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sunshinemiss -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 3:16:49 AM)
I usually can't think at all.

MissBeautiful2U -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 3:30:52 AM)
The very first thing that I think about is probably something about his physical appearance or attitude... at the first step of attraction. Later my thoughts might digress into the mundane or the kinky.

crazyml -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 5:43:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda I think about what it's like to be around her when she's totally quiet. What kind of personal energy she gives off, what kind of vibe surrounds her. I'm tremendously attracted to calm. californian

wandersalone -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 5:50:18 AM)
when I am with someone I am attracted to it is either this ...... quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss I usually can't think at all. or a little later I will start to wonder if, when and where his hands will touch me first..... I once was having lunch with a man I was incredibly attracted to and during the meal he leant over and casually brushed my always unruly hair out of my eyes.... oh my frackin god!!! [:)]

BonesFromAsh -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 5:55:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DisenchantedLife I think about my Grandmother and I wonder if I mention I'm dating some one new is she going to get freaky on me again. Will she be asking how big his penis is and then go on for lengths about her deceased husbands saggy parts? Than my mind will probably wander to if she's getting laid by her current boyfriend. It'll continue wandering HOW saggy are parts after 80? Seriously, I only think that randomly - not every time i see a guy that I am attracted to. I have no clue as to the answer for this post. I never just think one thing. It depends on the guy, the situation, and blah blah blah. I think that's the point...at least for me and my comment about the "important things". BTW...I had a granny who would talk about saggy parts. She told me this was why, at the age of 71, she would only date men who were younger than her. That and the fact the she was bored with men her own age and their talk of the good old days. She used to say "The good old days are today!" [:D]

cassandria -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 7:17:49 AM)
If I'm really attracted? I'll have difficulty processing thoughts... But once I'm able to stop my head from swirling, and the butterflies in my tummy settle down somewhat...I'll be asking myself "is he attracted to me, too?" Naturally, good looks can cause an initial attraction...but because of who/what I am? My curiosity may be piqued momentarily by someone's looks....but I'm going to watch and listen closely...looking for that delicate balance of strength, intrigue, sensuality and manners. I'm farrrr more interested in someone who has nice looks, smells incredible, obviously has their life together...and can engage me in one amazing conversation. Who looks beyond initial attraction, fairly quickly...who wants far more than something fast. A man who takes his time with me is intoxicating.

wandersalone -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 7:32:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cassandria Naturally, good looks can cause an initial attraction...but because of who/what I am? My curiosity may be piqued momentarily by someone's looks....but I'm going to watch and listen closely...looking for that delicate balance of strength, intrigue, sensuality and manners. I'm farrrr more interested in someone who has nice looks, smells incredible, obviously has their life together...and can engage me in one amazing conversation. Who looks beyond initial attraction, fairly quickly...who wants far more than something fast. A man who takes his time with me is intoxicating. all of the above...and if they use multi-syllabic words as well I'll be wondering what is the decent amount of time to wait before asking him to take me, take me now

AquaticSub -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 7:38:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: macs What is the first thing you think about when you are attracted to someone?? When I see a girl who I'm attracted to, the first thing I think about is spanking her. So that maybe why I'm single. "I'd like to give you a spanking" does not seem to work has an opening chat up line either. Try asking about her shoes. Work into the spanking. Usually when I'm attracted to someone, my thoughts are more "ooo... I wonder if I can edge onto their lap and if they'll gnaw on me a bit... ". Sometimes I end up in their lap, sometimes I don't but it usually happens while we are discussing completely unrelated things.

mnottertail -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 7:39:32 AM)
WTF? May I ask your shoes? No? Howza bouta blowjob, girlie? I'm gonna be swimming in the bitches, I can see it from here.

AquaticSub -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 7:41:05 AM)
Hush you. Some of us just got up and haven't had our wake-up juice yet. I fixed it. [:D]

sunshinemiss -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 7:42:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: macs What is the first thing you think about when you are attracted to someone?? When I see a girl who I'm attracted to, the first thing I think about is spanking her. So that maybe why I'm single. "I'd like to give you a spanking" does not seem to work has an opening chat up line either. Try asking her shoes. Work into the spanking. Usually when I'm attracted to someone, my thoughts are more "ooo... I wonder if I can edge onto their lap and if they'll gnaw on me a bit... ". Sometimes I end up in their lap, sometimes I don't but it usually happens while we are discussing completely unrelated things. Hello? Miss Slingback Pump? I'm feeling a bit out of sorts, my skin is leathery, and my tongue is not working right. Can you help me find the number for Doc Marten? Thanks so much, Puma, the sneak (so the mods don't get mad at me): I met a gal once and all I could think of was "mmmm. good." Seriously. And then I had to go into a meeting with her. I took my glasses off so I couldn't see her and sat at the far end of the table so I couldn't smell her. If I hadn't, I wouldn't ahve been coherent. Ahhhh the good old days!

Silence8 -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 7:47:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda I think about what it's like to be around her when she's totally quiet. What kind of personal energy she gives off, what kind of vibe surrounds her. I'm tremendously attracted to calm. Hmmm... yes.

AquaticSub -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 7:48:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: macs What is the first thing you think about when you are attracted to someone?? When I see a girl who I'm attracted to, the first thing I think about is spanking her. So that maybe why I'm single. "I'd like to give you a spanking" does not seem to work has an opening chat up line either. Try asking her shoes. Work into the spanking. Usually when I'm attracted to someone, my thoughts are more "ooo... I wonder if I can edge onto their lap and if they'll gnaw on me a bit... ". Sometimes I end up in their lap, sometimes I don't but it usually happens while we are discussing completely unrelated things. Hello? Miss Slingback Pump? I'm feeling a bit out of sorts, my skin is leathery, and my tongues is not working right. Can you help me find the number for Doc Marten? Thanks so much, Puma, the sneak grumbles I hate you all. Now I will go become a super-villain with shoe based powers.

lilredsubmarine -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 9:03:44 AM)
first i try to stop myself from giggling like a schoolgirl. seriously, i get the WORST case of the giggles when i'm horribly attracted to a guy.... "what was that? oh you missed the bus? teeheeheehee oh you're so FUNNY!!!" [X(] meanwhile, on the odd occasion that it's a girl who i'm stupidly attracted to, i just try to stop myself from staring. yeah, i can get creepy like that [&:] in both situations, going through my head is the constant whir of "say something clever and witty, SAY SOMETHING CLEVER AND WITTY" "you're hot" "DAMNIT." [>:] (as an aside, first real post! highfive!)

lusciouslips19 -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 9:10:32 AM)
Looks are a by product. I have been attracted to men who are not classically good looking. Its got so be something about them. Alot of that comes with the interaction between us. An easy comraderie and chemistry that flows with the talking, flirting and how smart and exciting they are.

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