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Missokyst -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 6:01:36 AM)
I was going to make a joke about a bird in the hand being worth two in the bush but given the other responses I think I will pass

BonesFromAsh -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 6:29:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 which are you taking? Why? Seriously, I'm curious to know why you asked this question. Your answer might affect mine.

sirsholly -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 6:43:32 AM)
Neither. A vanilla partner, hot or not, does nothing for me. Masturbation does not turn me on. My partner does. Silly question, in my opinion

sirsholly -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 6:44:36 AM)
quote: The function of the exercise is pretty transparent. there is a function?

submissivemale22 -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 8:23:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 which are you taking? Why? Seriously, I'm curious to know why you asked this question. Your answer might affect mine. Because im curious?

lally2 -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 9:40:53 AM)
masturbation - im not interested in vanilla hot or otherwise and i give myself great orgasms - now that youre curiosity is sated here, presumably but probably not - whats the point of the question again

submissivemale22 -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 10:50:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 masturbation - im not interested in vanilla hot or otherwise and i give myself great orgasms - now that youre curiosity is sated here, presumably but probably not - whats the point of the question again im measuring how you weigh your interest in d/s vs. interest in the opposite sex in general. obviously people on this forum are going to get more gratification out of d/s than vanilla... but most people enjoy sex more than masturbation... thus, i paired the winners and posed this query to complete the bracket.

sirsholly -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 11:13:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 im measuring how you weigh your interest in d/s vs. interest in the opposite sex in general. obviously people on this forum are going to get more gratification out of d/s than vanilla... but most people enjoy sex more than masturbation... thus, i paired the winners and posed this query to complete the bracket. Translation: I wanna wank. [:)]

dreamerdreaming -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 11:24:12 AM)
Neither. [8\|]

submissivemale22 -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 11:26:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 im measuring how you weigh your interest in d/s vs. interest in the opposite sex in general. obviously people on this forum are going to get more gratification out of d/s than vanilla... but most people enjoy sex more than masturbation... thus, i paired the winners and posed this query to complete the bracket. Translation: I wanna wank. [:)] what?

poise -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 11:35:21 AM)
When I am pleasuring myself, I often fantasize about Royce Gracie grappling me into submission. [:)] Gawd I miss those old UFC days!

mnottertail -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 11:37:53 AM)
I myself am vanilla. I have sex with me all the time.

lally2 -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 1:10:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 masturbation - im not interested in vanilla hot or otherwise and i give myself great orgasms - now that youre curiosity is sated here, presumably but probably not - whats the point of the question again im measuring how you weigh your interest in d/s vs. interest in the opposite sex in general. obviously people on this forum are going to get more gratification out of d/s than vanilla... but most people enjoy sex more than masturbation... thus, i paired the winners and posed this query to complete the bracket. oh ok - the thing with vanilla sex is that it just doesnt work for me particularly well at all. there has to be the Ds or Ms element going on, even if the sex is vanillaesque i still need to feel that im up close and yummy with my Dominant - thats what makes it hot and horney for me. so yes, id get far more out of going solo than going with a vanilla. im just not turned on enough and id probably find myself wanting to go sub on him anyway, which would just get frustrating.

came4U -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 1:12:29 PM)
I've tried having sex with a hawwwt nilla guy, but, nothing kicked it for me, so I told him to stop in mid-stroke, got dressed and left so, answer is, a big NO. lol

sublizzie -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 4:18:51 PM)
While I can understand a 22 year old male thinking there's a clear-cut answer to the question, for me there just is not. I don't do casual sex with or for anyone. I don't care how "hot" the person is I need relationship to have sex with them. Masturbating works up to a point but it doesn't really help with the relationship thingie.

LafayetteLady -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 4:31:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U I've tried having sex with a hawwwt nilla guy, but, nothing kicked it for me, so I told him to stop in mid-stroke, got dressed and left so, answer is, a big NO. lol You are so mean! I at least made sure he got ME off before I told him to get the hell out!

came4U -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 4:42:11 PM)
quote: You are so mean! I at least made sure he got ME off before I told him to get the hell out! lmao I knowwww I am :) but, obviously he wasn't gettin' me off to begin with LOL. eeesh, do you need a map to understand my selfish insanity??? hahaha ;)

BonesFromAsh -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 5:17:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 which are you taking? Why? Seriously, I'm curious to know why you asked this question. Your answer might affect mine. Because im curious? "A person who is too nice an observer of the business of the crowd, like one who is too curious in observing the labor of bees, will often be stung for his curiosity." ~Alexander Pope Best of luck whilst touring the hive.

itsmeinLV -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 5:53:53 PM)
That's a toughie. I can take either or neither.

LafayetteLady -> RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla partner... (7/6/2010 6:49:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U quote: You are so mean! I at least made sure he got ME off before I told him to get the hell out! lmao I knowwww I am :) but, obviously he wasn't gettin' me off to begin with LOL. eeesh, do you need a map to understand my selfish insanity??? hahaha ;) Sometimes, yea, I need a fucking map, ok? But I gave the guy all the instructions he needed to get me off. Once that was accomplished, he was sent packing, hard, unsatisfied dick in hand.

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