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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 6:14:14 PM

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How unfortunate .. I am finding out that subs in my age group just don`t cum all that often. What can I do to help?. More tongue. kissing. licking. nipple play, mood music??. Better wine? Slow hand?. I want to improve my technique. Please ladies tell me what rings the bells for you.

Discover the fountain of youth? If you are dating women in their 50's, menopause can have a physiological impact on sexuality. You cannot fix that with better wine. It's not about you, her body has changed. Don't focus on orgasm. Women can enjoy sex immensely without it.

I will add that seeing if she is willing to go to the Gyno and getting a full blood panel done.
Taking HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) does help a lot of menopausal women with a return of Libido and sex function.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 8:08:45 PM

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If none of that gets her hot, then you just don't turn her on.

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Or the dishwasher isn't working, and the laundry has piled up and it stinks, and the oldest kid is driving her insane, and she feels fat....

Sheesh! If your woman isn't enjoying sex maybe it's because the rest of life is drowning out her interest. Take out the trash and load the dishwasher and listen to her problems... and then seduce her!

Post-menopausal woman can absolutely love sex and be multi-orgasmic. And it doesn't always require anything as drastic as HRT therapy... well.. maybe a dab of estrogen cream...

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 8:18:52 PM

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A friend of mine (70) uses an estrogen suppository that gives her that juicy goodness without causing estrogen-related dangers. Know your body, and ask your doctor what is out there!

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 8:47:15 PM

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gosh.. how the heck old are you that women your age do not cum?

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 9:08:36 PM

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gosh.. how the heck old are you that women your age do not cum?

Older than me.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 9:15:47 PM

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It is not a direct answer to your question, but may give you a place to start. Aside from that, I'd suggest seeking out help by picking up some books on improving your technique.

I'm sorry, I tried not to go here, I can't help myself

http://tv.popcrunch.com/snl-grady-wilsons-fifty-and-freaky-kenan-thompson-video/

Make that two.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 9:31:58 PM

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It is not a direct answer to your question, but may give you a place to start. Aside from that, I'd suggest seeking out help by picking up some books on improving your technique.

I'm sorry, I tried not to go here, I can't help myself

http://tv.popcrunch.com/snl-grady-wilsons-fifty-and-freaky-kenan-thompson-video/

Make that two.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/22/2010 9:03:40 AM

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I will add that seeing if she is willing to go to the Gyno and getting a full blood panel done.
Taking HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) does help a lot of menopausal women with a return of Libido and sex function.

Nod, the key is having a full blood panel done. The culprit is often but not always low estrogen. Sometimes it is low testosterone.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/22/2010 9:07:54 AM

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How unfortunate .. I am finding out that subs in my age group just don`t cum all that often. What can I do to help?. More tongue. kissing. licking. nipple play, mood music??. Better wine? Slow hand?. I want to improve my technique. Please ladies tell me what rings the bells for you.

Discover the fountain of youth? If you are dating women in their 50's, menopause can have a physiological impact on sexuality. You cannot fix that with better wine. It's not about you, her body has changed. Don't focus on orgasm. Women can enjoy sex immensely without it.

I will add that seeing if she is willing to go to the Gyno and getting a full blood panel done.
Taking HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) does help a lot of menopausal women with a return of Libido and sex function.

And a number of very risky side-effects as well as numerous reasons why MANY women cannot use them. Shrugs, I guess it's rather unclear to me why so many people are reacting so negatively to the fact that as we age our bodies change.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/22/2010 9:15:29 AM

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How unfortunate .. I am finding out that subs in my age group just don`t cum all that often. What can I do to help?. More tongue. kissing. licking. nipple play, mood music??. Better wine? Slow hand?. I want to improve my technique. Please ladies tell me what rings the bells for you.

Perhaps it's because when we get into "our" age group, we focus on quality, not quantity?

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/22/2010 5:31:17 PM

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Plus if we are less wet, it hurts instead of feeling good. Talk to her, if this is why then get a good lube. Have her talk to the doctor about options. And lots of us are not candidates for HRT. I'm not.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/22/2010 7:16:13 PM

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Progesterone also figures into a woman's hormones. HRT is not always the answer and for some women not possible, especially if there is a history or certain cancers. There are many things women can do to ease menopause without depending on HRT. Menopause, while unpleasant for many women, is part of the natural progression of a woman's life. Perhaps we should focus on what a caring, interested partner can do for a woman when she is in menopause. Although he may have to do some work, including more foreplay than usual. For some dominants this may present an insurmountable challenge.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/24/2010 7:04:43 PM

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Although he may have to do some work, including more foreplay than usual. For some dominants this may present an insurmountable challenge.

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