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I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/14/2010 11:07:47 PM   
LongSausage


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Status: offline 		Am I the only one? I don't even know why I like it. I feel sort of disassociated and tired from it. But hell, it feels great. I usually take a nap when I feel like this, it feels like I'm in between awake and dreaming. Me taking a nap while imaging her feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness, how heavenly.
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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/14/2010 11:36:17 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Yep. You're the only one.

OP, if you could figure out some of the reasons why it gets you off, you could use the new insight to try to explore some different ways to achieve the same yummy feeling.

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/14/2010 11:47:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is called dacryphilia,  it's common enough that it's on fetlife as a fetish, although if you search it on google google will helpfully ask if you are looking for necrophilia, so it can't be THAT common.  I know that it turns me on immensely to make women cry.

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 12:08:12 AM   
ricken


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Status: offline 		My sub won't take that much pain that she will cry....but  I've seen a few pics of girls with their eyes wet and make up running, turns me on....

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 1:24:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LongSausage

Am I the only one? I don't even know why I like it. I feel sort of disassociated and tired from it. But hell, it feels great. I usually take a nap when I feel like this, it feels like I'm in between awake and dreaming. Me taking a nap while imaging her feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness, how heavenly.



G'day long schlong, uber dick and what ever your ego dictates.. I get no pleasure when I make anyone cry with very few exceptions. Just not wired that way. Not sure if I'd actually want to associate with any one who likes making girls cry. I'd be wanting to be psychoanalysing them and perhaps locking them up as a study of behavioural abnormalities. But hey this is just my reaction and no one is telling you are wrong so welcome to the CM boards.. Watch, read, learn, interact and above all enjoy


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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 1:57:49 AM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		No you are not the only one, nor should you change it. Sigh...I really wonder if people know this is a bdsm website some days..........

I adore being pushed to the point of crying and also have been known to make a few boys cry.

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 2:36:20 AM   
AQuietSimpleMan


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Status: offline 		I agree with laurell3

This is a BDSM Site. We do NASTY shit here.

I happen to like when I make strippers cry. That Lap Dances are always better that way.. Jimmy Pop taught me that.

I also like to Cut women till they bleed.
I like to Choke women while the cum.
I like to Force Fuck an Asshole.
I like to Cum in Eyes.
I like to Tie a girl up and leave her there for 2 to 3 hours.
I like to Tape women Upside down to things.
I like to slam women into walls and then fuck them standing up.
I like to slap a girl right as I enter her.

This is not a List, this is a Saturday Night. Now not everyone agrees with what I like, just like I don't agree with the rainbows and bubblegum bullshit other people call BDSM but I don't start talking shit about it cause I don't agree. I just laugh. Shake my head. and go back to what makes me happy which is whatever I feel like doing at the time.

Now if you will forgive me I am sounding really really really angry right now and perhaps I need to take my medication... Yeah I take Medication, keeps me from getting Violent.

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 2:56:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nineveh

This is called dacryphilia,  it's common enough that it's on fetlife as a fetish, although if you search it on google google will helpfully ask if you are looking for necrophilia, so it can't be THAT common.  I know that it turns me on immensely to make women cry.


don't know. Maybe you are misspelling or something, because I got over 15,000 results.

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 4:11:12 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He usually naps after play, not instead of.

And tears don't have to be from pain, they can be a catharsis, a letting go of emotion.


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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 4:23:41 AM   
LadyCimarron


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Status: offline 		The way you stated it makes it sound a bit nonconsensual. I think that might explain part of the negative response you may have gotten.

That being said, I LOVE tears. They are an integral part of what I do. To see a slave reduced to tears and sobbing heightens the experience of a scene. So no, you are by far NOT the only one.

< Message edited by LadyCimarron -- 6/15/2010 4:24:55 AM >

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 4:55:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't usually like it, however there ARE times when I know a sub needs the emotional release.  And there have been some times when it meant a lot to me that she let me go that far.

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 4:59:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LongSausage

Am I the only one? I don't even know why I like it. I feel sort of disassociated and tired from it. But hell, it feels great. I usually take a nap when I feel like this, it feels like I'm in between awake and dreaming. Me taking a nap while imaging her feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness, how heavenly.


Are you like 80 ?

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 5:20:43 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		its horses for courses really.  if i was made to feel worthless to the point of being made to feel so miserable i was crying id walk right out the door - but some subs like that kinda thing its called emotional massochism.

if im spanked till i cry then its all fine with me - like i said, horses for courses, pick youre horse carefully and enjoy the ride.

possibly because i dont relate to emotional cruelty in any way shape or form my boring head tells me that heaping further feelings of worthlessness on a person who already feels shit about themselves could land you in some deep water, so apart from the fun factor, be responsible and aware of what youre doing.  right boring bit said,  - carry on!!

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 5:40:22 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: lally2

its horses for courses really.


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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 5:42:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron

The way you stated it makes it sound a bit nonconsensual. I think that might explain part of the negative response you may have gotten.



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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 6:43:38 AM   
Andalusite


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Status: offline 		Hmm, I like making my femsub cry, but as an expression of pain (along with whimpers and yelps and squealing and saying "ouch" rather than the tears per se, and certainly not because she is hopeless or worthless.

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 6:53:08 AM   
UniqueRaven


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Status: offline 		As a slave, i have a strong need to cry and suffer for my Owner. For me, it is also cathartic - but for the most part it is that deep seated need to please him, and for him to get whatever he wants from me.

i tend to gravitate towards sadists for this reason, even though i am not a masochist - i don't love pain, but i need to suffer. AQuietSimpleMan's "Saturday night" sounds about par for the course.

My view is that as long as what you're doing is consented to initially (in my case i give consent when i become enslaved), and as long parties are expressing themselves in authentic ways, it's all good. As others have said, read about dacryphilia, find a willing partner, respect her limits, and then go from there.

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 7:37:07 AM   
LongSausage


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Status: offline 		I do non consensually make girls cry, yes. After I eat a lot, I get tired. After I run a mile, I get tired. After I masturbate, I get tired. After I make a girl cry, I get tired. It's a great feeling. Not just a tiredness. It feels like there's nothing in the world to worry about. What a great feeling.

You're right, maybe I should abuse someone willing. It was great telling a girl with clinical depression that she's too stupid to solve her problems, and as the grand finale, calling her a "worthless cunt".

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 8:12:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok you're just an idiot, I was giving you the benefit of the doubt.....silly me

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RE: I feel good when I make girls cry - 6/15/2010 8:15:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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ORIGINAL: LongSausage

Am I the only one? I don't even know why I like it. I feel sort of disassociated and tired from it. But hell, it feels great. I usually take a nap when I feel like this, it feels like I'm in between awake and dreaming. Me taking a nap while imaging her feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness, how heavenly.



G'day long schlong, uber dick and what ever your ego dictates.. I get no pleasure when I make anyone cry with very few exceptions. Just not wired that way. Not sure if I'd actually want to associate with any one who likes making girls cry. I'd be wanting to be psychoanalysing them and perhaps locking them up as a study of behavioural abnormalities. But hey this is just my reaction and no one is telling you are wrong so welcome to the CM boards.. Watch, read, learn, interact and above all enjoy



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