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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/14/2006 8:35:50 PM

ownedgirlie

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LMAO....hugss True (i am honored to have your um...bananas)...love you too baby...

~ directs all passersby to the next page...nothing to see here, keep it moving.... ~

We can get back to the actual thread now....thanks for your patience everyone!!

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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/14/2006 8:38:02 PM

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Hey, how come I didn't get no apple? I just ate all my dinner and it had veggies in it and everything!! ::pout::

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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/14/2006 9:38:22 PM

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I have to say like another above Me somewhere that it is the asses that act like that.
There are asses in the switch and submissives catagories too.There are asses everywhere.

Just let it go in one ear and out the other.There are some nice people here.
And some of the info you can find here is exceptional.

Enjoy the boards and have fun

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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/14/2006 9:56:04 PM

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this girl knows exactally what you mean tears, the thread she posted on ask a master seemed to have a galvanizing effect on some of the Doms (one in particular) that wanted, not to address the question (which was constantly being misunderstood) but attack this girl's childhood, life choices and general intellengence.
it can get frusterating sometimes, but this girl loves the challenge.

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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/14/2006 9:58:24 PM

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To Tears...I too am fairly new to the forum,I kind of equate CM posters to a dysfunctional family,tons of differing viewpoints,lifestyles,the good, the bad,and an occasional ugly...Dom/me/subs/slaves/switch whatever encompassing the full human experience with kink added to the mix.It definitely makes for an interesting ride.Take from it what you wish and leave the rest.When you post,you will know that you will never have everyone agreeing with you, and I say great! give me another way of looking at it.If you get flamed,ach! who cares, you can choose to respond or not.You may even find when you get flamed you still may be able to take something away from it .You found a good one to assist you in truesub..To true..dang girl I knew you were always deranged ..but pleeezzee..put some pants on!...be well...Tempting

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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/15/2006 8:58:13 AM

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Tempting you make a good point there. All though i'm more thick skinned not to allow some on line dom to try and intimidate me. I do have to laugh at the ones I have seen in other threads, that do try to bully or be an ass to some. To me the one who feels they need to flame, are the ones who are more closed minded and or self centered. I can disagree with someone without flaming them. I will admit I will debate back to one that flames. But when I see them trying to show their ass. I just smile, say thank you and leave it at that. Pisses them off even more.

Way to go there true on breaking in another rank on your post. You and owned sure made it a good morning for me after a bad night at work. I learned my first lesson in drinking coffee and reading post made by you two. Guess I really didn't quite believe the spewing threads. I'm a believer now. Love the humor you two bring with you to the forum.

I'm off for a fabulous weekend to the moutains to meet a dom friend and enjoy myself. I hope you all have a wonderful Easter and a safe one. <Tears>

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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/15/2006 9:49:31 AM

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I don't think it's a big issue at all. I've seen people argue, I've argued with people. I've had multiple people argue against me, I've joined the assault against people. I've had people e-mail me to tell me they agreed but didn't want to go against the masses, and people that write rationally on the message write crude e-mails like cowards(because no one can see the vulgarity then) I've had people nit-pick my posts because they didn't agree and think that's a argument. But whatever, the real purpose of the message boards isn't so much to be totally accepting of everyone, but moreso, to see who thinks in a compatible way. In that case it becomes clear who isn't compatible with who. And sometimes BDSM concepts cross over into everyday life concepts like supremacy, abuse, etc... In which case it's not about kink anymore but about core principles one holds. Making for heated debate. It's also really simple not to attract opposing views, just put it in the topic that you just want encouraging accepting views, and I bet that's all you'd get. But I personally view when someone posts a topic they want opinions. As everything on this board is just someones opinion, very little is provable. Their are also about a 100 different writing styles on here as well, so, knowing how dramatic a person is also goes along way in not taking offense. If I called someone a cunt on here they'd probably take offense, one of the popular posters up here would just get a snicker, because it's the way he/she writes.

I can say I've yet to be offended, I've come to the conclusion some people just are completely uncompatible with my way of thinking, while others I see as being compatible. That doesn't mean I don't think they should be here, it just means I don't agree with them. Either way take it for what it is a bunch of blowhards, all assembled in the same location at once, thinking there way is the right way. That way may be tolerance for all, which is a way to. But they generally don't tolerate the intolerant. LOL. No way out. Someones always going to be the odd man out.

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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/15/2006 10:27:22 AM

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Cute pics, Riot!

Thanks! You too = ) (love the eyes)

Owned.. lmao that was funny = )

MistressSassy.... were you by chance saying one of us was acting like an ass? <grinzz> Personally i think that could be fun = ) And not at all like a doormat, or a brat, or an arrogant cocky bastard! But i suppose it could be similiar = )

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RE: On line dominant bullies. - 4/15/2006 12:27:04 PM

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Greetings,

I, for one, make it a point to be respectful in my posts, no matter if I am addressing one who is submissive or one who is Dominant -- because everyone deserves respect. Also, just because someone is a slave and is on this board, unless they are MY slave, I have no say in the way of their behavior, or to expect my voice to have any more weight than that of a woman passing them on the street.

As for discussions and flames, I have also been in online communities of all types since 1998, and have moderated a few groups and communities myself. (The largest of them having over 1000 members at one time, out of a group of people of maybe 5000 in that particular sub-scene, so about 20% of the available people with that interest). And in every community I have ever been a part of, there have been flame-wars. Collarme is still relatively light as far as that goes, and when I get free time, this is one of my favorite places to hang out :D.

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