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FangsNfeet -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/18/2006 4:29:19 AM)
Originaly, I started out in the scene because I liked a little kinkyness that involved bondage, blind folds, a little dirty talk, and some light spanking. The women I started dateing in college introduced a few things to me which I only previously would imagine back when I was in high school. However, my dominant side didn't show untill I had the last straw that broke the camels back. I fell in love with a psycho bitch who thought she had to have everything her way. She would scream, curse, threaten, and pout. She even tried controlling me with sex and told me when I was going to propose and when we were going to have our wedding. All this followed by how many kids we were going to have and where we were going to live. She said that she didn't belive in moving in with someone before mariage but she moved in with me not once but twice. I'm not talking about leaving pads and a tooth brush but also clothes, make up, furniture, movies, lamps, her computer, and a full entarage of bath supplies. Without bothering to tell me, she would invite her friends to party at my apartment while I was at work. Would you like to know how she marked my apartment? One day I came home from work. She had already left. When I walked into my bathroom I noticed that my white towel had been turned in to the Japanese Flag hanging upright in my bathroom for all to see. To make a long story short, I had enough of that shit. I took controll, stayed in controll, and then dumped her ass after I finally concluded that I was better off with out her. Ever since then, I've been better off staying the Dom of my relationships and house.

Crittersmaster -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/18/2006 10:01:52 AM)
My wife actually approached me about it after many years of marriage where she said she didn't even like the idea of a spanking. All of the sudden she was interested in being tied up and spanked. At first it was a game we played, but the more I read about it and the more we played, the more I lliked it. I realized there is nothing more sexually arrousing than the look of a subs eyes as she submitts to a strong master. The sting of a flogger, the smell of leather, the feel of her hair as I pull it are all huge turns on to both of us. We found the lifestyle together and have our rolls, and found our life partners in the same people. Life is great.

Daddysredhead -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/18/2006 10:26:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: enthralled I found myself tied up on the living room floor to my couch begging to be untied. Totally off the subject, but this sounds HOT to me! (grabs handmade paper fan and tries furiously to cool off... oh my...)

moon69 -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/18/2006 10:56:44 AM)
Obviously many factors from my early life manifested into adult life BDSM play. Many vanilla relationships before the first time always seemed lacking. I met someone who was into this lifestyle after I had come out of a painful breakup, an 8 year vanilla relationship, and regretfully wasnt able to continue with her at the time. The first actual time I was with a Dominant Woman in her 50's. At first I had thought the encounter merely a sexual one (was an online meeting). Soon after I arrived I found myself standing naked before her as she sat watching me. She stood and started placing her hands on me, and inspecting me all over, fondling and groping. My nervousness of the initial meeting hadnt dissipated and continued with a rush as she started taking control of the situation. She wouldnt let me touch her, at first, and continued her fondling increasing my arousal. she started masturbating me slowly but always stopped at the point where I would not ejaculate. She had me kneel down came to stand in front of me, where I could see she was now disrobed and naked before me. She asked if I liked what I saw, and of course I had to say I loved it, thinking 'Fianlly, lets get to it!', but she only said "Show me." and looked down at my now engorged and aching erection. I was rather embarassed but started masturbating looking at her, and could see that this aroused her as she started doing the same, now sitting in a chair facing me. She directed me how to stroke, what position etc. When I told her I couldnt stand it any longer, she told me to come to her, and I did, she turned me around with my bck to her and had me kneel on all fours. She reached around and started milking me in ernest. The next thing I knew she was manipulating the sphincter of my asshole with her finger which drove me crazy, resulting in a mind shattering orgasm. Afterward she layed behind me cuddling me, as I was by now a puddle on the floor weakened by the rush of what just happened. We continued to see one another after that night, and she was the first to enlighten me to many other wonders like bondage, anal play, and watersports. I was lucky to have such a mentor, and hope to find another to expand and explore more with.

RavenMuse -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/18/2006 3:49:09 PM)
Well my first introduction to both BDSM and D/s was well before I'd heard of the internet so it might not be relevant in helping you decide if this is a good place for you to start. A young man in his mid teens feeling very smug with himself for having chased and caught a much older, exciting, experienced and extreamly beautiful woman. About the second or third week she raised the topic of bondage. The plan was that it was going to be me that was tied to the bed, but as she started, something just clicked, it felt the wrong way round.... so I took control, flipped her over and as the rope went round her wrists, the arched back and little gasp was definate reinforcement that I was doing something right. She said that she thought she'd seen that in me and had hoped.... well she wasn't disapointed. The weeks that followed where very enlightening and looking back, damn that girl was GOOD. Teaching without topping from the bottom can't be easy but she managed it, informing and suggesting but the decisions where mine. She was a beautiful instrument and I enjoyed learning to play her.

