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Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 7:21:45 PM

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Now I've never had a domme even though I've been here for years, so I have yet to submit and it has all been fantasy so far for me but I just want to say that, I love the idea of being put in my place. What does that entail, I'm not even sure, but as a submissive cd, just thinking of what it might entail makes me go crazy. It's a phrase that, to me is kinda magic.

Could anyone here give any good/fun examples of when they were "Put in their place," or "Put someone else in their place?"

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RE: Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 7:36:37 PM

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One of my pets, when life had her stressed out and feeling uneasy would enjoy a good flogging and bondage session. The physical pain, restraint and attention from me made her feel more secure in the outside world. She said he reaffirmed that there was a place for her to be no matter if the outside world issues went well or not. This allowed her to stand up to whatever the issue may be and deal with.

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RE: Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 8:18:40 PM

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You know how we point out when your question is on the dumbass side? Then.

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RE: Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 8:19:16 PM

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Also commonly known as a "leash yank" as someone who is really into humiliation, degradation, objectification, it can be nice to place their boot on my neck.

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RE: Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 8:34:34 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You know how we point out when your question is on the dumbass side? Then.

I think I'm really your favorite poster and you spend all your day reading and rereading my post.

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RE: Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 8:41:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submale4u2spank

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You know how we point out when your question is on the dumbass side? Then.

I think I'm really your favorite poster and you spend all your day reading and rereading my post.

I hate puppies. But the snorking sound I make when I read your stuff clears my sinuses~

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RE: Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 9:18:45 PM

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Actually, I kind of feel the same way. (Not about puppies. I LOVE puppies!! In fact, I'm hoping my two Jap Chins are going to making some soon. I saw my lil one eyed Domino trying to mount his lil girlfriend. Except I hate these dogs. Perhaps their puppies will be smarter?)

Back to the phrase. Yeah, its kind of magic to me too. Like the other poster said - a good flogging or something of the type does it too. I personally prefer less Painful ways. Ha. Curling up at His feet always put me there.

I'm sure LA's boot on the neck would be fabulous as well. Never experienced it though - )

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RE: Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 10:34:02 PM

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I just comment that the slave is acting like a spoiled brat. Or I comment that I am dissapointed in her (that really hurts)

Neets has pulled me right back in line when I ignore my limitations (physically and stop caring about my own well being (bad for a diabetic)) Some times she just says "BEAR!!!!!" or something like: "You promised me you wouild stay with me for the next 40 years are you backing away from that and deserting me?" That fucking hurts more than words can tell. Had the odd slave do the same thing but in tears too... It is a fast reality check.

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RE: Being put in one's place - 6/17/2010 11:10:11 PM

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I can't put someone in their place until I know what their kinks and fetishes are. It's easy to put a vanilla man in his place. Trying to put a kinky man in his place is tough because you don't know for sure he hasn't moved to a new place. You kinky guys are all over the place with your fetishes.

Example message I've received; paraphrased from a combination of messages;

>"Hi will you dominate me. I like to cross dress and have a domme take me shopping"

Sorry, I'm only into FORCED feminization. I am not interested in crossdressers

>"Oh I want to be forced that's what I meant"

Do you like crossdressing? I only like dominating men who don't like it but who instead like the humiliation that comes with it.

>"Oh that's perfect for me. Could you please domme me"

Hummm Do you like to be hung by your balls?

>"Yes Mistress I love it"

I hate it, was just testing you. Don't call me Mistress until I am actually your Mistress

>"Sorry Mistress can you forgive me?"

sigh

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