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simpleslavee -> Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 7:29:28 PM)
As a somewhat experienced submissive, having spent 1 year in contractual servitude, live in. 24/7. I have found myself, in a relationship with a younger "initially" inexperienced Domme, in a very short period of time this inexperienced Domme has surpassed me, with my experience, into one who has her own unique, approach to Domination. Im no longer the helpful submissive, sharing my insight, i am now ..her "bitch"... i find myself totally obsessed with her, from the time i wake up to when i go to sleep. im not in a 24/7 live in arrangement...but for 24 hours out of the day, im thinking of her, yearning , desire.. there has been no sex involved... I know myself well enough that if sex had evolved my obsession wouldn't be less.. if anything more... Her training methods primarily has been around Dog training, and im very much responding to it.. im very concious of the training , and conscious of my changing, Might someone versed in this type of training see obsessing on one's Owner something that this type of training brings forth in a sub / slave ? it is so strong a state, its painful to be alone / away from my Owner. Or is Obsessing something that a submissive becoming a "slave" feels in the process. i never have felt obsession so strongly before...and it isn't jealousy.. I want to see my Owner happy. Or is Obsession just Obsession ? and for whatever reason this state of mind is my reality ...Sincerely simple.

ReginaMirus -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 7:52:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: simpleslavee As a somewhat experienced submissive, having spent 1 year in contractual servitude, live in. 24/7. I have found myself, in a relationship with a younger "initially" inexperienced Domme, in a very short period of time this inexperienced Domme has surpassed me, with my experience, into one who has her own unique, approach to Domination. Im no longer the helpful submissive, sharing my insight, i am now ..her "bitch"... i find myself totally obsessed with her, from the time i wake up to when i go to sleep. im not in a 24/7 live in arrangement...but for 24 hours out of the day, im thinking of her, yearning , desire.. there has been no sex involved... I know myself well enough that if sex had evolved my obsession wouldn't be less.. if anything more... Her training methods primarily has been around Dog training, and im very much responding to it.. im very concious of the training , and conscious of my changing, Might someone versed in this type of training see obsessing on one's Owner something that this type of training brings forth in a sub / slave ? it is so strong a state, its painful to be alone / away from my Owner. Or is Obsessing something that a submissive becoming a "slave" feels in the process. i never have felt obsession so strongly before...and it isn't jealousy.. I want to see my Owner happy. Or is Obsession just Obsession ? and for whatever reason this state of mind is my reality ...Sincerely simple. Ok, so which is it, now? Your story isn't very consistent there, sparky.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 7:57:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus quote: ORIGINAL: simpleslavee As a somewhat experienced submissive, having spent 1 year in contractual servitude, live in. 24/7. ...................... im not in a 24/7 live in arrangement...but for 24 hours out of the day, im thinking of her, yearning , desire.. Ok, so which is it, now? Your story isn't very consistent there, sparky. BUSTED! [8\|]

marie2 -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 8:00:42 PM)
It read to me like the first one was giving the history of a relationship in the past. The second was speaking of what he/she is engaged in at present. (I think)

ReginaMirus -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 8:06:45 PM)
Yeah, I'm calling bullshit on the whole thing, but that's just me.

simpleslavee -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 8:49:32 PM)
Hello Marie2 has it right, I told of a past experience now a current experience... whats to be "busted" asking a question about Obsession ? ReginaMirus your reading something into my post that has nothing to do with my question or my experiences...

