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alliekat10 -> Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 3:23:17 PM)

Sirs, is there a technique used to leave marks? To explain my question. I don't mark easily no matter what. I have been a slave for many years. I am considered a pain slut/masochist. I tell you that just so you know that the "hits" that I've taken and/or can take are not little taps. My late Master was a large and strong man. He would also share me at play parties with other Doms/Dommes so it is not just one person's strength I am referring to. There are times where I have been left black and blue and bloody; but there are many more times that no matter how hard I've been struck the marks do not last. I am just curious if this has happened to others? I have noticed that there were times where I may be flicked with a cane and it would leave a lovely stripe that would last for almost a week. Then there would be times when I would be beat with the same cane full strength and would be left with a deep bruise but not much to be seen on my skin's surface. Thank you all in advance. alliekat



mefisto69 -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 4:17:30 PM)

If you really Want bruises, try a regimen of baby aspirin. 1 or 2 a day for 10 days. It will thin your blood a little and you might get the lasting results you seek. Be careful if you've even been allergic to any meds.



alliekat10 -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 5:10:19 PM)

I never thought about that. Thank you, Sir.



Jeffff -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 5:31:03 PM)

Medicating for marks is kinda stupid. It is possible that you just don't have that sort of skin.

I would suggest you learn to live with it.



littlewonder -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 7:14:20 PM)

you want marks?

Try a sjambok...or just tell them they hit like a girl.

or...there's always other things that leave marks...needles, knives, fire, brands....experiment.

Unless you've got skin made of iron you just haven't found the right strength or item.



Musicmystery -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 8:09:20 PM)

Have you tried this?
[image]http://taylorshocks.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/sharpiemarker.jpg[/image]



kyraofMists -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 8:13:50 PM)

LOL

A Sharpie leaves excellent marks on flesh and then it is so much fun to 'erase' them with various abrasive tools....



Musicmystery -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 8:17:32 PM)

Indeed! And they come in a variety of colors...
[image]http://markingpendepot.com/ProductImages/SharpiePaintAsst-L.jpg[/image]
No dungeon should be without.



Missokyst -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 10:08:43 PM)

take a hot bath or long hot shower before play.  Play with your skin still damp.  thuddy toys are more likely to spread out the impact and leave fewer surface marks but may leave bruising beneath the skin a few layers.  If you are looking for marks, use canes, whips, rubber slappers. 
My personal opinion on marks is why desire them?  I remember play long after a mark might linger.  But it is the man who put them there that marks my psyche. 



weaselwelder -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 10:18:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Medicating for marks is kinda stupid. It is possible that you just don't have that sort of skin.

I would suggest you learn to live with it.

I don't think that it is physically possible for me to agree with this more. Ignoring what blood thinners (aspirin for one) do to your GI tract, liver and kidneys,  you still increase your risk of serious trauma-induced blood loss and, well, death.

Off the top of my head, I can think of a number of artistic permanent and temporary scarring options that carry less risk than sustained aspirin therapy.



alliekat10 -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/18/2010 11:40:02 PM)

Jeffff,
Thank you for your insight on that. I do appreciate it.

Littlewonder,Missokyst
I have had different 'weapons' used on me so thank you for the reccomendations. I am always trying to learn and love to experiment, hence my question. My focus in serving is not on marks. I am very much focused on the mental and emotional bondage with the Master I served until he passed and when we would play with others my goal was only to do the best I could to be pleasing to them so that Master would be proud of me. Even though I am no longer owned, I am still always trying to better myself and to learn. That is mainly what my question was about. Master and/or others would frequently laugh about how they would actually try to just mark me. Usually within hours most of the marks would be just very light pink blemishes on my skin. I am not at all claiming that I cannot be marked. Believe me, I have worn marks at times for weeks. I guess I am just trying to learn from others what toys do what in their experiences.

Musicmystery,
LOL that is absolutely perfect, thank you.



mstrjx -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/19/2010 3:32:48 AM)

Cheers.

