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RE: I love you - 6/30/2010 7:37:39 PM   
itsmeinLV


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Status: offline 		I tend to show it a lot more than I say it.  I have this habit of not saying it unless it's a response to him saying it first.  It's not that I don't feel it, I just think I like to act on it rather than just say it.  *shrug*

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RE: I love you - 6/30/2010 7:40:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sir and I are very much in love.  We say it at minimum a half dozen times a day.  Every phone convo ends with it, we text it.  When we are face to face, we say it even more.  If I'm on the computer and he's watching TV, he will look up and say "I love you."  We say it during sex, first thing in the morning, last thing at night, etc etc.

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RE: I love you - 6/30/2010 7:46:48 PM   
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Now for my question. Do you tell you Master hat you love him a lot, or do you try to show it more in actions, or is it a combition of both?



I tell Daddy all the time, sometimes its simply in an email that says ILU and other times its much more sappy. I also try to show him in every day things, even little romantic things like putting a card in the mail or putting a love note in his bag when he is going back home. I know it touches him and often makes his long days much easier.


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RE: I love you - 6/30/2010 7:48:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		"They say" that you need to tell your loved one five positive things for every negative thing you say.  But you can't overdo it.  Women don't generally like soft, mushy men.  Please no emo-men!  "They say" that it's all right for a leader, say a president, to have their eyes 'well up with' tears.  But you can't let the tears run down the cheek.  You are then, by definition, a girlie-man.

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RE: I love you - 6/30/2010 7:53:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: trueshadow

"They say" that you need to tell your loved one five positive things for every negative thing you say.  But you can't overdo it.  Women don't generally like soft, mushy men.  Please no emo-men!  "They say" that it's all right for a leader, say a president, to have their eyes 'well up with' tears.  But you can't let the tears run down the cheek.  You are then, by definition, a girlie-man.




I dont agree. I have seen alot of strong dominant men cry in my time. I dont think of them as girly because of it infact I think they are stronger for it. Nor do i think telling a woman or anyone how you feel about them can ever be over done IMO. Nor do I see anything wrong with a man being romantic or pushy.

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RE: I love you - 6/30/2010 8:44:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		We say "I love you" several times a day to each other.  We also play the "I love you the most" game he made up.  In the morning you try to be the person who says "I love you the most" before the other remembers to say it.  Of course we also show each other our love in many ways each day.  Even asking him if he remembered his pills is an act of love and not nagging. 

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RE: I love you - 6/30/2010 9:05:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: trueshadow

"They say" that you need to tell your loved one five positive things for every negative thing you say.  But you can't overdo it.  Women don't generally like soft, mushy men.  Please no emo-men!  "They say" that it's all right for a leader, say a president, to have their eyes 'well up with' tears.  But you can't let the tears run down the cheek.  You are then, by definition, a girlie-man.



that's ridiculous. Shared vulnerability leads to intimacy. Men that hide how they feel and play a stereotype are unlikely to generate much of a positive response for me. I also do not believe you can overdo it when it is consentual and a shared emotion, if it's not, you're a stalker

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RE: I love you - 6/30/2010 9:19:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		We do both in our relationship and in our home. Since the first time he told me he loved me there has only been two occasions that he has either left the house when I did not say I love you when he left...... And the entire time he was gone I felt horrible.  Daily we also do acts tos how each other that we love each other. Occasionally  I will put notes in his wallet, in his shoes, etc. that say I love you, have a great day, I miss you.  I will go get his favorite drink and leave him a note that it's in the refrigerator for him before I leave for work.

One of the things that was important for us to do was to explore what the others love language was.

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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 4:24:16 AM   
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Now for my question. Do you tell you Master hat you love him a lot, or do you try to show it more in actions, or is it a combition of both?
we say it to each other many times a day, but words without actions are just words.
I try to SHOW him as well as tell him, even with something as silly as a note in his lunch


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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 8:18:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		anyone who reads my journals can tell i've been head over heels for this Man. He tells me He loves me constantly. i never get tired of hearing it. i tell Him i love Him adore Him. i hadnt been in love since my first love back when i was 15. it took a long time to learn to deal with the strength and depth of this love. it was very scary in the beginning. having never forgotten teenage heartache.

