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ORIGINAL: laurell3

It doesn't matter what your profile says, you've already proven yourself to be a raving childish idiot with your posts


you're gone out of your way to behave like a spoiled petulant child and no, it's unlikely most women with a brain will find that attractive.

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ORIGINAL: Elisabella

I like the fact that you list your interests, because it seems like you're primarily looking for activity partners, but I do agree that you need to tell a bit more about yourself. Are you a jeans and t-shirt guy or does your closet only have button downs? Do you drive a SUV, a Prius, a motorcycle? What do you do for a living and do you enjoy it? If you had a free vacation would you choose Paris? Morocco? Camping?

Even people who are looking for casual play are looking for more than "some guy who has his own toys" - they want a person they can enjoy spending time with.

Also I'd recommend adding a photo of yourself, even if it's taken from far enough away that your facial features can be easily blurred, it adds a more human dimension to the profile.

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ORIGINAL: splorff

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

It doesn't matter what your profile says, you've already proven yourself to be a raving childish idiot with your posts


you're gone out of your way to behave like a spoiled petulant child and no, it's unlikely most women with a brain will find that attractive.

Well would you care to explain your coments ? Which posts are you referring to ?

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ORIGINAL: splorff
If you are ever in my area Ma'am do drop by and spank me for my atrocious spelling.  maybe this was meant to be humour however to me it came across as creepy and do-me subbish

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ORIGINAL: splorff

Well that was odd There was a good discussion going on in here about choice, race and perception. Then wham ! The thought police seem to have decided that we cant do that !

Odd that its a taboo subject at a place where people are enlightened enough to speak openly about perversion and unnatural sex. Maybe we need some new mods in here. whiny petulant child using passive aggressive language to make out that you are the victim of the mean nasty moderators

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ORIGINAL: splorff

No. This is the thread that came into being to discuss how another got ditched and died an untimely death, and which has now been replaced and is now called Racial Preference. Its interesting and sparkly.

How about we let this one die too , or maybe, a mod could rename it.....
as above

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

It doesn't matter what your profile says, you've already proven yourself to be a raving childish idiot with your posts and yes I look at those too with any profile that has them. In my opinion, you're gone out of your way to behave like a spoiled petulant child and no, it's unlikely most women with a brain will find that attractive.

To be fair Laurell, we got the better end of the deal. The Mistresses got servile and creepy. We got arrogant boy with no respect for women.

I'm guessing we saw the 'real' Splat

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ORIGINAL: splorff

I dont think thats at all fair.

I used my sub pen to address the Dommes, and my Dom pen to address the subs.

Dommes expect to be called Ma'am, Mistress, Goddess etc, and spoken to respectfully. I'm sure they would approve. But a sub would not wish me to address her that way. A sub would probably prefer, Hey you , or You girl. Well thats what I have found.

Servile, creepy, arrogant boy ? How about about unpleasant bitchy ladies.

A big thank you to those ladies who actually did have something thoughtful and useful to say.

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ORIGINAL: splorff

Thats right you missy !

Go and see my profile, I would like to see what you think of it. Is it attractively laid out to a female sub/switch ? Are there any improvements I could make? Is there enough or too much detail ?

All comments welcome

Thank you !

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

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ORIGINAL: splorff

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

It doesn't matter what your profile says, you've already proven yourself to be a raving childish idiot with your posts


you're gone out of your way to behave like a spoiled petulant child and no, it's unlikely most women with a brain will find that attractive.

Well would you care to explain your coments ? Which posts are you referring to ?

If I may reply with a few of your posts which I thought shed a less than ..... positive light on you in these early days here....

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ORIGINAL: splorff
If you are ever in my area Ma'am do drop by and spank me for my atrocious spelling.  maybe this was meant to be humour however to me it came across as creepy and do-me subbish

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ORIGINAL: splorff

Well that was odd There was a good discussion going on in here about choice, race and perception. Then wham ! The thought police seem to have decided that we cant do that !

Odd that its a taboo subject at a place where people are enlightened enough to speak openly about perversion and unnatural sex. Maybe we need some new mods in here. whiny petulant child using passive aggressive language to make out that you are the victim of the mean nasty moderators

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ORIGINAL: splorff

No. This is the thread that came into being to discuss how another got ditched and died an untimely death, and which has now been replaced and is now called Racial Preference. Its interesting and sparkly.

How about we let this one die too , or maybe, a mod could rename it.....
as above

I don't know if the above are attempts at humour by you, if they are to me at least they are not coming across in that way.  Instead you came across as someone who was immature.

