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Sowhat do you do with the license plate number when you... - 6/15/2010 11:45:51 PM

Viscidvillette

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I mean, somehow, i dont think telling the cops she went off w a guy w blah plate number is going to go over smoothly, and I know there are certain conditions for them to meet the "missing" bar...Pardom me for this being so short but I dont know what other aspect I can delve into.

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RE: Sowhat do you do with the license plate number when... - 6/15/2010 11:49:33 PM

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1) Call your friend, see if they pick up and lay this whole aspect to bed.
2) Call your someone who lives with your friend, or their work, to see if they are still showing up there.
3) Call your local crime enforcement and explain your concern, and ask what the next step is to report a missing person.

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RE: Sowhat do you do with the license plate number when... - 6/15/2010 11:55:51 PM

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Ive actually done all three already, before this 2 in the morning junk im putting you all through,and even the police told me to call the house and all, but I'd done that before.hand. I figured freaking out should be that last option, as im rather laid back, but ive tried the rational ideas first. Thank you very much, though, as that is the sane advice you should be given first.

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RE: Sowhat do you do with the license plate number when... - 6/16/2010 3:31:07 AM

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Probably someone is doing to you what was done to me...they asked me to be their safe caller then broke all the rules. She broke them so badly that she had to lie to the man, pull a bluff, to get him to untie her and let her go home.

You can't help someone unless they let you help them by cooperating to what you both agreed to.

When I use people for safecallers, they know this:
1) My name, age, stats
2) All about my vehicle including the license plate number
3) Where I am meeting someone (this includes address and phone of business)
4) If scening, the name if a hotel or motel, address, phone number, and room number
5) I phone whenever I change location, as well as when I first meet the person. I call before leaving my house, again when I arrive at my first destination (often a restaurant), I phone again when the man arrives, after we've said hello, again when we're leaving the restaurant. (I go in my own vehicle). I phone when I've arrived, and confirm the room number. My safe caller can call me at any time during then and when I'm planning to leave, and I had better answer the phone. The one I'm with KNOWS by then I'd better answer the phone. I phone when I'm leaving the room and I keep talking until I'm back in my car. I call one last time, from my home phone.

If anything happens to me, my safe caller knows where to send people to start looking for me. Police don't need to come if you have a few large snarly friends who can bash down a door.

I've had a lot of meetups, and for some strange reason I've never had the slightest problem. It's all been good.

As for the girl I was "safe caller" to, she was my friend. If anything had happened to her, I would have had to tell police that she met him at some restaurant and they had drinks...but I don't know the name of it, and that afterward they were to go to the hotel across the street, but I had no name or street address of that, and no, I had no idea of what room she might be in or what name it might be registered under, her car or his car...no clue...hers was white and his was red, she promised to call me and I've been worried sick for 9 hours...

I don't know about all areas, but the police will go make a courtesy call if you phone and ask them to...just say you're worried sick about your friend.

I'm sorry you're in this position. Been there, it sucks. It's likely she's fine, having so much fun that she's completely forgotten about you.

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RE: Sowhat do you do with the license plate number when... - 6/18/2010 2:07:56 PM

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So what was the breakdown in the safe call plan and is your friend alright?

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RE: Sowhat do you do with the license plate number when... - 6/18/2010 3:39:42 PM

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Why not take your friend to Disneyland?

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RE: Sowhat do you do with the license plate number when... - 7/13/2010 12:47:08 PM

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Thanks very much for the replies, apparently she got into an arguement, and left without purse or shoes or anything important, but I found her, and integrated the "whole big bunch of calls at every step" deal, dont think we had enough. And thanks very much for all the tips and messages, ive smoothed out the plan very much. Whats in disneyland? Besides goths, once a year. Do they have a kinkster day, as well?

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