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Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 8:13:06 AM

SirsJewel

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Hello to all at CM.....

Had a few interesting welcomes and comments in reguards to my responses and posts thus far in this forum. i am new to the area of CM and there seems to be a definate line in the sand bewteen posters/chatters i'm noticing. As with the chats, i was fortunate to find Passions_for_submission which has become an oasis of wealth and informative banter of knowledge and i reach my hand out to Any and All to pay U/us a call. i went through a few weeks of feeling unfamiliar and inept,as i never had any structured training in the lifestyle but had been owned twice prior to coming to CM,but i have never been made fun of or treated disrepectfully for the most part on CM. i find the people here are protective & intelligent and easy to share experiences & knowledge which i crave and value highly. You will find me to be gragarious/generous with my time and friendship to those who enjoy a good laugh along the way as well. You will also find im an alpha sub who is Owned who does not take any crap and has a Master who allows me to speak freely and respectful to those whom speak towards me this way.

i feel it impolite to make fun of someone asking a post in a new way or poke at a person for pure mean-spiritness,just to feel better about yourself. Cliqueyness i Detest,as well as Bullies and You will see me comment from time to time when it offends me. Other than that- i'm here to learn,not make a long list of so-called Cm buddies, the people i interact with i speak to quite often, i am Not one for Pms, i am working and admining my room on a vanilla site and if it is gossip, have at it.but No TY. i come here to LEARN, pure and simple and pass a tid bit here/there i gleen that may help someone new and naive,as i was that person not too long ago. Drop me an email if You have a comment or question, if it is done non-maliciously i will Always respond. Be Well ~ jewels xo

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 9:24:59 AM

xxblushesxx

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Hun, no one is making fun of you. It is extremely irritating to have all those old posts brought up again with an inane comment or two. It makes it difficult to see the new and relevant posts. That's all anyone was saying.

I know it's difficult to learn the lay of the land right away, and believe me, we've all been made fun of in our first posts. I happened to post what was probably an extremely nauseating poem regarding bdsm in the general bdsm section. I couldn't understand why everyone was snickering at my amateurish and sickly sweet musings. *lol*

I'm sure you are a very nice person, and it's always good to see someone who is engaging in the forums, so welcome. Just move past this, and keep posting and it will be forgotten as soon as someone else has an argument or a beef. Trust me. I know...

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 9:37:38 AM

DarkSteven

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I'm happy you're here. Just keep plugging away. And as you do, you'll learn the local etiquette.

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Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 12:26:45 PM

sirsholly

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Holy heck (see...i AM polite) you brought up a few oldies.

As Stevie and Chrissy said, plus a welcome.

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 1:27:48 PM

SirsJewel

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Thank You i appreciate it and didnt know the responses were upping the order of the threads on the site i own a "group" that doesnt happen. Not much offends me i came from AOHell chats for two years and ran a chat there as well. i just crave knowledge wanting to be a very valuable slave for Master. i am sure i'll ask something asked before, i do it all the time in Passions,but i guess a newbie doesn't know that and a different take on things always adds perspective. i am the real deal, not only online for U/us, as i will relocate to NYC in time to be with Master. W/we see each other other weekly and He is fairly well known on CM. I behave much as if i were to His right side and never try to overstep my bounds, i truly admire most of this community for thier respect and the Ops hard work to keep it running smoothly. Be well ~ jewels xo

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 1:44:12 PM

DarkSteven

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Aohell?!

Hard limit!!!

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Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 3:00:29 PM

sirsholly

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Aohell?!

Bless you. Need a tissue?

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BOOT WHORE
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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 7:20:01 PM

SirsJewel

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lmao~

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 7:53:51 PM

juliaoceania

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Here is something you may appreciate, for the most part people are judged by the ideas they bring forward, not for the side of the kneel they are on. There is no special etiquette expected from you either...

As for cliquishness, etc, that happens in life. It happens where you work, it happened where you went to school, and it happens here... expect that instead of railing against human nature. The mods try to curtail bullies.

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 8:19:43 PM

SirsJewel

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As i said i find CM for the most part very nicely handled about that sort of thing~ jewels

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 8:55:42 PM

juliaoceania

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Welcome to the site, and I am glad there are new people here... more playmates on the boards is always a good thing

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 9:01:41 PM

DarkSteven

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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Welcome to the site, and I am glad there are new people here... more playmates on the boards is always a good thing

Especially subbie wimmins.

Even if she is collared.

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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/21/2010 10:05:34 PM

SirsJewel

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thankies ~

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/22/2010 8:31:09 AM

January

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quote:

Passions_for_submission

Hi Jewels,

I was wondering what Passions_for_submission was. Is this a website -- Passions_for_submission.com? A part of collarme? Can you help me here?

Thanks,

January

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/22/2010 8:39:59 AM

laurell3

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Welcome SirsJewel.

We don't tend to judge other people on their kink or lack thereof here. Saying things like "that's unslave like", "I'm the real deal", "I'm not just online"....are judgement calls indicating you think you are better or subblier than others. I would avoid that if I were you. We're all different, none is better than the other. When you say things indicating you are, you will get called on it. It's really that simple.

The old thread thing is odd, I don't really get the overreaction to it, but it's pretty easy to just ignore people that do that.

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/22/2010 9:52:17 AM

SirsJewel

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Yes its usually the top chat listed on CM. It's a really good place to hang as it is a topic room,no trolling,roleplay sort of thing. It's been a tad slow since we have dealt with a person shutting down the room a while back,but you can learn a great deal and ask things realtime,hope to see you there sometime~ jewels

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/22/2010 10:18:19 AM

DarlingSavage

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirsJewel

Yes its usually the top chat listed on CM. It's a really good place to hang as it is a topic room,no trolling,roleplay sort of thing. It's been a tad slow since we have dealt with a person shutting down the room a while back,but you can learn a great deal and ask things realtime,hope to see you there sometime~ jewels

What on earth are you talking about?

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/22/2010 10:19:38 AM

mnottertail

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irc

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/22/2010 12:14:59 PM

January

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Jewels,

Thanks. Without the # symbol, I had no idea Passions_for_submission was a channel on IRC! I finally took a look at that list of Collarme chatrooms. Your room looks like it's hopping.

January

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RE: Welcome Wagon~ - 6/22/2010 2:12:51 PM

SirsJewel

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Yes i believe its 6776? i just go to chatrooms through Java. In my opnion it is a great room,most are very helpful and warm in helping anyone with a question. Have fun ~ jewels

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