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IronBear -> RE: New Dom (6/14/2010 4:36:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: akinkyguy
I was introduced to a sub, she told me her needs and and I thought I knew what she wanted. She has now dedided that I am not dark enough. Short but sweet.
I want more! How should I find a suitable sub ?
G'day mate and welcome to the CM boards. Now believe or not you have already received some of the best information and help you'll need. The joking and teasing are all just good fun and bno one is trying to ream you a new arsehole.
So old chap, lets get down to business. The clobber you are wearing may be good for dungeon time if that is your look. Doesn't do anything for me but we are all different and have different likes and styles. For all we know that clobber may be what you wear to the gym (Sweaty training gear is a better chick magnet) or it could be your training costume if you are learning dance (again a great place to find sensual ladies) but if that is the case a Rudolf Khametovich Nureyev you aren't. For your NEW profile photo, you need something different. Something which establishes you as a person grounded in reality and not fantasy. In your current photo you look a tad twee and those man boobs do nothing for you although you are showing a bulge in the crotch, a pare of rolled up socks may look more convincing if you are advertising being a man whore. No old chap, shoulders back and for heaven's sake stand up straight, that slightly cocked leg s only attractive to a pooch who can't find a fire hydrant or tree to piddle on. Frankly if you stood like that on any parade ground I was commanding, you'd be rubbing laps in full battle kit with an LMG raised over your head untill you fuigfured oput how to stand. The pose makes me thing you are not used to posing for a camera and may even be shy or lacking self confidence in this department. Do yourself a favour and get a friend who can take good photos to do a shoot for you or seek professional help to put together a good set of profile photos.
You need to rework your profile and if you are entirely new of have limited experience, then for God's sake state it else you will come across as either a fake or a troll and in either case unlikely to attract as much serious attention. If you are able, get to some munches in your area so people can meet you, watch listen and learn. Attending a public dungeon is a good thing too for there you can learn by watching experienced BDSMers play and how they interact with their sub/slaves.
Look old boy, this is your life, not mine, do what you will, listen to the advise given on these boards or not as Lance commented above all have fun here and do join in so we can get to know you.
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