MasterPerryD -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/18/2006 4:00:56 PM)
I guess I felt submissive to my Mother to I fought for my freedom as a Dom getting older

littleone35 -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/18/2006 5:17:26 PM)
I think i was born submissive but i just did not have a name for it until about 5 years ago when i found a mentor who taught me many things. Now i know what all those felings and i glady submit to my Master. Matt's littleone

akisha -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/18/2006 10:34:15 PM)
Well i always had a natural tendancy to just do for others lol, but my best friend in highschool started to work on that aspect of my personality. Then when she lived with us for a time it we shared a room and it became a deeper relationship. It was kind of a game with us but not really (if that makes sense). When we were out i would usually defer to her wishes. If at a friends place i tended to sit at her feet and she would play with my hair etc. i adored her and would strive to please her. How i met my first Master smiles well that was fun. my gf and i were at her boyfriends house, and it was the first time i met His roomate. i was doing something across the room and she said "comel to me" so ofcourse i did. i crawled across the room and curled up at her feet. Well the roomate just smiled. We stayed there for about 4 days, and about the second day, He talked to my gf and stated that if she was ok with it and i was ok with it He wanted me. grins i ofcourse agreed cause He was soo totally the type i went for at that age. still do but my tastes have grown since then as well. Anyway, i belonged to Him for over a year. We agreed to part after i graduated highschool. i wanted to go to college etc and He felt i needed the room to grow and learn more about myself. He's the one that introduced me to actual disipline and rules and taught me to fullfill His needs and not my own smiles The thing that amazes me, when looking back. Is the fact that my mother allowed it. i spent probably 4-5 days a week with Him. i was 17 and He was 31 and i did not live with Him full time for a few different reasons.

Lashra -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/19/2006 5:49:26 AM)
It started when I was a little girl and I used to tie boys up when we played games[:D] When I was 19 years old I tied up my first boyfriend with my pantyhose while he was sleeping and I proceeded to take advantage of him much to his delight. Its only progressed from there and I've bloomed into a full fledged pervette. ~Lashra

BLKSIRESwench -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/19/2006 8:05:13 PM)
As a teenager, an older man (the friend of my parents) seduced me. He gave me sensual instructions in a deep, calm voice, "Open your mouth," "Open your legs." i never forgot the experience and the feeling of being under someone's control. It felt powerful! Years later, in college, i met the man who is now my Master. We had a brief relationship, but it was one in which He was definitely in control. i never forgot about our time together. Fast forward 20 years . . . i googled His name and sent Him an email. We began corresponding, discussing our sexual preferences, but also learning more than ever before about our personalities. Through that communication, we realized that He was a sexual Dominant, and i was most definitely submissive. Somewhere in there we also found this website and through reading and chatting with others, we began to put a name to our preferences and relationship. So here we are. He is my Master and i would do anything (yes i do mean anything) for Him. Bringing Him joy and pleasure is what makes me feel complete. i used to regret not finding each other sooner, but all things happen for a reason and i cannot . . . would not trade what we have now for anything in the world. BLKSIRESwench (aka blueiii)

refplace -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/22/2006 7:33:56 PM)
I knew I was into this as a young teenager but thought I was alone and worried I would be a serial kiler like Ted Bundy or something. Later in the service I found out people do it for real and when I got out I moved to San jose to find a community. Moved to OK a few years back because of a job and trued to help build this one up.

Oberonrex -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/23/2006 2:35:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous i desire strongly to do this myself, but i feel like i may stick out like a sore thumb. i kind of feel stuck between worlds. It will sound so silly, but have you ever heard a mulatto person describe how they felt not accepted by either blacks or whites? i feel this way when it comes to my pratices and the scene/vanilla worlds. There are already some good replies, but what I will say is how I felt when I first went to a public event. I didn't think, I KNEW that I would stand out, that it would not be good, and more. It was good, it was great, and I did not stick out as expected. What happened is that I was welcomed, had some good talks with good people, learned a lot, and had a great time. There were enough different practices there that I lost myself in the time, the experience, and with exploring. The questions I got about me were not judgemental, but curious and helpful as I was immediately hit with a variety of "Hey, have you ever seen/done this?" with demo. It did spoil me a bit in that it gave me high expectations for local events and clubs from then on... If someone does get judgemental and on a high horse, frell them. Such are usually the minority (or non-existent) at any reputal event, group, or club.

lesliee -> RE: How did it all start for you? (4/24/2006 8:49:05 PM)
Personally, i grew up in a D/s world, didn't know it until i was 13 and even then didn't understand it. Always knew i was one who needed to please, to submit but had no clue what i was until i came online back in 98. Made good friends through a site called NastyChat ~lol~ and went into the backdoor room and met some wonderful people. i spent a good two years there then went and found yahoo groups in my area, met a wonderful man who later became my Master..we stayed together for a few years then parted ways ..we are still very good friends. ~vbs~ that taught me a lot, i attended events, munches and met a lot of wonderful people. came on this site when i was looking, did not meet my Master through here but love the forums and have made some very good friends. See some old ones on here too. i find this place very informative, and like the people here. Read and ask questions is my advice ~smiles~ Always, leslie

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