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How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/15/2006 10:23:21 AM   
Daddysredhead


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After reading the thread in the other forum, I thought it would be nice to see how our Dom/mes or Masters/Mistresses make us feel special, loved, and appreciated in the subtle ways or little things that He/She does.

Go ahead, how do you know your Dom/me is proud to have you as His/Her very own?



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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/15/2006 11:05:42 AM   
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Oh My Master makes me feel special every time he tells me he loves me.  Everything he does make me feel special.  For instance he will work overnights (with no sleep) so he can spend his days with me.
I love him so much.

Matt's littleone

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/15/2006 3:45:21 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

After reading the thread in the other forum, I thought it would be nice to see how our Dom/mes or Masters/Mistresses make us feel special, loved, and appreciated in the subtle ways or little things that He/She does.

Go ahead, how do you know your Dom/me is proud to have you as His/Her very own?




My Sir makes me feel special when he:
 
1) Takes our girls (children) off my hands to let me soak in a hot bubble bath
 
2) When he brings me home a stuffed bunny and a chocolate covered coconut Easter egg
 
3) When he gives me 20 minutes a week to VENT my frustrations without any repercussions
 
4) When he wakes up in the morning for work and smiles at me
 
5) The list is endless.............................

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/15/2006 4:09:49 PM   
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All it takes is a smile, knowing that I was able to bring something to His day makes me feel special. And when He makes me scream *g*


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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/15/2006 7:01:51 PM   
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How shall I count the ways? It's the tone of voice that he uses when he tells me to do something for him. It's the look in his eyes when we are talking. Its when he asks if I'm 'his baby girl' or 'his baby doll'. When he tells me I'm not going anywhere. It's the way he holds me, encircled by his love. It's in the butterfly kisses he gives as he walks past. It's the comments that come when I'm just doing normal things like drinking water and he says 'nice throat'. It's in the way he takes care of me on a daily basis. It's in the way he accepts my devotion and my service, not as his right or his due, but as someting that is appreciated and desired. It's in the thank yous when I do something for him. Basically, its most of what he does every single day

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/15/2006 7:07:32 PM   
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The smile in his eyes when he see's that I have finally understood something that was 'just out of reach', the touch of his fingers down my cheek, his voice in my ear whispering 'good girl'

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/15/2006 8:46:30 PM   
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The way he pets my hair and tickles me behind the ear while I have my head in his lap. Makes me melt into a puddle at his feet.

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 12:54:14 AM   
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By the way he takes care of me.  By leading me and providing me exactly what it is i need, which has helped me develop into a better human being.

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 1:09:01 AM   
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quote:


Go ahead, how do you know your Dom/me is proud to have you as His/Her very own?




Despite my failings, flaws and shortcomings.. he wants to keep me.  That pretty much says it all for me. :)

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 9:12:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:


Go ahead, how do you know your Dom/me is proud to have you as His/Her very own?




Despite my failings, flaws and shortcomings.. he wants to keep me.  That pretty much says it all for me. :)

Celeste


You are a role model for a "non-entitlement" attitude.  Thank you.

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 9:30:19 AM   
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he has a habit of blindfolding me, tying my wrists, and then taking off the blindfold to watch my reaction when I see what he's bound me with. Two or three times, it's been diamond bracelets. (A very good way to ensure I don't resist the ropes, not that I would anyway, but doubly so when I'm afraid of breaking the clasps.) He likes knowing that I'm wrapped in ropes of jewels.

But the everyday things? Standing next to me in line for the movies, he'll nuzzle my hair. When we sleep, he wraps me up completely in his arms. Mostly, the way I feel special is the look in his eyes when he's watching me. It's always the same look of love and adoration. Oh, wait, maybe his eyes are just reflecting the look in mine...

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 10:10:30 AM   
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when my Owners twirl my curls or softly stroke my cheek and call me pet,mostly it is in knowing they are proud of me and that i make them smile

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 11:48:45 AM   
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She never leaves me in doubt of how much She loves me, and that She loves all of me.  She makes it clear that i'm not taken for granted, and that my insecurities, my fears, and my needs are as much in Her focus as all the things She feels i have to offer Her.

She always lets me know how much i please Her, knowing how important that is to me.  Finally, She makes me feel the door is always open to expand on what W/we have, to delve ever deeper into the dynamic and the desires of my submission and Her enjoyment of it, not just for the moment, but towards an everlasting bond.


