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ranja -> RE: How does a BDSM marriage work? (7/10/2010 5:03:58 AM)
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I have managed to 'convert' my Husband, our marriage is 100% better for it.
my tools in this crafty manipulation were:
1 an on-line Dominant who very nicely pushed me the right way
2 a true willingness to try absolutely anything and be prepared to humiliate myself totally in the process of trying (i have to say i was indeed that desperate)
3 a good sense of humour (though at times i could cry)
4 also (better late than never) i developed the skill to ask nicely for things (instead of sulking about the fact he can not read my mind... or understand any of my 'hints')
good luck
oh, as a tip just for a bit of fun... perhaps you could ask if your man would like to wrap you up in cling film sometimes maybe make a date for that activity... see what he makes of it
ETA and also it is lovely to take your man's boots off after he comes home from work, and give him a little foot massage...
if you want pain... ask him to hit you with a plastic ruler or any kitchen tool, a spatula or something.... or ask him to spank you... ask him if he could put you over his knees and spank you.... maybe he takes to it like a fish to water
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