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My First Caning - 4/13/2006 10:51:42 PM

cajun

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Hello everyone,

I just wanted to share my first caning experience today. I have been serving Mistress K for a few months now and today she gave me a taste of the cane. I have always had an aversion to spankings and canings since I could not stand to be spanked. It always hurt way too soon and I never enjoyed it at all. I love to be whipped, clamped, pinched etc., but never spanked.
The last time Mistress and I played she warmed me with a pretty good spanking. She used all kinds of different implements with varying textures and pressures. It was amazing! I never knew how good it could feel. She said that I probably was never warmed up well enough and it also helped that I was on a spanking bench so I didn't have to support my weight also. With all of those things in alignment, She said that the next time I will experience the cane.

I was very nervous and anxious the weeks leading up to today. I got dressed as she asked, thigh highs, corset, skirt and my new ballet boots. Sorry, that will be another thread. She placed me over the bench and proceded to warm me up with a good spanking coupled with some different paddles and straps.

I had my eyes closed the entire time because I did not want to know what was coming next. I guess that helps me get through it easier. After she was satisfied, She asked me if I was ready, and I said "Yes Mistrress." She broke out a thin cane and pressed it against my already tender ass and told me to breathe. I did and then it crashed onto me! It felt like a razor blade slicing my right cheek open. I winced in pain but remembered to breathe. I got through it and She praised me. Then, one more and I jumped.

She rubbed my ass with some rabbit fur to soothe it a little. Then she grabbed the thicker cane. This one came down with more thud and I didn't jump near as much. She could tell this also and gave me another with the same one.

After examining her work, She noticed that marks weren't very visible due to my darker skin. She retieved the thinner first cane and then gave me 2 more strokes, quickly in succession this time. I thought I was going to jump out of my boots. This time there were some marks.

I was now in subspace and She continued to rub me and tell me how proud of me She was. She let me lay there for a little bit and then moved to the floor by her side. We talked while I was floating. She said that being a sub herself, She would never give me anything She hasn't already experienced.

She said that She has to get into the head of her subs and see where they are to help them get to where they need to be. I am very lucky to have a Mistress as caring as Mistress K to take care of me and teach me. It seems that all of the roads I have taken in the past and different people I have played with, led me here to her.

I thanked Mistress a number of times for helping me with the caning/spanking aversion and that I hope to be the best sub She has. I also told her that I was grateful for how she treats me and how much I appreciate her for being a caring and sensuous Domme with a sadistic side and not just sadistic.

Sorry that I have gone on for so long, I just wanted to share.

Thank you again Mistress K,

jo

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RE: My First Caning - 4/21/2006 5:46:54 PM

knees2you

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You Go Jo~

I've been canined before and felt the same way before hand as you did.

Take Care, and HAPPY Cainning!! Ant

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RE: My First Caning - 4/22/2006 5:22:24 AM

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Congrats........I too love having fun and raising cane!

Winks, Kevin

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RE: My First Caning - 4/24/2006 2:39:46 AM

slaverubyred

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i know how you feel, i love been caned! i remember being very afraid of the cane for some reason. W/we have 2 canes also, the thin mr Evil Whippy cane which i really do not like and the Koboo cane which i LOVE!! i remember the 1st time Master caned me, i dont think its something you can forget just as ill never forget the caning i recieved this weekend from Master. OUCH! that will teach me to go begging for it lol *giggle* .. It is blissful in its agony! The more you have it, the more you will love it :-)

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RE: My First Caning - 5/30/2006 12:06:54 PM

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It is blessed to Give as well as Receive...

Good to know it's enjoyed on both .... ends

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RE: My First Caning - 6/4/2006 12:52:13 PM

Andrameada

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And now jo's asking for more, even after 10 strokes. My my my. Someone's becoming a cane slut. I'm very proud of him.

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RE: My First Caning - 6/4/2006 6:17:09 PM

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I used to be scared of the cane.. I don't know why there was no logic in it. I was doing a session with a friend and he pulled out a cane(which I didn't know at the time I was blindfolded) and proceeded to work me over pretty well with it. He had throuroughly warmed me up first, but the feeling was fantastic. I haven't had the chance since to have a cane used on me, but I am certainly looking forward to it!

I have also found that the more relaxed I am the more pain I can take. I'm becoming somewhat of a pain slut albeit slowly. :P

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RE: My First Caning - 6/4/2006 9:16:37 PM

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Wonderful Jo....it is great when first experiences are positive.
I, personally, have a love hate relationship with canes.

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RE: My First Caning - 6/5/2006 11:40:41 AM

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Congratulations, that's wonderful! You must feel so fulfilled... that headspace is the most incredible thing ever.... :)

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