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Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Men in my panties. (6/23/2010 10:53:31 PM)
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ORIGINAL: SamanthaQ
Yes I did the same to you the difference is .... I am NOT a moderator.... You represent collarme and your actions are much more likely to drive away business. If you wish to call someone an attention whore, as you called submissivemale22, then you should do it as yourself in a non moderator profile.
It's true that the moderators represent Collarme, if you sincerely think the Mod was saying harsh stuff directed at submissivemale22, you must have missed the thread that he started that literally got yanked from board. What happened is that the thread got yanked, and Thread Bleed occured. Meaning it started to spill off into this thread and another thread. If you were following submissivemale22 thread you would have a higher understanding of how trying the exchanges were between him and other users of the site. In many regards her calling him an attention whore is very mild compared to other things users were expressing. It's unfortunate, that you only are seeing Part of the aftermath in the wake of what transpired.
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And no. I'm not into starting drama just to cause drama. I was reading the refuge threads today and I just couldn't believe that only hours after I read about certain mod behaviors... I come here and those exact mod behaviors take place right in a thread I'm in. I couldn't help laughing and responding.
I can't believe a business would allow their people to behave in such a way. I'm guessing you don't get paid for this. I'm sure that influences your behavior.
In regards to this, it's generally 99% of the time that it's the users that start the drama, keep the drama going, don't know when to knock it off nor let up. If anything the Mods here have become more relaxed in terms of letting people express themselves in a number of ways. Again, 99% of the time it's the users that are engaging in starting the drama and keeping the drama going. Ironic, that this thread and another did not become derailed until submissivemale22 came in with Bleed over posts from a thread that got yanked.
While not everybody will see eye to eye, on the moderation of this message board, there is something left to be said about how us users conduct ourselves here. Sure some people laugh and joke around.
I will express this much, sincerely, This is not me just expressing this to engage in causing Drama. VideoAdminAlpha is a much better person compared to submissivemale22. That is Personality wise, Character wise and etc. I sincerely don't have much good to say nor think about submissivemale22, not after the personal interactions I've had with him. Did I take things personally, you betcha I did. Then again, it's not everyday when my own words are twisted around and misconstrued that I am supportive of Abuse, Domestic violence and etc..
I sincerely don't consider myself as part of any "elite group" of people using this site. I most certainly, don't try to play into popularity contests either. If something or somebody rubs me the wrong way, meeh.. I may or may not speak my mind about it. I don't allows follow politically correct standards either. I may or may not conform to expectations that people have.
At the end of the day, I have way more respect for VideoAdminAlpha over submissivemale22. I have been MOD spanked on CM, somewhere around 4-5 times since 2004. Whenever, I have been MOD spanked, I've haulted whatever path I was on. Took a step back, took a break from things or did whatever I needed to do. I did not continue to push the issue nor keep shit going.
There are times, when I may or may not agree with how things are going down at times, then again who does? Everything is not perfect in the world, everything ain't perfect here. Again, for the few times I have been MOD spanked, I've had to step back and knocked it the fuck off.
Sincerely, the kinds of posts "submissivemale22" made today on the message board are more damning for business, compared to any of the posts VideoAdminAlpha made today. This is my opinion, and this is how I sincerely think and view things. No favoritisms involved either. If you ask me, VideoAdminAlpha is being extremely kind in still allowing him to post here. Then again, this is my personal opinion on this matter.
I sincerely give VideoAdminAlpha a lot of credit for not putting submissivemale22 posts under moderator approval. Again, if anything she is being very kind in my opinion.
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I've heard CM doesn't allow people to delete profiles. I'm about to find out. I'm going yo try.
The feature to delete profile works just fine, there also is a "close account" feature which is different. The "Delete Profile" does not Close your account, you have to use the "Close Account" option if you wish to be removed from the system. The process takes a couple of days to complete, during that time period (should you change your mind) you can opt to cancel the closing of your account in case you have a change of mind.
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