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murmur -> submitting through internet and webcam...safe or not? (4/11/2006 3:45:03 PM)

The title pretty sums it all. I did submit to a Dom for some time and as it didnt turn out for the best, i just...became more defiant towards Doms who wanted to meet me r/l time and i was just wondering...
Settling for online D/s relationship...is it the best way to learn submission at first? when clubs or bdsm groups only intimidate me? or should i... join groups and learn how to deal with what i know would be real... (cause i could see and ...well, *feel* what's around me, a thing you cannot have online...)
cause trust is really an issue for me.
anyway, just a thought...
thanks

murmur



enthralled -> RE: submitting through internet and webcam...safe or not? (4/11/2006 3:53:46 PM)

Offering a link that I think would be most beneficial for you to read . . . I hope you'll read it and are able find it helpful.


http://www.submissiveloving.com/online.html  

Titles of some of the articles on that page:

Online D/s- Welcome to hell
My number one piece of advice
Advisory Number Two
Reality Check #1
Clue #1
Searching for Mr. Goodchat
Shame On Me
Meeting Online

Respectfully,
enthralled



murmur -> RE: submitting through internet and webcam...safe or not? (4/11/2006 4:00:52 PM)

thanks!!! much much much appreciated !!!



enthralled -> RE: submitting through internet and webcam...safe or not? (4/11/2006 4:12:33 PM)

Here's a couple more I pulled from my files that may help . . . please take care (smiles)


D/s Cyber Relationships of the Wrong Kind
http://www.castlerealm.com/library/jadesoap1.shtml

MasterJohn's explanation of the correct use of the terms "protector, mentor, trainer, and Master" from the classic viewpoint of someone formally trained in the European and Oriental style:
http://www.castlerealm.com/library/masterjohn.shtml
 
Debunking the Myth of Mentors
What are they?  What role do they fill?  Are you being had?
http://www.castlerealm.com/library/april98art.shtml  
 
 



murmur -> RE: submitting through internet and webcam...safe or not? (4/11/2006 4:58:27 PM)

again, thanks a lot!! [:)]



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