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velvetcuffs87 -> daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 12:53:59 PM)

Have been interested in  lifestyle for 7-8 months.  Met an online Dom that I was interested in and who lived not to far from me.  I  actuallly thought that i might want to meet him unitl i found out he had a kink for playing daddy, diapers and  all that goes with daddy/kid play.  He did not just volunteer this info. to me but i somewhat pressed him by talking about interest.  This made me feel very uncomfortable so I wrote him off immediately.  I am kinda curious to know if many dominants seek this type of play and is it healthy.  Are dominants who desire daddy/child play prone to be drawn to children and is there a link with this and child molestation?  Looking back i recall that he didnt seem very interested in me physically.  Now i wonder if i possess a quality that draws this type of dominant.  Any advice or  just your thoughts are appreicated.  Thanks, velvet



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 1:00:57 PM)

It's completely healthy just like any kink and does not in any way mean that the person actually wants to be with a child.  Just like enjoying a rape scene does not mean the person would actually rape someone.

There are males who are mommies, females who are daddies, there are guardians, wards, keepers, guides, chaperones, you name it who form particular relationships in the scene.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy%252Cdaughter/tm.htm#259184
Links to 9 threads on Daddy type play




petwolf22 -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 1:08:15 PM)

That's kind of like asking if an interest in adult babies or scat play is healthy, isn't it?  For that matter, enjoying humiliation and being a masochist or sadist?  i think that like most adult babies don't have an interest in actual children, he, being on the other side of that, probably doesn't either (although there are alway exceptions).  It's quite possibly just his kink; and just not yours.  Kinks aren't always sexual, either. 

Why do you think you have a quality that attracts this kind of dominant?  Has this happened before?



velvetcuffs87 -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 1:13:43 PM)

Good point.  This has never happened before but because it is totally not me i will make a point from now on to dig deep to know ones true desires.  Thanks



whitetigerschild -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 1:24:55 PM)

i happen to be an adult baby and my Maser is also known as my Daddy, sometimes people have fun by acting like a child, or in other cases their personality is naturally prone to want a protector like a Daddy or vise versa naturally drawn to want to protect someone, in the same way as if they were their own child.

i must say, that my Master in no way shape or form has ever wished to play with underaged children, and it was not he who started the daddy/ babygirl act between us, it was me.




petcerina -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 1:38:57 PM)

The reason you may have had to press for this information probably was because he thought you would think that it was connected with phedophilia.  This is one reason why Master and i do not advertise to the world that W/we do this is because W/we do not wish to be misunderstood.  They are not prone to being drawn to children.  They are two separate things just like rape and rape play are two separate things as LA mentioned.  Is there a link with age play and child molestation?  Perhaps.  Many subs and slaves are molested, raped or abused when they were younger and that seems even more true for subs and slaves that are into age play, however it is not across the board.  Do you have a quality that draws this type of Dominant?  i have no idea, but i know my playfulness does draw this type of Dominant and i'm happy for it.  i personally believe that playing consistantly below age 6/ kindergarden is not healthy, but that is my own opinion. 



lolipop -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 4:17:38 PM)

Because someone enjoys daddy/daughter, mommy/son or ageplay does NOT mean they would EVER even think of engaging in this sort of actively with actual children. I really enjoy this sort of roleplay, and it's not as if I support child molestation.



cillydom -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 4:20:39 PM)

i believe that most all if not all d/s relationships have a parent, child essence.



cariad -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/11/2006 4:33:58 PM)

girl had a  Dominant online that was into the Daddy/daughter thing and at first this bothered her, but after a while she found herself more and more interested in learning more about it because it was something she had never done before.

girl believes as cillydom Sir believes "that most if not all D/s relationships have a parent/child essence," as she knows that Daddies, Mommy's etc discipline children and when a Dominant punishes or disciplines Their slave/sub it is the same as it would be a child being punished/disciplined....(j.h.o.)



westside -> RE: daddy/child play??? (4/12/2006 7:24:25 AM)

Its a fair question.  The love and power exchange in a fantasy relationship -- dom/ sub, parent / child, whip weilder/ lash reviever are erotic and interesting. But they can also tricky and uncomfortable for some.

Like other play, its consensual and between adults. And like everything else here, some like it, some don't. Pick the kinks you like and enjoy those.

Wes



danreeves -> RE: daddy/child play??? (4/12/2006 8:15:47 AM)

Not really into diapers and daddyplay at all. I am married and to a vanilla woman-very vanilla--any submissives females out there in the same postion??--Please lets chat



Interesdom -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/12/2006 1:49:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: velvetcuffs87
...I am kinda curious to know if many dominants seek this type of play ...

There's not been much that directly responds to this part of your question.

There are two main types of Daddy/lil girl relationship, though as with almost everything connected with relationships, it is not black-and-white but rather shades of grey.  There are those who indulge in age play, where the sub will act and be treated as a much younger child, often pre-pubescent.  The other type of Daddy/lil girl isn't entered on age play at all but is more to do with the parent/child dynamic.  By no means are all dominants into Daddy/lil girl and even fewer are into age play.

As has been indicated, most workable D/s relationships have parallels with the parent/child dynamic, which is itself a power imbalanced relationship, with a carer/controller/dominator and a, er, recipient (I dare not pretend that children are submissive!)  If you think about it, are you sure you want a dominant who controls you but does not also care about you and guide you?  You may find yourself in trouble if you do, unless you manage to form a workable relationship as a slave to a careful owner.

