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new to all this! - 7/6/2010 5:01:44 PM

alsmom

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hello everyone, I joined this site recently to find out more information. I am a woman, early 50s, fell in love with a sub, and we are exploring this together. I do need some help though, sometimes it feels like its moving too fast, and I have to slow it down, other times I am wanting to happen RIGHT now!! I really don't know what I am doing, but so far its going well.
We live very far from one another, so I have time to make my move, but we chat online constantly.(so yes, have to keep that going). Sometimes this feels so right, but other times, I get frustrated!! I am supposed to be the one in charge, which I like, but sometimes just don't know what to do!! I do know we are in this together, me and my baby, but any help would be appreciated!!
PS we met as friends in a sports chat, so this was not anticipated, it just happened!!

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RE: new to all this! - 7/6/2010 5:37:02 PM

DarkSteven

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Welcome!

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: new to all this! - 7/7/2010 3:11:53 AM

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RE: new to all this! - 7/7/2010 4:22:28 AM

DarlingSavage

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Congratulations and welcome. I'd say it depends on what you're interested in. I don't know what it is you want to learn or what needs holding back, it's a relationship, right? Other than that, if you're wanting to learn shibari or something like that, then, by all means, there are books galore out there.

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RE: new to all this! - 7/7/2010 6:25:43 AM

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Welcome, read the boards and try the chatrooms, best of wishes ~ jewels

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