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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 8:52:16 AM   
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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 12:17:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Every once in a while, when I say I love you, Daddy will joke, what do you want? Or he'll say "yeah right you just want me for my money, and I'll say what money? and he'll reply Bitch. "
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


I do say I love you to Himself because it's a truth but I'm more likely to turn to him and say... "You know I tolerate you, right?" because *that* will make him laugh. Or if he asks me if I love him.. I'll say something like.. "Yeah, yer okay.. I guess." I have a screenname to live up to after all.

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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 12:23:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I seem to be the oddball here. I never say it directly to my Master's face. I go out of my way to show it in my actions, to be creative in ways to make his life more pleasant, to warn him of potentially difficult situations, etc. He's told me that he sees into my heart, and we both agree that if one had to choose between a slave who can easily tell her Master how much she loves him but then seeks her own selfish ways and a slave who cannot say it but shows it in every action that we both prefer the latter. (Surely the best choice is someone who can balance both but I haven't learned to do that.) He also has a hard time using the words to me so we fit well together. We know that there is a special and deep emotional attachment between us; we just choose not to define it or label it.

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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 12:33:25 PM   
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He does silly things like standing on a chair in a bar and shouting at the top of his voice 'MARIA I LOVE YOU' which tends to get us a round of applause
We tell each other how much we love each other every day but they are never just words. When something comes from the heart its obvious.
When ever someone asks him how long we have known each other, he always says 'forever, I didn't know life before I met her'

I love the romantic loving side of him. It took a while for me to relax and feel comfortable in showing my love but now that I can do it, it just flows!


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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 12:34:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz



He does silly things like standing on a chair in a bar and shouting at the top of his voice 'MARIA I LOVE YOU' which tends to get us a round of applause
We tell each other how much we love each other every day but they are never just words. When something comes from the heart its obvious.
When ever someone asks him how long we have known each other, he always says 'forever, I didn't know life before I met her'

I love the romantic loving side of him. It took a while for me to relax and feel comfortable in showing my love but now that I can do it, it just flows!



I just gotta say..........that is adorable.


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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 12:42:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I want to be loved
With inspiration
I want to be loved
Starting tonight
Instead of merely holding conversation
Hold me tight

I want to be kissed
Until I tingle
I want to be kissed
Starting tonight
Embrace me til our heartbeats intermingle
Wrong or right

I feel like acting my age
I'm past the stage of merely turtle doving
I'm in no mood to resist
and I insist
The world owes me a loving

I wanna be thrilled
To desperation
I want to be thrilled
Starting tonight
With every kind of wonderful sensation
I want to be loved


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RE: I love you - 7/1/2010 1:07:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		There isn't a morning that goes by that we don't say "I love you" there isn't a night that goes by that we don't say "I love you" course there's lots of "I love you's" throughout the day.

Sir and I send each other what we call "love mail" just because.

We often express our feelings for one another through conversation. I'm at a point that words don't express the deep love I have for Him. I continue to try but nothing ever seems enough (for me).

I could get real mushy and share the things He tells me, but that's for Him to share. One thing I often tell Him..... "I love You as high as the sky and as deep as the ocean."

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RE: I love you - 7/2/2010 9:56:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		I try to show it as well as say it, I'm not one to be overtly mushy and usually playful but sometimes I can be serious and say it, right before I blush 

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RE: I love you - 7/2/2010 10:00:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: girlygurl

One thing I often tell Him..... "I love You as high as the sky and as deep as the ocean."



Awwww... this is so sweet girly!

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RE: I love you - 7/2/2010 10:32:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: trueshadow

"They say" that you need to tell your loved one five positive things for every negative thing you say.  But you can't overdo it.  Women don't generally like soft, mushy men.  Please no emo-men!  "They say" that it's all right for a leader, say a president, to have their eyes 'well up with' tears.  But you can't let the tears run down the cheek.  You are then, by definition, a girlie-man.




Whoever says that is full of shit. I love me a sentimental boy. If he doesn't turn to mush when Bambie's mother dies, that's a total no-go for me.

If a man is not afraid to shed a tear in public when the occasion is appropriate, this shows a great deal of confidence and security in his identity. (Whether he's a girlie man, or uber-domly-lord-masculine man).


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