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LafayetteLady -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/13/2010 9:20:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Glasgow
So here are some l33t pros and cons:
Pros (of moving out):I am ready to move out. I'm actually a little tired of my house, which I have been living in my entire life. Also, no curfew!The Dom I'm talking to will let me move in with him, rent-free. He also lives alone in a very nice house in a good neighborhood.Being the magnificent age of 18, I'm tired of my parents telling me what to do because I know best, dammit! and I want to spread my wings, as it were.If it didn't work out with him, my parents would let me move in (as long as we weren't together anymore).I really like this guy--- quite a bit. We've hit it off very well.
In your mind, what constitutes "ready to move out?" Simply being tired of your house and not wanting a curfew? Well that screams bratty child.
You are tired of your parents telling you what to do? What do you think this guy that you have known a week is going to do? He is looking for a slave who will obey him completely and without question. Your parents probably make you clean up your room, maybe do your own laundry. Wow, that sucks. Much better to have some guy you have known a week direct every aspect of your life.
So basically, if your parents make a stink, you will thumb your nose at them and move in with this guy, who by the way is just as stupid and immature as you (or quite the nifty predator) for even considering letting an unemployed, uneducated, teenage girl that he barely knows move in with him.
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Cons (of moving out):
- I have no job (naturally, this would be helped some if I tried to get one :/)
- I just started at my community college, and would have to drop out if he doesn't want to pay for it (or, again, if I can't get a job).
- Ready for the one I'm sure you all will have the biggest problem with? ...I've only known him for about a week.
And if I stayed home... I wouldn't be able to see him anymore, and would probably have to suppress the life I want to live for several years until I finish a 4-year university and become financially independent.
You don't even TRY to get a job and be self supporting? So basically what you are telling us is that it isn't that you are tired of being told what to do, you just want someone else to dictate your life for a while.
You are pretty ballsy to even consider asking a guy you barely know to pay for your college education. Did you consider that this might interfere with his plans for you being his ever ready obedient slave ready to obey his every demand whenever the mood strikes? As someone else mentioned, he wants a poly household, but your profile doesn't mention anything about that. So you want to leave the loving environment provided by your parents, abandon your education and shack up with someone you barely know where you will ultimately be just one of several women.
I'm sure you don't want to hear it, but honestly, your post screams of a spoiled child having a tantrum who knows nothing about the real world at all. Your parents have "sheltered" you from that by providing a roof over your head, food in your belly, clothes on your back AND a free college education.
If I were your parents I would look into having you legally declared incompetent. THAT'S how immature and lacking in decision making skills your thought process is.
You will, of course, do what you want, with the thought that at the ripe old age of 18, you know what is best for you. Unlike the others who have tried to comfort you with the thought that your parents will love you enough to take you back into their house, my view is that you deserve whatever pain, heartache, violence, abuse, etc. that you encounter by your foolishness.
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