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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 9:00:51 PM

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Are you "satisfied", OP?

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 9:08:26 PM

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Are you "satisfied", OP?

what does this even mean?

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 9:32:02 PM

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or you can masturbate to whatever submissive ideation appeals to you the most. which are you taking?

Neither. No to hawt 'nilla partner and no to just masturbation. i have Daddy.

Really, though, i don't do casual sex w/o a relationship and 'nilla just doesn't do it for me.....at all.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 10:12:39 PM

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Sometimes, yea, I need a fucking map, ok? But I gave the guy all the instructions he needed to get me off. Once that was accomplished, he was sent packing, hard, unsatisfied dick in hand.

Payback is hell though,

I once (in the heat of bored passion) asked a guy to slap me in the face....

he zipped up and left.

can't win for losin' hun. rofl

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 12:12:52 AM

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I don’t know maybe it is just me but when I read the Op I thought:

“ Vanilla custard cream drizzled with Hot Fudge dripping over the sides of the otherwise frigid vanilla cream with succulent strawberries, juicy and moist, slowly devouring each luscious bite until satisfied or the vanilla cream becomes unrecognizable due to the dripping Hot fudge melting the entire formerly frozen cream into a now tantalizing experience worth repeating. Sucking, licking and swallowing to the very last drop of that tasty transformed Vanilla cream surrounded by Hot Fudge flowing over and spilling into the caverns of Hot Vanilla creamy desires.”

And to think I prefer Cherry Garcia over Vanilla any day.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 12:35:38 AM

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I don’t know maybe it is just me but when I read the Op I thought:

“ Vanilla custard cream drizzled with Hot Fudge dripping over the sides of the otherwise frigid vanilla cream with succulent strawberries, juicy and moist, slowly devouring each luscious bite until satisfied or the vanilla cream becomes unrecognizable due to the dripping Hot fudge melting the entire formerly frozen cream into a now tantalizing experience worth repeating. Sucking, licking and swallowing to the very last drop of that tasty transformed Vanilla cream surrounded by Hot Fudge flowing over and spilling into the caverns of Hot Vanilla creamy desires.”

And to think I prefer Cherry Garcia over Vanilla any day.

And I think all the people who are saying they don't masturbate may have just found themselve running off to do just that after reading THAT.

Ummmm.....Is it suddenly very warm, or is that still just the heatwave?

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 2:01:57 AM

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For all the people who answered "neither"
...is that because you want a third option? supposedly : have kinky sex with your partner... or is it because you simply have no sex drive?

i let you know if there was a third option... i'd go for all three... i can dream...

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 2:16:30 AM

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I'll take Option #2, thanks. I'm not big on casual sex, no matter how 'hot' the guy is (6 packs and bulging biceps are not my thing). That said, if 'it' isn't happening in my head, it isn't happening at all, and nilla just isn't my kink. :D

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 2:20:44 AM

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I'll take Option #2, thanks. I'm not big on casual sex, no matter how 'hot' the guy is (6 packs and bulging biceps are not my thing). That said, if 'it' isn't happening in my head, it isn't happening at all, and nilla just isn't my kink. :D

Okay who the fuck is Casual About Sex??? I'm always fucking excited.... Hell if I know before hand I even try to make it Fancy Dress.

Can't we just have sex cause?

You know you want to..... you know you even need to a little..... I heard you almost took someones head off.... If you need me call me, you know where I live.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 3:09:12 AM

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You know you want to..... you know you even need to a little..... I heard you almost took someones head off.... If you need me call me, you know where I live.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 6:01:29 AM

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For all the people who answered "neither"
...is that because you want a third option? supposedly : have kinky sex with your partner... or is it because you simply have no sex drive?

i let you know if there was a third option... i'd go for all three... i can dream...

Sex with my partner but doesn't have to be kinky. I don't have casual sex and masturbation is not that satisfying. He is.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 7:03:14 AM

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You are so mean! I at least made sure he got ME off before I told him to get the hell out!

lmao I knowwww I am :)

but, obviously he wasn't gettin' me off to begin with LOL. eeesh, do you need a map to understand my selfish insanity??? hahaha ;)

I thought I was the only one who has stopped in the middle of sex and told the guy, "this isn't working, you've gotta go."