I would agree that, in my experience, it is more a function in 'what' is used on you. It's certainly possible that two different individuals might mark differently (ie, one person might have a greater tendency for bruising than another), but I think it has more to do with the toy of choice. If you are looking for marks, something that creates a narrow strike area (single-tail, fiberglass cane, something very thin) will have a much greater propensity for marking. Also, the type of texture used might play a part in it. Whips and paddles made of rubber might have a greater chance of leaving a mark than certain leathers.

Toys that have 'irregularities' might work as well. I have one whip that a) has only a few very thin strands and b) knots at the end, that is certainly much more vicious than a garden-variety flogger. Another is a rubber whip, again with very thin strands, but it features one single strand that is about three inches longer than the rest (by design). That one strand is usually remembered moreso than the rest.

Usage can also play a part. Give the same instrument to two different people to use on you and you might get varying results. Some might go out of their way, or use a different technique, not to leave marks, but another more sadistic type might enjoy the visual results. Neither is wrong, but it's different endings.

Jeff



kyraofMists -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/19/2010 6:31:47 AM)

There are so many variables to marks that I don't think there is anything one thing that is guaranteed to leave them. Type of toy, how it is used, where it is used, type of skin, chemistry of the body....

With me, you can't really tell. Somethings will leave marks that last years and the next time they are used in a very similar manner, the marks will last a few days. I have had a knife used on me and it just scratched the surface, I was not cut to blood and the marks lasted a year and a half. I had a knife that cut to blood and I still carry the hairline scar over 5 years later. Another cutting to blood and the marks faded in a few months.

He has a shinai that he uses on me and I really enjoy the deep sensation. The first time he used it I had huge bruises that lasted for a couple weeks. He used it last Saturday and the bruises are just a faint yellow and there weren't many there to begin with. The first time he used a meat tenderizer on me I didn't bleed much at all. The last time he used it, I was dripping blood.

There was one time with a suede flogger that he hit me just right and you could clearly see the outline of the falls for weeks on my shoulder blade and most time from flogging my back is just a little pink.

The same tools at different times can leave different marks even if used in very similar manners. Your body has a lot to do with whether a mark will last or not.

Knight`s Kyra



MarcEsadrian -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/22/2010 8:07:56 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: alliekat10

Sirs, is there a technique used to leave marks? To explain my question. I don't mark easily no matter what. I have been a slave for many years. I am considered a pain slut/masochist.


In that case I would give full swing cane strokes, delivered in the same area repeatedly. Move to another area nearby and repeat. For added efficacy, make another set of parallel strokes diagonally to crosshatch over the first. You'll be screaming in no time, and assuming you're human, will be leaking blood in mottled patches where the lines intersect. This gives way to hematoma due to sure subcutaneous damage.

Reduction of certain vitamins can help bruising, though doing that has its obvious drawbacks. Lowering or raising vitamins C, E, K and P can help or hinder bruising susceptibility. As a side note, if it's really true that you do not bruise all that well even after blunt force injury, it could be related to medications you may be taking. If not, possibly a subtle sign of some underlying health condition—or superhuman capillaries.



Jeffff -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/22/2010 8:49:38 AM)

Thanks for the heads up on the shinai!

I had never thought of that...:)



laurell3 -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/22/2010 8:51:08 AM)

[8|]



Jeffff -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/22/2010 8:52:34 AM)

[8D]



afkarr -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/22/2010 2:11:43 PM)

As someone who bruises if she gets looked at too hard, I wish I knew how to minimizethe marks- or least make them go away in less than 6 weeks.



kiwisub12 -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/22/2010 2:29:28 PM)

I started out getting huge bruises from a hand spanking - and now don't bruise at all from canes, paddles, floggers and so on.
Its my own personal theory that the little arterioles and venuoles under the skin have clotted off or been damaged enough that they are no longer functioning, and therefore, when i am beaten on the butt, there is nothing to rupture to bleed into the skin.  Lymph collects where a bruise would normally be, and i can have my butt as hard as leather - with nothing to show for it.

I would be upset, except i remember the fun we had getting my butt to that state. [:D]



DarlingSavage -> RE: Marks or lack there of (6/22/2010 3:17:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: afkarr

As someone who bruises if she gets looked at too hard, I wish I knew how to minimizethe marks- or least make them go away in less than 6 weeks.


I've heard aloe vera gel is good for this.



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