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Advice please - 7/6/2010 1:55:27 AM   
bob40az


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Status: offline 		Hi all,

I am a 40+ married male with various fantasies including sub. I was once with a lady who used a toy on my butt and I love the experience.

So, any subs like the same thing? How do you get your master to oblige you? How do you find a master?

Bob
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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 2:00:15 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		Could you possibly discuss using a toy on your butt with your wife?
maybe she wants to use a toy on her butt too... you could be toy butting together

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 3:57:41 AM   
DarlingSavage


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Status: offline 		What?  In the butt?

< Message edited by DarlingSavage -- 7/6/2010 4:01:50 AM >

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 4:12:08 AM   
atursvcMaam


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Status: offline 		Bob,
      Do you discuss these desires with your wife?  You might find out she also has fantasies you might help her to fulfill.  If not, then you could, at very least, discuss fulfilling your fantasies (and also hers) outside of the relationship.  Remember, however, be careful what you wish for.

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 4:31:40 AM   
DarlingSavage


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Status: offline 		All kidding aside, I agree with the other 2 people here, you should talk to your wife.  If you can't trust your wife with something like this, then why are you married to her?  Good luck!

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 5:24:12 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Bob, generally speaking, I'm feeling the wagons circling, aren't you?

We have a saying... something about a one note song.

You can put that in your ummmm... and toot it.

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 8:09:20 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		As I see it, you are asking if other subs like the sames things as you. What does this have to do about sking your wife about Butt Plugs? For one thing, I have been married for over 36 years, and WILL NOT discuss Butt Plugs with my wife. NO WAY, NO HOW ! She just isn't into these things, and I know, after being married for so long.

I too had sessions over the years (with MADAM), and she too used a Butt Plug on me, and it was great ! I loved it, and now do it myself, since I am without a Mistress. There are many things though, that some subs like and love, that other subs want no parts of.

It depends on your Master/Mistress, and if they like to make you happy, as MADAM did for me. Mostly, you don't what they want, because it pleases them. I miss pleasing a Mistress, because we both got "ENJOYMENT" out of it.

As for finding a Master/Mistress, I guess it depends on your profile, where your located, and if your willing to relocate. I am in New Jersey, and there aren't many near me, so I do what I can.  YUMMY!  LMCLAO

Take care, and I hope this might of answered some things for you.

Now where is that Butt Plug everyone else was talking about?

BUTT, BUTT HONEY ! It's in there, by Doctor's Orders !

sub BalletBob

P.S. Did you spell your name backwards?

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 8:27:06 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: BalletBob
and if your willing to relocate.
Considering that's he's married and cheating on his wife....I doubt it.

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 8:34:10 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: BalletBob
and if your willing to relocate.
Considering that's he's married and cheating on his wife....I doubt it.


When she finds out, he may be more than willing to relocate.  Possibly immediately.


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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 8:43:02 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		He asked how he could find a Master, so I told him.

If he prefers a Master (a MALE), over his wife, maybe he shouldn't be married to a HER, in the first place.

Perplexed, sub BalletBob

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 8:54:17 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: BalletBob
and if your willing to relocate.
Considering that's he's married and cheating on his wife....I doubt it.


When she finds out, he may be more than willing to relocate.  Possibly immediately.

And with garbage bags full of his clothes, which he has scooped up off of the front yard?

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RE: Advice please - 7/6/2010 8:54:59 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure "Master" always means male. Even if it did, one can be bisexual.

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