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Mercnbeth -> RE: Racial Preference (6/16/2010 8:11:21 AM)
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~ Fast Tint ~
Race, body type, appearance; is your goal veneer or something a bit deeper?
Maybe the reason that appearance, transitory at best, is a priority, is that people don't really know what they want in a relationship partner. It is an easier decision to assign priority importance to things like race, age, gender, body type, and general appearance. Of course race isn't transitory and there are, even in this age, social stigmas to consider which require a confidence to dismiss from the decision process. However it still comes down to compatibility and complimentary desires which should have race at the end of the consideration process, if its considered at all.
Anytime a question arises about 'most important' asset necessary for a relationship, it doesn't matter if it regarding a dom or sub, the answer is confidence; you have to be confident in yourself and you have to be confident in what you want in a relationship partner. A partner who, ideally, is brining similar confidence with them when you meet. When setting up your personal hierarchy pyramid of needs describing your ideal partner, it's best to have the broadest possible base. Put the superficial, and mostly transient, characteristics up at the thin part; go out and meet people qualifying on the broadest requirements; submissive or dominant. Start by casting the widest net and maybe, just maybe, you'll discover a person you can relate to and enjoy a long term happy relationship which will last longer than superficial beauty, who doesn't look anything like the image you had in mind when you began the process.
Of course there are some things which can not be ignored. As 'macs' points out is is a bit more difficult to red on a beautiful spanked black ass. However don't give up - you can do it! Besides, I've found the mental and emotional reactions cross racial boundaries and are much more fun, erotic, and sexually stimulating than any color, made man or resulting from genetics.
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