So don't be entirely put off by this early experience.  Leant that, firstly, not all people calling themselves 'dominant' are upfront/honest about what they want from a woman and, secondly, age play isn't your thing but it might be someone else's.



SweetEscravo -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/13/2006 11:16:38 AM)

Honestly, when I first discovered the scene, I was entirely against ageplay.  I couldn't understand why someone would want a daddy, or act like a child.  I couldn't see beyond the Master/slave kink.  However, I now have a daddy of my own and engage in some age play, although there will always be certain limits and lines drawn.  Neither I or my daddy have any desire to act sexually upon children.  I know that this is a weird area for some people, and I know that many people outside of the daddy/mommy dynamic don't understand it, but just because someone enjoys role playing something doesn't mean they actually want to be that person. 



gothicdomnboston -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/13/2006 2:06:00 PM)

I am a DaddyDom and I have my littlegirl slave, agreed this is an area of the lifestyle that many people do not understand and have major judgements. I have met many Mommy/biy, Daddy/girl couples and even a few Uncle/neice couples.....and none of the people I have met condone or would act on children in any way. Quite the opposite Most of the people that enjoy this use it as a way of changing childhood memories and learned behavior/feelings they were instilled with as children. For example, My little one had a very distant father and not much in the way of Male role models to interact with and so she felt abandoned and isolated from men and didnt know how to relate to them. I was brought up in a single parent household without much male mentorship and suffered some childhood abuse and this is a way for me to mentor and raise her the right way and protect her as I was not protected. Psychology is an odd thing, when people start throwing around judgements on other peoples behaviors the question comes back to what do you do and how do others view you in their narrow minded scope?
(that was not aimed at anyone here as I am sure we all realize how society at large views whatever kink we may be into) and yes I agree fuck them, I hate judgemental people! So long as we are SSC, it's all good as far as I am concerned even if your particular kink is not for me more power to you.



fastlane -> RE: daddy/child play??? (4/13/2006 5:29:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: danreeves

Not really into diapers and daddyplay at all. I am married and to a vanilla woman-very vanilla--any submissives females out there in the same postion??--Please lets chat

I don't know about Daddy/baby play, but that fish is obscene.
Is that a real pic?......Coz, if it is, just when I felt safe to go in the water again I have to see that.....YIKES!



Sensualips -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/13/2006 7:41:07 PM)

Also some little girl/daddy relationships are nonsexual.  I know a few little girls that never play in a sexual way when in that mode -- only when the little girl is put to bed do the grown ups play.  For them it is about protection and security and that safe nurtured relationship.

Then again, I know one where the sex play is the best part for her. :)



acctonthelook -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (4/14/2006 5:57:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sensualips
For them it is about protection and security and that safe nurtured relationship.

Then again, I know one where the sex play is the best part for her. :)


I would be one of those women.  Yes I enjoy the warmth, safe, nuturing feel but I like the sexual role play to but only because I feel safe with that Dom.  His attention to me makes me excited because he is a grown up and even though we are 'role playing' as Daddy/ little girl, we still know we are adults.  

I am a grown up who has very real sexual desires for another grown up.  The age play is only play.  Just as a forced rape scene, it's just a scene. 

Mentally you know all these things.  Physically your having fun. 



BillR2 -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (7/26/2006 9:27:32 AM)

I'm one of the spanking "tops" who advertises himself as a "Daddy" and I certainly do not desire or condone any sexual or spanking activities involving real children or underage persons. For me, the distinguishing element of this particular roleplay is that it affords opportunity not just for punishment, but for expressions of forgiveness and reconciliation, and for ongoing loving and caring support. This is what marks it out from other "top" roles, such as Headmaster or irate Boss. When her spanking is over I want to rub and soothe my girl's bottom, I want her to sit on my lap and cuddle while I wipe her tears, I want her to promise to be a good girl in the future, and to know that Daddy's love is still hers always - even if she has been naughty!

My experience does bear out the point that some earlier contributors have made - Girls I have enjoyed such play with, online or real time, seem to have had fairly extreme experiences of real life parenting - their relationships with their fathers were very very good and as grown-ups they miss them, or very bad and as adults they crave that which they missed in childhood. 



NastyDaddy -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (7/26/2006 10:10:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Thread Title

daddy/child plaly???
 


It's looks as if someone is trying to reinvent the wheel... I've heard of Parent/child play and Daddy/daughter or Daddy/little girl play... but I've never heard of Daddy/child play until I read the title of this thread???

Read the link posted by LA to previous discussions of Daddy/Dom roleplay... you will learn something if you do so.

If you tend to attract Daddys/Mommys, simply state a one-liner within your profile that you have no interest in this type of role.

If you do not understand a lifestyle kink... use the philosophy 'your kink is not my kink' as opposed to judging whether the kink which is not your's is based on this or that.... if it's not your kink, it's not your kink... not everybody likes scat and toilet slaves.

 



popeye1250 -> RE: daddy/child plaly??? (7/26/2006 10:40:17 AM)

I'm not into the whole "Baby" Diapers" thing myself but I do consider my sub, "my little girl" without getting into the "Daddy/Daughter" thing if that makes any sense.



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