I've never had a relationship with a "vanilla" guy, that the sex didn't evolve into kinky. I could easily pick vanilla.

I don't need the kink to be pre-existing, because I'm an equal opportunity despoiler. It has been my experience, that men are pretty easy to lead down the kinky path.

There are a lot of ways to relieve the tension and frustration, so I can say no to masterbation, knowing that there are other options available.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 8:02:28 AM

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I don't need the kink to be pre-existing, because I'm an equal opportunity despoiler. It has been my experience, that men are pretty easy to lead down the kinky path.

oh I dunno about that. I find ya can't 'create' a Dominant out of a vanilla nor can you change the (passive) personality of any given man --especially if he is 40+, if he isn't kinky by then, he is best stickin' with what he knows.

Trust me, I've tried lol. It is nothing but a disastrous waste of time.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 8:25:00 AM

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I don't need the kink to be pre-existing, because I'm an equal opportunity despoiler. It has been my experience, that men are pretty easy to lead down the kinky path.

oh I dunno about that. I find ya can't 'create' a Dominant out of a vanilla nor can you change the (passive) personality of any given man --especially if he is 40+, if he isn't kinky by then, he is best stickin' with what he knows.

Trust me, I've tried lol. It is nothing but a disastrous waste of time.

I get that, and agree.

This is probably where being a switch comes into play. Leading someone down the kinky path, doesn't require a predetermined destination, when you aren't driven by an internal need for a particular dynamic. Which, I'm not. I know this isn't the same for many, and I respect that.

I don't need to change anyone, to awaken them to possibilities that might have been outside their original frame of reference.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 8:30:32 AM

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I don't need to change anyone, to awaken them to possibilities that might have been outside their original frame of reference.

and we have all known someone, at one time, that thought or attempted to 'change' us. Known men who whimper for me to be 'normal' and stop all this 'stuff' and let him love me up in a nice way (assuming I am damaged by some issue or another LOLOL)--to 'fix' me.

Yuk. I had to stop myself from gaggin', not kiddin'.

Ya can't rewire a submissive gal either IMO. The 'damage' :P is done! haha

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 9:08:11 AM

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Ya can't rewire a submissive gal either IMO. The 'damage' :P is done! haha

I agree.

My post was in reference to 'vanilla' (I don't really buy into that term by the way, I just use it to keep on topic) men that I have been in a relationship with. In every instance, the sex evolved into kinky sex. Even when the relationship dynamic remained an egalitarian one.

I know where you are coming from, and how my post might have been perceived. From the perspective of one who IS wired a certain way, it can be frustrating (to say the least) when someone comes around and tries to 'fix' what they perceive as damage. I've had that happen to me as well, although it wasn't someone 'vanilla,' that was trying to make me something I'm not.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 9:26:52 AM

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I've had that happen to me as well, although it wasn't someone 'vanilla,' that was trying to make me something I'm not.

haha, no one can fix perfection hun

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 4:32:19 PM

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It means I think its a silly question, and that you are probably getting off on people's detailed answers.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 6:49:37 PM

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Door number two. I do not want vanilla. And if I do get with a vanilla girl, I would be giving her the wrong idea. Dommes only, please.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/7/2010 7:02:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: Zevar

I don’t know maybe it is just me but when I read the Op I thought:

“ Vanilla custard cream drizzled with Hot Fudge dripping over the sides of the otherwise frigid vanilla cream with succulent strawberries, juicy and moist, slowly devouring each luscious bite until satisfied or the vanilla cream becomes unrecognizable due to the dripping Hot fudge melting the entire formerly frozen cream into a now tantalizing experience worth repeating. Sucking, licking and swallowing to the very last drop of that tasty transformed Vanilla cream surrounded by Hot Fudge flowing over and spilling into the caverns of Hot Vanilla creamy desires.”

And to think I prefer Cherry Garcia over Vanilla any day.

And I think all the people who are saying they don't masturbate may have just found themselve running off to do just that after reading THAT.

Ummmm.....Is it suddenly very warm, or is that still just the heatwave?