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West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 9:42:13 PM

Westxdom

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I have been talking to a sub for a few days and she has really got me interested in this lifestyle. I have no idea were to start. Can anyone help me out? I am also looking to find a sub to meet with on a regular basis. Then maybe eventually, wearing my collar and being mine 24/7. If anyone has any pointers, suggestions, anyhtign that might help me out, I will appreciate you messaging me. Thanks

BTW I am 23 and a bigger built guy, just came across this site...thanks again

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 10:37:59 PM

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First build a relationship. Then you can think about kink and collars. Don't rush into the latter two items without a good foundation of the first one.

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 10:49:15 PM

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ok, thank you...i just wish there were more subs in my area.

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 11:09:34 PM

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Have you been to a munch? Have you been to a coffee? How do you know there aren't many in your area? Until you have expanded your search beyond using just the internet you will have no idea what is available in your area.

Those are the places where you will meet others with experience. They can teach you some of the things you need to know. Many munches and groups offer classes in all sorts of kinky things.

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 11:12:16 PM

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well i am from a small town. so will more than likely have to drive an hour or 2 to find anything like that.

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 11:23:51 PM

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The first munch I went to was 300 miles away. Until last summer, munch in Montana meant driving 120 miles to Missoula. We built a dungeon last summer so we could have a munch and follow it up with a play party for all the out of towners. In Montana it's normal to travel 120 to 250 miles and stay over night just to attend a munch. I used to plan my vacation times to coincide with BDSM events in my state. If there is a will, there IS a way to accomplish the goal. You might need to get creative.

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 11:29:49 PM

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yeah, looks that way lol...would really like to find someone on here, or other sites that would go with me lol...dont really want to go alone. i have seen some people on here from around my area, maybe some of them will respond back. thanks for your advice, if you have anymore, let me know. thanks again.

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 11:33:23 PM

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Only a couple'a hours to here in Houston. HPEP

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/14/2010 11:42:40 PM

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Thnx sascha...houston is a little farther than im able to go right now. if i ever have the time or and down that way i will be sure to let you know...thanks

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RE: West TX newbie...looking for sub - 6/16/2010 2:45:17 AM

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