

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 1:35:11 PM   
MasterRenegade77


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From: Upstate N.Y. (Broome Co.)
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Idiots & assholes abound on the internet unfortunately
CM  has been endowed w/more than it's share...
Ya Just gotta put them in a
"Pay'em No Mind List...

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 3:12:02 PM   
enthralled


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From: Nashville, Tn
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quote:

I can appreciate that as a sub I have less of a "right" to be specific in my desire, . . .


Why in the world would you have less of a right?? You're not collared, you're your own person, and right up until the day you ARE collared, you absolutely have every right to be as specific with anything your heart desires! Uhmmm . . . unless you ask for a Dom/Master with a certain number of hairs on his head, *whispers* then that may be a lil much! . . . lol
You're better than the reply he gave you. . . pay it no mind
 
Respectfully,
enthralled


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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 3:12:44 PM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: justmeagain69

I can appreciate that as a sub I have less of a "right" to be specific in my desire, but I mean come on.....  I am a moron for knowing what I will be happy with and not?



Just me, welcome to dealing with idiots 101. LOL I have to agree with the others thus far. But I want to ask you one thing about your post. The quote I have above. Why? Why is it that you less than a right to inform of your likes and dislikes? Are you owned already?  I personally think only a moron would not post their likes and dislikes. Specially in their profile,,, and more so if NOT owned. But even if owned. Those that are post what they don't want... and that's for others not to seek them out because they're owned already. Enjoy your stay here.. and welcome to the boards.

Jessica


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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 3:13:42 PM   
IronBear


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From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		Nowhere as many as on alt.com though there are hundreds of doozies there.... 

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 3:21:18 PM   
scratchingpost


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Status: offline 		rant away sub/slave or not you deserve to be respected and to find what completes you. too many idiots think carrying a whip makes them a dominant...there is a difference being a Master and being just a horny sadistic bully. Be true to who you are and what you desire and never be a door mat (unless tht si what pleases you)

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 3:27:05 PM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: justmeagain69
I can appreciate that as a sub I have less of a "right" to be specific in my desire,

Bex



<<<Walks over to the girl, picks her up and places her on chair facing white board and writes in large letters:>>>

”You have the same right as every CM member to be specific in your desire!  No more! No Less!"

Now young lady you copy that to a large sheet of card and place it above your computer so you can see it every time some arse-hole tries to tell you different.. .

< Message edited by IronBear -- 4/11/2006 3:28:06 PM >

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 3:33:18 PM   
Zenonis


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Status: offline 		   Everyone has the right to say what they really want on here. I thought that your profile was detailed and showed care in deciding what you wanted to make you happy. After all, how can you find it if you don't know what you want?
  Lots of idiots out there in cyberland, just like the interstate on a holiday weekend. Only thing I see is that you did not set a age range for you prospective Daddy. Might help... but knowing some idiots they would complain about that.
When I have looked at BDSM or vanilla ads, things like age ranges or height or any thing else that a person really needs I just treat as information. If a sub wants a 6 foot tall Dom, so be it. It does not offend me. I then would know that exploring some thing with her would not go, being I am 4 inches lower than that... lol.


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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 4:35:03 PM   
pandora56


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Status: offline 		In AA they taught us not to pray for patience, then we would just keep getting things in our lives that tried it!  i agree also that alt.com was waaaaaaay worse than here.  Like somehow a picture of your cock is a good reference?  Is that the ONLY thing you have to offer me?  My life has mad a big turnearound lately, and today i try really hard to come from the headspace of, "Who are you that you deserve my submission?"  There are a lot of people that take offense at that.  i ignore them, block them and go on with my life.  If they really piss me off i write a journal entry about them (not specifically of course) after i've blocked them.  Sometimes my evil twin needs to get out and play too!

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 6:06:26 PM   
sweetbbwsub31


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Nowhere as many as on alt.com though there are hundreds of doozies there.... 


You said it IronBear. It takes real effort to sort through all of the alt mess.

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RE: How to deal with idiots.....is there a patience cou... - 4/11/2006 6:12:09 PM   
ScooterTrash


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quote:

ORIGINAL: justmeagain69

quote:

  3. send a wonderfully sarcastic msg right back at 'im.



That is the part that is just bugging the bejeesus outta me.  The bastard blocked me after sending the stupid message, so all my wonderful sarcasm and dry wit (of which I have an abundance) has no place to go.  Seems he is full of advice and wants none in return... Too bad too, I had a great vacation spot to suggest to him too.  *pout*



Not to worry, with any luck he'll read this thread and maybe figure out that the asshole on the stage is him...we can only hope.

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