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Announcement - 4/11/2006 3:02:43 PM   
subapplicant


Posts: 68
Joined: 9/19/2005
Status: offline 		Thank you all for your responses, your kind words, and your honest criticisms.

I have enjoyed being on this site and sharing.

But I have met someone online. We have really hit it off. And she insists that I drop my personal profile.

We have enough of a connection - on a first but deep level - for me to honor her request.

I may be back - but I hope I'm not (she is everything I ever hoped for).

So - to all - be well.

This is the last time I will seek attention!

steven
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RE: Announcement - 4/11/2006 3:08:29 PM   
ShiftedJewel


Posts: 2492
Joined: 12/2/2004
Status: offline 		I'm heartbroken but wish you the very best. Congrats

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RE: Announcement - 4/11/2006 3:17:09 PM   
pollux


Posts: 657
Joined: 7/26/2005
Status: offline 		"I SAID, pull that profile, boy.  Now."

"What?  Before I've had a chance to patent my trademarked CollarMe success methodology?"

"NOW."

ROFL LMFAO


Congrats to you both.

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RE: Announcement - 4/11/2006 5:07:05 PM   
cloudboy


Posts: 7306
Joined: 12/14/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subapplicant

Thank you all for your responses, your kind words, and your honest criticisms.

I have enjoyed being on this site and sharing.

But I have met someone online. We have really hit it off. And she insists that I drop my personal profile.

We have enough of a connection - on a first but deep level - for me to honor her request.

I may be back - but I hope I'm not (she is everything I ever hoped for).

So - to all - be well.

This is the last time I will seek attention!

steven


Fare thee well. It might be interesting, though, for you to come back after gaining experience and tell all of us all what D/S really is, to you at least....

Btw, there is a FRIENDS ONLY option here.

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RE: Announcement - 4/11/2006 7:39:17 PM   
thetammyjo


Posts: 6322
Joined: 9/8/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subapplicant

Thank you all for your responses, your kind words, and your honest criticisms.

I have enjoyed being on this site and sharing.

But I have met someone online. We have really hit it off. And she insists that I drop my personal profile.

We have enough of a connection - on a first but deep level - for me to honor her request.

I may be back - but I hope I'm not (she is everything I ever hoped for).

So - to all - be well.

This is the last time I will seek attention!

steven


Wow, people actually forbid folks from continuing to read and post on here...

It would never ever cross my mind to do so.

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RE: Announcement - 4/11/2006 7:50:45 PM   
Real0ne


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Joined: 10/25/2004
Status: offline 		WTG subapplicant!!  drinks all around!  congrats hope all works out for you!

r1


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RE: Announcement - 4/11/2006 8:10:21 PM   
fergus


Posts: 1110
Joined: 6/22/2005
Status: offline 		I hope we never see you on here again :)

Meaning, I will miss you, but I am hopefull that you will have a long and meaningful relationship with your new friend,

much happiness,
fergus

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RE: Announcement - 4/11/2006 9:39:56 PM   
TeeGO


Posts: 451
Joined: 12/11/2005
Status: offline 		OH yea!!!!

Serious congratulations.  Hope things go well and she lets you back on to tell us how wonderful she is.

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RE: Announcement - 4/11/2006 9:55:55 PM   
proudsub


Posts: 6142
Joined: 1/31/2004
From: Washington
Status: offline 		Hmmm 7 hrs later and the profile is still up, now there's obedience for you.

Hope it all works out for you steven, enjoy your journey.

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RE: Announcement - 4/12/2006 12:02:53 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


Posts: 2822
Joined: 4/11/2004
From: Arizona
Status: offline 		Yes, I still see an altered profile with no pic (almost 24 hours later), and I noticed that the boy is still reading the boards.  Perhaps he is just no longer allowed to post or accept email?
I'm not a big proponent of "online" ownership and cutting people off.  Hopefully this is a transitional phase to real time.
Regardless, I do wish the OP much luck and happiness. 

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They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety
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RE: Announcement - 4/12/2006 12:29:09 PM   
MHOO314


Posts: 3628
Joined: 9/26/2004
Status: offline 		I am with you on this one TammyJo, why deprive him of his right to certain freedoms?  I allow My boy to read all her wants here while he is bound, gagged and blindfolded, never let it be said I take away ALL his freedoms.

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RE: Announcement - 4/12/2006 12:39:14 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

I am with you on this one TammyJo, why deprive him of his right to certain freedoms?  I allow My boy to read all her wants here while he is bound, gagged and blindfolded, never let it be said I take away ALL his freedoms.


LOL!  Do you have little peepholes in the blindfold or have you invested in special software so that the threads can be read to him?

