is this site for real? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid



Message

mastercalgary -> is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:49:57 AM)

So I am just wondering, is this site for real or is it just for people playing at this lifestyle?



Jeffff -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:52:22 AM)

Wow...GREAT first post!



Aileen1968 -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:53:20 AM)

Based on the stuff I just packed for a weeks vacation down at the Jersey shore with Shorey....my vote is for "real".



BentUnit -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:54:16 AM)

Nope!
None of us are real.
This site isn't real.
You're having a really bad, screwy trip.

Issued from the voices in your head.



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:54:49 AM)

Welcome to the fourms. I guess it all depends on how YOU define "real" and "playing at the lifestyle". If you take time to participate in the forums you will see alot of life experiences posted by regulars and many of those regulars are active in their local bdsm communities as well as know each other in some form in real life. The reality is you get out of this site what you put into it and it takes time finding a partner here just as it does in the vanilla world.



mastercalgary -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:55:19 AM)

I dont think it is. Since when do slaves get an actual say? Since when do they get to say no? do we really come on here to talk about sports and headaches?



Aileen1968 -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:57:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mastercalgary

I dont think it is. Since when do slaves get an actual say? Since when do they get to say no? do we really come on here to talk about sports and headaches?



Woohooo! Fucktard Friday!
I wait all week for this.



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:58:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mastercalgary

I dont think it is. Since when do slaves get an actual say? Since when do they get to say no? do we really come on here to talk about sports and headaches?



Are you serious? Slaves have an actual say because nonconscensual slavery is illegal. Slaves have a choice because they in reality are the ones who choose to submit they can't be forced into submissive. And people come on here and talk about other things such as sports, knitting ect because regardless of what side of the kneel we are on some of us folks are well adjusted and well rounded individuals.

BTW... Just because a slave doesn't want to be YOURS doesn't make her fake. Perhaps it simply means you were not compatible.



BentUnit -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 3:58:35 AM)

Oh dear, Oh dear, OH DEAR.....

[sm=couch.gif]



mastercalgary -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:02:09 AM)

this site is obviously intended for those that want to have a side helping of the lifestyle. if you want to talk about knitting and sports and such go to a regular chat room, as for slavery being illegal, yes it is, however when a slave here has already chosen to be a slave and they are not currently "owned" they are by definition slaves and should not have the ability to make decisions other then if they want to be with a certain owner, but if they are in a chat room and someone talks to them, it is not acceptable to tell say " leave me alone, I am fine here" 



Jeffff -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:02:17 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


quote:

ORIGINAL: mastercalgary

I dont think it is. Since when do slaves get an actual say? Since when do they get to say no? do we really come on here to talk about sports and headaches?



Woohooo! Fucktard Friday!
I wait all week for this.




HAHAHAHAHA!



Jeffff -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:03:47 AM)

So.... some people in the chat rooms don't like you and that makes them fake.

Brilliant!





mstrjx -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:03:57 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mastercalgary

Do we really come on here to talk about sports and headaches?



Well, you just did, and I surely wish you hadn't.

Jeff



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:07:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mastercalgary

this site is obviously intended for those that want to have a side helping of the lifestyle. if you want to talk about knitting and sports and such go to a regular chat room, as for slavery being illegal, yes it is, however when a slave here has already chosen to be a slave and they are not currently "owned" they are by definition slaves and should not have the ability to make decisions other then if they want to be with a certain owner, but if they are in a chat room and someone talks to them, it is not acceptable to tell say " leave me alone, I am fine here" 



Oh bless your heart!!

You are truly under the delisuion that just because someone identifies as a slave that they submit to every wanker out there?! Awwww.... how cute! Or how sad. Depends I guess on your sense of humour. The reality is even if someone identifies as a slave, weather in the forums, or on real life or in chat rooms they choose who they submit to. And a "slave" telling you that they are fine and asking you leave them alone seems rather polite IMO.

BTW... I am so glad that in your short time here you feel like you are the almighty dictator of what is approriate for discussion on this site. I think that mentality is gonna be really productive and helpful for you. Lol Yes, indeedy!

ETA: Many people who identify as aslaves only submit to their One not to they masses. There is no one tweee way.



sirsholly -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:10:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mastercalgary

I dont think it is. Since when do slaves get an actual say? Since when do they get to say no? do we really come on here to talk about sports and headaches?

Since when does someone that calls himself a Master not realize that all subs/slaves have voices and opinions? And are you actually saying you expect submission from ALL slaves simply because you slap a "Master" title on your butt? Unless she is YOUR slave and under your control, expect no submission and you will not be disappointed.

As to your second question...there are different forums for different topics. Sports and headaches are discussed, as well as politics, humor, health, and general banter.

This is a real site with real people who practice BDSM in one form or another.



DarkSteven -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:13:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mastercalgary

if they are in a chat room and someone talks to them, it is not acceptable to tell say " leave me alone, I am fine here" 


I agree that if YOUR slave says that to you, that it is absolutely not acceptable.  But someone else's slave reports to another, not to you, and an unowned slave has to do what he or she thinks best.

And just where in the Master's manual does it say that we are forbidden to discuss sports?



sirsholly -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:14:56 AM)

quote:

when a slave here has already chosen to be a slave and they are not currently "owned" they are by definition slaves and should not have the ability to make decisions other then if they want to be with a certain owner, but if they are in a chat room and someone talks to them, it is not acceptable to tell say " leave me alone, I am fine here"
ahhh...getting told to fuck off in the chat rooms, are ya now?

Listen Calgary...i said it before...slapping a Master title on your ass does not make you a Master, and most certainly it does not mean a slave will kiss your ass. She may be a slave, but she is not YOUR slave. Treat her as a human being and a woman as opposed to a slave.



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:15:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

And just where in the Master's manual does it say that we are forbidden to discuss sports?



It's not in the Masters manual Steven but it is in the slave manaul that when our owners start discussing sports we distract them with a nice bj. Yep!



ShaharThorne -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:16:07 AM)

A slave does have the right to pick and chose.  They have the right to hard limits.  If the master wishes to completely to disrisagud  the slave's limits, then he is an abuser.

site the is to form friendships, and for some,  marriages.  Some of us are into crafts, which can be sold in the forums

*is having having a Yoda moment*



sirsholly -> RE: is this site for real? (7/2/2010 4:17:17 AM)

quote:

this site is obviously intended for those that want to have a side helping of the lifestyle. if you want to talk about knitting and sports and such go to a regular chat room,
These are forums...not chat rooms.
And if the topics bother you, you can always complain to the administrators.




Page: [1] 2 3 4 5   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125