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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 8:07:33 PM

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So what if he deletes his profile? All she has to do is perform a print screen on his profile at any point before he deletes it and viola! One copy saved to her computer! So no, that is not really an option.

With a printscreen he can always say it's photoshopped. That's somewhat harder to do when the profile is active on a website, though even then, he can claim if needs be that it was faked. That being said, in both cases he can just say he's being set up by someone trying to blackmail him.

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 8:07:43 PM

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I was threatened with blackmail once. I don't post pics on here, and I only ever send 'nilla head and shoulders shots to people via IM or email - the same pics as on my facebook page. This creep threatened to out me. I went to my boss, said I'd made friends with someone, went on a date and it didn't work out, and he was trying to blackmail me by making up all sorts of lies.

Result? Very sympathetic boss, particularly when I said I'd reported it to the police.

In this situation, pre-emptive strike is the only way. I only hope the photos are not too compromising. if they are, he has to say they were taken by a partner during some 'adventurous sex' and were not intended to be shared, and now this spurned partner is turning a bit of innocent fun into something dirty and shameful.

Hope your friend is a good actor!

And THIS is why I never asked myo out on a second date!

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 8:18:37 PM

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With a printscreen he can always say it's photoshopped. That's somewhat harder to do when the profile is active on a website, though even then, he can claim if needs be that it was faked. That being said, in both cases he can just say he's being set up by someone trying to blackmail him.

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Thats true, but he will still have a certain stigma attached to him that will most likely cause him to be viewed in a negative manner by people in authority. Certain uncomfortable questions will then be asked of him such as: "Why is she blackmailing you in this fashion if there is nothing to this?" "Why not blackmail you by using more traditional methods such as telling your wife your having an affair, your skimming funds from work, etc."

Basically, it does not matter what he claims or whether or not he makes the argument that this is photoshopped. Ultimately he will be judged in a negative manner and viewed in a certain despicable light. Sure she may be found to be blackmailing him, etc. but the damage will already have been done to his job, his reputation and his life.

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 9:09:54 PM

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Devil's Advocate here:

Males subs outnumber female Dommes, by how many? They get persued relentlessly. I've watched female Dommes get swarmed at functions.

So, we're supposed to believe that your friend was so amazingly incredible that he has a female Domme ready to boil his bunny? After one meeting?

Something doesn't seem right to me......

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 11:45:03 PM

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So what if he deletes his profile? All she has to do is perform a print screen on his profile at any point before he deletes it and viola! One copy saved to her computer! So no, that is not really an option. My advice, go after her with a passion. Counter-stalk this bitch, send leather bride magazine to her work place in her name, have her parents utilities cut off, fill out a mail forwarding form and have it diverted to another country for the next 2 months. Hell, grab some road kill and smear it on her car bumper and then make an anonymous phone call using a pre-pay boost phone to the cops telling them you witnessed a hit and run and have the persons license plate. Keep an eye on the paper for unsolved crimes in the area, call her in as a person of interest. Especially if it is regarding a burglary and they will have to follow up on it. Shit, the list goes on and on about how you could make her so damn miserable she will beg you to leave her alone. Just deny everything and make counter accusations against this bitch for stalking you, harassing you, etc. etc.

THAT is what I would tell your friend.

Whoa maing, I would not want to piss you off. Dang.

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RE: blackmail - 7/7/2010 12:21:03 AM

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And THIS is why I never asked myo out on a second date!

pffftttt...you KNOW it was because you wore me out

You insatiable studmuffin!

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RE: blackmail - 7/7/2010 10:01:28 AM

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1. that person is NO Dominant (because they have the self-control of a lil girl that pee's seeing the audience at a school play).

2. maybe it is time your friend stopped being ashamed of this 'thing that we do' and discover it is more prevalent than he thought and it is nothing to be ashamed of.

3. People who need to cause havoc for another who decides to not want to be in their company....needs to learn a valuable lesson in not attempting to bully or boss someone around in regards to their preference or personal life.

4. leave the profile on. Time to be a big boy.

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RE: blackmail - 7/7/2010 10:05:45 AM

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what to do when a Domme you meet once in person threatens your to send a copy of your profile to your boss if you dont ler her collar you. I have a friend who is very new to the lifestyle and made the mistake of putting his pics on his profile even though he knows it would cost him his job if they found out.

He is seriously scared and wont listen to my advice. She has threatened to cut off his nuts and grind them up and feed them to him if he see anyone else. He went to see her and spent a day with her and says she is an evil bitch.

I think you need smarter friends

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RE: blackmail - 7/7/2010 10:20:19 AM

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2. maybe it is time your friend stopped being ashamed of this 'thing that we do' and discover it is more prevalent than he thought and it is nothing to be ashamed of.

Although I agreed with you on the other points, it is not always what YOU feel about it. It could damage your work environment, since not everybody is going to be open about this. You wouldn't immediately tell your future employer about your preferences, right? And misunderstanding could lead to bullying at the workplace, which will kill your job enjoyment (e.g. a submissive teamster would never hear the end of it if his colleagues heard about it probably). Sometimes it is best if the outside world doesn't know what happens in your bedroom/fantasies.

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RE: blackmail - 7/7/2010 11:16:39 AM

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I said 'maybe' it's time. It isn't 'mandatory' that he does so.

and besides, at any time if one posts information or a picture, they are bound (hehe no pun intended) to be 'caught' in one area or another that is in disagreement with any workplace rules or fellow employees (it could be of political content or a fishing website when you belong to a purely strict vegetarian group).

Also, one can also go to a pay-site where only other paying members can view the information. Or they can not post a picture at all and only mail it out -- on an as needed basis.

If others (that you must be with, at work...or must associate with, through work) cannot understand (after you voluntarily posted public content on the WWW) that you were violated privately and personally and they now treat you differently because of such activity...

then boo-hiss to them and f*ck em., IMO

(Those) People that live in glass houses...........bla bla, you know the rest.

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RE: blackmail - 7/9/2010 2:31:45 AM

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It sounds like someone is looking for jack-off material...
"grind up your nuts?" PLEASE>>>>>>

There are laws against REAL blackmail.

I prefer the pretend kind.

Can't agree more.