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They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety
B Franklin
Don't blame Me ~ I didn't vote for either of them
The Hidden Kingdom


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RE: Announcement - 4/12/2006 1:59:45 PM   
Proprietrix


Posts: 756
Joined: 7/15/2005
From: Ohio/West Virginia
Status: offline 		I can easily picture myself forbidding one of my subs or slaves to post on a kinky personals site. I would MUCH prefer they spend their time in real life interactions than pecking away at a keyboard. If they had the free time on their hands to just sit and browse internet forums, I'd definitely be giving them something more productive to do. Not necesarilly tending to me either. I may have them join a local real time lifestyle group. And if there wasn't one available, what a great project for them to establish one.
I see moving from the internet to real life interaction as not only a step in one's personal growth, but also as a necessity if one wants to ever "live" the lifestyle instead of just read and type about it. To me, it seems only right, once one has found what they're looking for, to spend time with what they found, and stop looking.
Once I buy the groceries, I go home and eat them. I don't just hang out in the grocery store.

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RE: Announcement - 4/12/2006 2:14:56 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


Posts: 2822
Joined: 4/11/2004
From: Arizona
Status: offline 		I agree that one could and should limit the amount of time spent (sometimes wasted) on boards like this.  jali's Master restricted her.  It is also easier to monitor that sort of thing when your slaves or submissives are living under your roof or very nearby. 
I also don't view this as a "kinky site", although it can be, as much as a lifestyle site.  This is a community, and as such, I do like to stay in touch.  I don't necessarily want to go home and lock My doors just because I might have all the submissives or slaves I need.  (Which I don't by the way...I would hate to give anyone the wrong impression! *S*)  Your suggestion about real time lifestyle groups, or beginning one is certainly an excellent project.  Because, in the end, it does come down to real time vs. cyber time.
You are right in that there are people who depend completely upon the online commmunity for any contact.  Either that is all they want, or they haven't screwed up the courage to get out from behind the safe keyboard. 
The OP has said he met someone online, and he has been instructed... therefore I can only presume that, for right now anyway, this is yet another "online" , and, so far, only online, relationship.
I wouldn't restrict the interaction.  It would give Me a good way to monitor the boy.  And what's to stop him from simply opening a new profile with different stats, no pic, and begin posting away.  Online is very difficult to control.  I admire those who can make it work and are honest and obedient in such a relationship.  Most aren't. 

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 4/12/2006 2:18:15 PM >

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They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety
B Franklin
Don't blame Me ~ I didn't vote for either of them
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RE: Announcement - 4/12/2006 2:23:50 PM   
TeeGO


Posts: 451
Joined: 12/11/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Proprietrix
To me, it seems only right, once one has found what they're looking for, to spend time with what they found, and stop looking.

A lot of what you said is very true and very wise. But this place is far more than a meeting place, looking for a connection. It is about establishing and maintaining friendships, communication, real life experiences with people not in your area. Not to mention intellectual discourse, education through others experience, and personal growth.

Like everything else in life, excess is another story. Perhaps an allotted time limit would be best.

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RE: Announcement - 4/12/2006 7:31:33 PM   
MasterMMistressG


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Joined: 4/4/2006
Status: offline 		I have a 1/2 hour limit for My slave, on Sunday night.  I don't cut her off completely.  Though if she has time like THAT ... then a production other something to do is a good thing.  Suggestions from all around have helped me with that one.



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But rather the judgement that,
Something else is more
Important than Fear.

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RE: Announcement - 4/12/2006 7:51:09 PM   
Cloudz


Posts: 836
Joined: 9/13/2005
Status: offline 		Well, The profile is gone now. I do not restrict my boy from reading the boards. I am not that insecure.

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RE: Announcement - 4/13/2006 4:37:32 AM   
MHOO314


Posts: 3628
Joined: 9/26/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Cloudz

Well, The profile is gone now. I do not restrict my boy from reading the boards. I am not that insecure.


I agree Cloudz, I really find that very insecure, I want the boy to read the boards, that is how he  learns Me and learns in general---what will she do next, not allow him to see real people?
 
pffffffttt.

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RE: Announcement - 4/13/2006 4:56:05 AM   
Proprietrix


Posts: 756
Joined: 7/15/2005
From: Ohio/West Virginia
Status: offline 		tisk tisk.

You're making a judgment call about someone else's "insecurity", based on assumption, with no foundation, when you obviously haven't read up.

If you read through the thread, you'll see that some of us prefer our boys have real live interactions instead of computer time.


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RE: Announcement - 4/13/2006 10:21:22 AM   
GoddessDustyGold


Posts: 2822
Joined: 4/11/2004
From: Arizona
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

tisk tisk.

You're making a judgment call about someone else's "insecurity", based on assumption, with no foundation, when you obviously haven't read up.

If you read through the thread, you'll see that some of us prefer our boys have real live interactions instead of computer time.




I do hope you will understand that I have been enjoying your posts, and I am in much agreement with many things you write.
Although I would not completely cut a boy off,  you also are making a judgement by saying that this site is a waste of time once a boy is collared.  These boards are a great educational tool and, hopefully, engender some good conversation between those who are in current relationships.
As a footnote, it is My experience, and possibly others, that those who cut their boys (or femsubs) off (especially when it is an online relationship) are often (not always 100%)  evidencing some insecurity. If there is enough real time interaction to accomplish the same thing, that is a good thing.  Often there isn't, and it is always nice to share experiences and different points of view on a wider scope.

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They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety
B Franklin
Don't blame Me ~ I didn't vote for either of them
The Hidden Kingdom


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