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MistressXbox -> RE: Am I Too Picky? (6/26/2010 6:55:53 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum
lately, i have been getting a lot of requests from people claiming to be a submissive or slave for me to own them. its been a 3 scenario rotation of reactions. Half of the profiles have either no photo, or some sexually graphic picture, so when i ask for a face photo (#1) they refuse to give me one due to "privacy reasons", or if they give me one and i don't find them attractive (#2), they ask could they pay for a session. however, i make enough to the point where i do not need to take on everybody i meet as clients, so i won't play with somebody whom i am not attracted to(in addition to other compatibility factors)-free or paid. as for the 3rd reaction, when i say no to a paid session, they tend to offer me large amounts in hopes that i change my mind. when i don't, i get verbally bashed(i block at this point) about how i have no right to pick and choose who i want to play with, especially if i'm getting paid. is it wrong for me to be picky about who i deal with based on attraction in a business aspect?
OK, let me preface my message with the disclaimer that I am not, nor have I ever been, a ProDomme. I know nothing about being a ProDomme -- but I do know about business. That said, I have an opinion about your situation. [:D]
First, a guy who's truly nice is not going to verbally bash you. Good on you for blocking -- I'd probably take it a step further and report especially nasty messages to the CM admin as well. No one should have to put up with that, ever.
Secondly, you do have the right to choose your partners OR clients based on whatever standards you're comfortable with. If someone creeps you out, or annoys you, or doesn't bathe, or is otherwise objectionable... you get the picture... then obviously your discomfort with the situation is going to hinder your ability to deliver the best quality service. Not only does this cheat both you and the customer out of a satisfying transaction, but it could also be damaging to your reputation as a businessperson. You don't want a customer to think that a halfhearted session is the best you can do!
It's good to be honest about these things, but you can always try to think of different angles of the truth if you don't want to insult someone. You can say that you don't have the time to see them, or that you can't/don't provide that particular service If they are insistent or offer you extra money, you can always politely decline again... BUT, perhaps then you can provide a few names of other ProDommes in the area that might be willing to take them on. That way, they're still getting a lead on someone to provide the service, and you'll come out of the situation looking like the capable, caring professional that you want to show the world. [:D]
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