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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/10/2010 1:11:03 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Well to me I don't call it doing bdsm, since bdsm sands for bondage, domination sado masochism, and I'm not into bondage, or being dominated* not a whole lot anyway* nor sado's, and I am some what masochistic.

I call it being kinky.

And what I like the most about being kinky, is the excitement of doing different things that differ from the "norm"


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The most thing I like in BDSM is my slaves rimming me.

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/10/2010 1:59:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Topic lacks wank fodder, by the way.

Well, if there are two things that excite me most in BDSM it is leather and flogging/spanking, although I always regret/hate the second part once it starts.

But of course there is just the feeling of letting go cmopletely as a sub, put myself in full control of a dominant that I like.

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/10/2010 4:30:30 PM   
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What I love most in BDSM is being accepted for who I am. That He isn't squicked by anything kinky that interests me.

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/11/2010 11:40:11 AM   
DommeKeliDallas


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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/11/2010 12:36:57 PM   
HisEvelyn


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Status: offline 		Being allowed to be free, be myself. To not have to question whether something is wrong with me because I find true pleasure in serving Him.

And being allowed to revel in being a kinky, naughty little slut with Him, without worrying that my sense of self is being lost or that I am just an object. I'm exceedingly sexual and sensual by nature, and too often in the vanilla world, men have somehow interpreted my powerful sexuality as an open invitation to use me as nothing more than a body. I can be a dirty dirty girl, but under that I'm sensitive and sweet and intensely loyal. Master loves all facets of me.

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/13/2010 9:00:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		their racing heart as they kiss My feet or legs
or the gasp as they feel the burn of a whip on their bare skin
or just making someone My pony

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/13/2010 9:55:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

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The chance to conform to rigid expectations and the ability to blame others for all my problems.
Yeah well, when I kick your ass at Wii next weekend at MnB's, you can blame me for it if it makes you feel better.


theres a BDSM version???? - who knew!! and why wasnt i told

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/13/2010 8:27:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		 I enjoy seeing his body scream as there is no sound escaping his ball gag stuffed mouth... I enjoy seeing the tears roll down his face as I remove the leather hood from his very wet face...  I also enjoy the calm reserve that he shows after I unbind him and he bows low to kiss my feet and thank me for the his stress and pain.

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/14/2010 3:49:12 PM   
SilverWings002


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Status: offline 		The male bound to the bed, more than ready for me, parts tied and helpless as I tease and torment and do whatever my little heart pleases knowing it causes him pain, pleasure, and pleasing to me and thus him. The freedom to have sex anyway I want, anytime I want, any which version I want, with any result that I want. And there are people that want me to do so. To them.

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/14/2010 4:45:02 PM   
cassandria


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Status: offline 		BDSM = Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism..

I'm not sadistic.
I have a masochistic streak running through me, but I personally think it's more like wussochistic
Bondage is yummy
Discipline tends to make me cringe, and yet I look at canes and whips and lust
Overall loss of control makes me wet....constantly

I love that there are other women that I can speak to who make me laugh at the situations they get themselves into, being so similar to myself in so many ways. I know that if I disappear because someone's taking my time that there's no blame, there's an immediate understanding and acceptance of my priorities.

I also love the validation that I'm not alone in this world feeling this way. That the desire to be on my knees, humbled before a man, isn't wrong. That the thoughts and feeling that I have can be nurtured and appreciated, instead of me fighting against it and trying to fit into a more feministic society. That there are men who compliment who I am, who know what to do with someone like me. I love the attention I'm given from the right One...it's something I crave and do well under.

It fills me with a hope and a desire that is so strong that I'm willing to write about it, publicly.




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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/15/2010 7:08:20 AM   
rumpwarmer


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Status: offline 		I like the trust between 2 people.

I like the warm glowing feeling of a fresh tanned Butt.

I like the openess between people.

I Just wish there were more open people in the world.

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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/15/2010 8:23:30 AM   
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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/15/2010 8:27:40 AM   
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RE: What do you like the most in BDSM? - 7/15/2010 12:08:10 PM   
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"If his love is to be called perverse, then let it be so, for maybe love is too great to be normal, too intense to be sane."


Love was once described to me as a state of being somewhere between ecstasy and insanity, if that be so, then what of D/s?

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