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ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Sub Males..... What Are You Actively Doing? (6/24/2010 11:27:04 AM)
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Hi, LP. Some good questions. This may be a pretty interesting thread by the time it's run its course. I'll take a shot at it myself here, while it's still fresh.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Sub males, what are you actively doing to meet a Dominant woman? Is your profile filled out?
I'm not doing very much at all at the moment. I've got profiles on a couple of other sites, but I pulled my Collarme profile a long time ago. I won't have an active profile on CM again. There are a couple of other sites that I feel more comfortable and in synch with, and I will maintain active profiles there for the indefinite future.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Do you attempt to make contacts?
Rarely. Maybe once or - at most - twice a year. I'll send occasional e-mails out to people telling them how much I like their profile or their posts, but I very seldom make serious contact with them. Most profiles look pretty much the same to me, and it's extremely rare that I see one that makes me sit up and say, "Wow! Who is that?" And I'm not interested in anything less than "wow," because a life without "wow" isn't worth settling for.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Do you go to your local munch or attend events?
Sure. But mostly just to keep in touch with old friends and feel "connected" with the pulse of the local community. I really don't go with the goal of meeting a partner, because 90% of the people are the same ones I've been meeting for the last 15 years. Many of them are wonderful people, and I've made some priceless freindships. Many of the women are attractive, or even very attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. Close-knit groups tend to take on a community personality, and there's nothing about our local community's group personality that I really identify with very closely. Which means that I don't "click" very hard with most of the individual members of the group, either.
I mostly go to make and maintain friendships, and because, well... you never know. It's always possible. You can't win the lottery unless you buy a ticket every now and then.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Are you being pro-active in your goal of meeting a Dominant woman?
I suppose so, to the extent that I do have profiles up, and am always looking for that one unique profile that makes me sit up straight and stop breathing. But it's not something in which I'm willing to invest a lot of time or energy at this point of my life. I've got other things in my life that are more important and deliver more return on my investments. I'm quite comfortable with the amount of time and energy I invest in that area of endeavour at this time.
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