There are a number of people on the forums I joke around with, some Dominants(male and female) and submissives that I call babe or other pet names however these are all people whom I have built up a connection with on here over a period of time.  I would never address someone I do not know as dear, pet, missy etc etc nor would I make a joke asking them to spank me or anything similar. To me that is poor taste.

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

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ORIGINAL: splorff

I dont think thats at all fair.

I used my sub pen to address the Dommes, and my Dom pen to address the subs.

Dommes expect to be called Ma'am, Mistress, Goddess etc, and spoken to respectfully. I'm sure they would approve. But a sub would not wish me to address her that way. A sub would probably prefer, Hey you , or You girl. Well thats what I have found.

Servile, creepy, arrogant boy ? How about about unpleasant bitchy ladies.

A big thank you to those ladies who actually did have something thoughtful and useful to say.

Oh good grief, so only d types want to be spoken to with respect? On the forums I have found that by far the majority of people (irregardless of which side of the kneel they are on) would prefer that you use their user id when addressing them so if I were to address you I would refer to you as Splorff  not as sir or pet based on you being a d or s, that is just silly and incredibly presumptuous.

eta and yeah, I am definitely one of the unpleasant bitchy ladies....and guess what, the things we are telling you could actually help you if you took them on board

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ORIGINAL: splorff
It is not disrespectful to call a subby woman missy, or to say- hey you ! to such a person. It is playfully engaging.

You are missing my point entirely..... it is playfully engaging if Jeff calls Sunny "missy" as they are friends who have built up a rapport over time, it is not playfully engaging for a stranger to address strangers as "missy".... that is patronising and off-putting.

Certainly I would choose to address someone with their user id, but I was not addressing someone in particular. Go see ! I was addressing every subby female in here.

How about "hi everyone"?

Do you really expect me to list every female user id on this forum, and then produce a body of text ?

I would not care at all if you called me Sir, boy or Splorff ! I certainly would not put pen to paper about it ! I think that you and a few others are grossly over reacting for whatever reason. But that’s fine, I don’t mind.

And that is your preference to be addressed in a number of ways by strangers, however myself and many others do not share this view.  You may feel that myself and others are grossly over reacting and hey, that's fine, I don't mind

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ORIGINAL: splorff

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

It doesn't matter what your profile says, you've already proven yourself to be a raving childish idiot with your posts and yes I look at those too with any profile that has them. In my opinion, you're gone out of your way to behave like a spoiled petulant child and no, it's unlikely most women with a brain will find that attractive.

To be fair Laurell, we got the better end of the deal. The Mistresses got servile and creepy. We got arrogant boy with no respect for women.

I'm guessing we saw the 'real' Splat

I dont think thats at all fair.

I used my sub pen to address the Dommes, and my Dom pen to address the subs.

Dommes expect to be called Ma'am, Mistress, Goddess etc, and spoken to respectfully. I'm sure they would approve. But a sub would not wish me to address her that way. A sub would probably prefer, Hey you , or You girl. Well thats what I have found.

Servile, creepy, arrogant boy ? How about about unpleasant bitchy ladies.

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ORIGINAL: splorff




It is not disrespectful to call a subby woman missy, or to say- hey you ! to such a person. It is playfully engaging.

Certainly I would choose to address someone with their user id, but I was not addressing someone in particular. Go see ! I was addressing every subby female in here.

Do you really expect me to list every female user id on this forum, and then produce a body of text ?

I would not care at all if you called me Sir, boy or Splorff ! I certainly would not put pen to paper about it ! I think that you and a few others are grossly over reacting for whatever reason. But that’s fine, I don’t mind.

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ORIGINAL: splorff

I have run out of ink, and my pen is weary. I shall not reply to any more comments

If any ladies do have some comments regarding my original post, please send a pm. For the others good luck at charm night school, you certainly need it.

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ORIGINAL: splorff

I used my sub pen to address the Dommes, and my Dom pen to address the subs.

Dommes expect to be called Ma'am, Mistress, Goddess etc, and spoken to respectfully. I'm sure they would approve. But a sub would not wish me to address her that way. A sub would probably prefer, Hey you , or You girl. Well thats what I have found.

Servile, creepy, arrogant boy ? How about about unpleasant bitchy ladies.

A big thank you to those ladies who actually did have something thoughtful and useful to say.

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ORIGINAL: subrob1967

Jimmy Fallon says it best.

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

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ORIGINAL: splorff

It is not disrespectful to call a subby woman missy, or to say- hey you ! to such a person. It is playfully engaging.

You are missing my point entirely..... it is playfully engaging if Jeff calls Sunny "missy" as they are friends who have built up a rapport over time, it is not playfully engaging for a stranger to address strangers as "missy".... that is patronising and off-putting.