ReginaMirus -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 9:09:40 PM)
Pardon my skepticism, but if I had a dime for every male s-type that sauntered into forums such as this one and posted thwap stories under the guise of "looking for advice", I'd be a millionaire by now. Or would that be "millionairess"? Is that a real word?

hardbodysub -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 9:12:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming quote: ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus quote: ORIGINAL: simpleslavee As a somewhat experienced submissive, having spent 1 year in contractual servitude, live in. 24/7. ...................... im not in a 24/7 live in arrangement...but for 24 hours out of the day, im thinking of her, yearning , desire.. Ok, so which is it, now? Your story isn't very consistent there, sparky. BUSTED! [8\|] The only thing busted is the idea of some people here having any reading comprehension skills. The noted "inconsistency" is non-existent, as "having spent 1 year ..." was in the past, and }im not in a 24/7 ..." is in the present. Not so hard to understand if you just simply read it rationally, without a pre-existing motive to find something wrong with it.

marie2 -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 10:02:54 PM)
simpleslavee: I can't say I've ever experienced exactly that you've described under those circumstance, so I can't really add much here. Hopefully someone will come along and have some input. The only thing I would suggest is posting this in the Ask a Submissive section. I think you will likely find other submissives who can relate to your experience and add something of value. Best wishes....

laurell3 -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/29/2010 10:18:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: simpleslavee As a somewhat experienced submissive, having spent 1 year in contractual servitude, live in. 24/7. I have found myself, in a relationship with a younger "initially" inexperienced Domme, in a very short period of time this inexperienced Domme has surpassed me, with my experience, into one who has her own unique, approach to Domination. Im no longer the helpful submissive, sharing my insight, i am now ..her "bitch"... i find myself totally obsessed with her, from the time i wake up to when i go to sleep. im not in a 24/7 live in arrangement...but for 24 hours out of the day, im thinking of her, yearning , desire.. there has been no sex involved... I know myself well enough that if sex had evolved my obsession wouldn't be less.. if anything more... Her training methods primarily has been around Dog training, and im very much responding to it.. im very concious of the training , and conscious of my changing, Might someone versed in this type of training see obsessing on one's Owner something that this type of training brings forth in a sub / slave ? it is so strong a state, its painful to be alone / away from my Owner. Or is Obsessing something that a submissive becoming a "slave" feels in the process. i never have felt obsession so strongly before...and it isn't jealousy.. I want to see my Owner happy. Or is Obsession just Obsession ? and for whatever reason this state of mind is my reality ...Sincerely simple. I think it's possible you're using this as your escape FROM reality. I don't think that's a good thing when it rises to the level of obsession, but I don't know you obviously. Have you talked to her about this?

BitaTruble -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/30/2010 4:54:10 AM)
Simpleslave - your relationship is still new and has that normal new lust/passion feel without enough time passing to temper it. I wouldn't worry too much about it unless it's effecting your day to day life. Now, that said, I am still fairly obsessed with Himself and it feels as though our relationship is still new as well although 15 years have passed. Now, I don't think about him 24 hours a day but I sure as hell think about him a lot and send him little text throughout the day just to brighten his life for a moment or two especially when he's away which means board or regulatory meetings and I know those can be yawners for him. A slutty or perverted text from me is going to make him smile and that always makes me smile, too. Other times I'm doing something very mundane or routine and my mind just naturally wanders to him and wonders what he's doing, what he's thinking, did he eat something healthy, is he taking care of himself and things like that and one thought generally leads to another where he's concerned and before I am even aware, my mundane task is done and I've spent most of that time with him in my head. I reference him often on collarme (probably to the point where people are sick of reading about it!) because he is he absolute largest part and most important person in my world. Now, all that said, I get just as many out of the blue text from him as he does from me.. almost all of which are slutty and/or funny in nature, so I know he thinks about me a lot as well. In a nutshell, we are probably really good for each others ego's because we are both somewhat obsessed with each other and that ain't no bad thing as far as I'm concerned. :D

pyroaquatic -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/30/2010 5:12:49 AM)
Obsessive, Yes. Compulsive, I do not know. Is your life in disorder? Do you love this Woman? Can you function by yourself? As long as your obsession is not to your detriment I see nothing wrong with it.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is Obsession part of going deeper into "slave mentality" (6/30/2010 8:23:23 AM)
See, Bita has it right (as usual![:D]) when the obsession is mutual it's all to the good!

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