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Murin -> About Me (7/5/2010 2:03:02 AM)
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I started in the BDSM lifestyle 17 years ago as a submissive and was collared to a Mistress in New York City when I lived there. I spent three wonderful years with her before she passed away. I swore that after Her that no other would ever dominate Me and I rose to take My place among other Dominants. I should note that the collar I wore then is the same collar that any girl who submits to Me would wear now. It has a very special meaning for Me. Having started as a sub has given Me what many other Dominants do not have in the benenfit of experience, and that is an understanding of the submissive mindset. I have studied the BDSM Lifestyle quite extensively, and found many Men who call themselves Masters are much less than what they claim. Many are involved in the lifestyle for sexual purposes only and have no concept of the mental attitude required to claim the title of Master. Merely putting the moniker of Master in front of One's name does not make one a Master. I ~am not~ one of these types of Men. I do not play games when it comes to the Lifestyle as for Me any girl that I would collar would not only be My submissive/slave but also My love and I would cherish her, respect her, and protect her. I am not in this Lifestyle to find occassional sexual partners rather I am looking for a Long Term Relationship with the possibility of children. Even though I am open to the concept of a Poly Household (that is defined as owning more than one collared sub/slave which lives in the home with Me) it is not an immediate concern at this time. I feel that when T/two first get together that it should be exclusive. I do not share My sub/slave with any other Men because simply I see only problems arising from such an action.
I do not consider Myself a sadist as I do not enjoy inflicting pain for the sheer joy of it, but rather it is used in furtherance of sexual pleasure and in discipline matters. Any girl who would be with Me would be required to read and sign a BDSM contract detailing not only her duties but also My own limits among other important information regarding health issues, girl's limits, safewords, and goals.
My own hard limits are as follows:
NO children
Absolutely NO blood
NO animals
NO humilation
NO Cheating (either by Myself or My sub/slave)
Anything that could cause harm or permanent damage to My sub/slave
I am looking for a girl that will relocate to Me in Arizona. It must be understood that Arizona is in the desert and during the summertime it gets very hot here. However My apartment stays at a regular temp of 70 degrees during the summer months. Girl would not be required to work a job however the concept of gaining employement should be considered to further improve O/our living situation. I refuse to own a gasoline powered car in protest to the destruction of our planet's enviroment so therefore I have opted for the use of a bicycle as transportation, and girl would also have to enjoy riding bicycles. Everything I require is within either walking or biking distance of My home.
I also have phyiscal requirements that I am very specific about, and girl will be required to provide pictures to prove such. My phyiscal requirements are as follows:
Height not exceed 5'5"
Weight not to exceed 130lbs
Measurements must be proportionate to height and weight
Race to be either white or asian
Age 20 to 40. Younger than 30 is preferred however.
No children however the possibility of providing Me with children is preferred but not a requirement.
girl would have to be open to the use of any and all of the following during sessions:
Paddles
Floggers
Handcuffs
Restraints
Suspension
Candle Wax
Toys (dildos, vibrators, anal plugs)
Nipple clamps
Cages
Corner time
Riding Crops
Collars
Leashes
Anal
Oral (both giving and receiving)
Use of cameras and video equipment
I own My own website and I work on it regularly as I can. I also write, draw and enjoy taking pictures of the things I consider beautiful. I am a Pagan and girl would either have to be Pagan as well or very tolerant of other Faiths. I used to travel with the Carnival for ten years of My life so I am something of a homebody though I do enjoy visiting interesting places of a natural setting such as National Parks.
My musical interests range from classical rock to gothic metal. I do not listen to much "hip-hop" or country music though there are certain songs of the country genre that I do enjoy (anything by Johhny Cash is good). I enjoy movies but don't see the need to attend movie theaters as I would much rather enjoy movies at home with My girl.
I am an only child of a single mother and My mother still to this day plays a very important part of My life, though I have lived on My own since the age of 15. I have no other family to speak of, with the exception of distant cousins which I have found through the internet.
Again I must state that any girl that is interested in Me must ~prove~ herself to Me before any sort of relocation can occur. I have heard many stories of fake girls online claiming they are looking for a Master only to have them send money to them for relocation and disappear completely. My intelligence is high that these sort of tricks can not and will not work on Me. My Grandfather once said to Me:
"Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see"
I can smell a fake trickster a mile away. Believe that as the Gospel Truth and we shall get along quite well. I don't deal with drama nor do I care about it in any shape or form. Keep that to yourself if you must be involved in such things but don't bring it to My doorstep.
Thank you for taking the time to read this bit of rambling
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