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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 12:05:26 PM   
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ahhhhhh, when He tells me how much i have pleased Him. recently He said "I will do anything for you, it's your choice, because you have pleased Me so much"  i was breathless, what did i do to deserve this?  i mean, i serve, and serve i do, i expected nothing in return.  i now have to figure out, hmmm, what can i ask for that will help me serve him better ;)

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 7:38:20 PM   
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My strong emotion never freaks him out. Instead of walking away, he chooses to hold me and tell me i am his.

He plays me at the parties we go to and has fun, and gets so damn creative with rope people sit and watch, and their conversation about it tickles the edges of my headspace.

I NEVER have to worry about "getting mine". I love it when he takes and uses me for his pleasure in rauchy mean ways because he has made a LOT of "deposits" in my pleasure bank - he so deserves the "withdrawals".

He tries hard to overcome the logistical limitations we have. He drives a long way to be with me when we get together.

He puts up with my intense stress and takes it in stride.



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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 8:01:45 PM   
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He loves me, He puts up with me, He calles me His, He brings me flowers, He ran to the store to get me ice cream when i wishfuly said something about it, He goes to every OB appoitment with me, basicaly He is just Him.

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 8:08:36 PM   
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He puts up with my fits of insecurity, my occasional tantrums (although I do get a dissaproving smack for them sometimes) and my physical limitations. He makes sure my knees are cushioned so they don't hurt so much while I am kneeling. He checks to make sure I am warm when I am naked in his home. He keeps a webcam with streaming video when I am alone in his house while he is at work to make sure I am safe. He lets me watch Doctor Who on Friday nights, my latest obbession.

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 8:31:02 PM   
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Because he loves feet so much, he keeps me on my toes quite a bit and i find the way that he spoils my feet is becoming more of a new fetish for me!  And of course, every time he puts me OTK.  Thank you Daddie! 

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/16/2006 11:01:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

After reading the thread in the other forum, I thought it would be nice to see how our Dom/mes or Masters/Mistresses make us feel special, loved, and appreciated in the subtle ways or little things that He/She does.


I have to write two lists as am owned by a Master and a Mistress. So ladies first;

We nap together every morning, for some reason my behind and hands are always cold. After i roll on my side she cuddles up tight behind, presses her warm little self tightly to me, holds my hands in hers and reminds me she promised to always keep me warm. When it snows and she hears me tripping up the steps giggling she knows i am coming in from being barefoot in the snow so she can scold me with a grin on her face. When i’m tired of picking clothes i’ll tell her, i want something comfortable and nice, dress me today please, she always does with a smile on her face. She reaches over to pinch my behind if she catches me in the fridge. When we sleep together sometimes she wraps her fingers in my collar while she is asleep. She always picks us matching yet different (enough to identify who is the Mistress who is the slave) outfits for going to the munches. She thinks it’s funny when she scratches my back and i get so distracted i put her shoes on the wrong feet. When i am approached by unwanted attention from other Doms she hunts them down and shows her fangs.

[Go ahead, how do you know your Dom/me is proud to have you as His/Her very own?]

She tells me so in many ways, lol, she’s also been known to brag some here on the forum boards.

Now for the gentleman in my life;

When we sleep together the last two things he does are kiss me between the shoulder blades and wiggle until his “censored" is tucked between my legs. When we shower together he sings me Chinese folk songs (you would have to see it, he is Irish not Chinese). He totally forgives me for those three days a month when i closely resemble Linda Blair in the Exorcist while calmly warning his adult children to be very quiet if they visit on those days. As i come up the stairs he always grins at me from his desk, even if it is the 20th time that morning. He loves the fact that when he touches me, even briefly i lose all concentration. He does not mind the fact that i sound like a cat in heat and leaved him literally drenched during sex. He always hugs me as soon as he gets home from work. As often as he sees me naked i can still stop him dead in his tracks by flashing him. He protects my Druid character from the bad guys when we play NeverWinter Nights. He has jumped on those who would attack me directly online or otherwise, explaining to them BAD MOVE.

He tells me so in so many ways, he is constantly telling me not to worry, i am his.

Both of them hold my hand when we go out to eat or shopping, both of them tell me they love me, both of them comfort me when they see i am crying inside for one lost to me.

They show me so often how they feel there are not enough pages in all the forum boards to describe them.

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RE: How does your Dom/me make you feel special? - 4/17/2006 12:31:51 PM   
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she tells me she loves me she calls me on the phone when i am feeling bad calls me her sweet loving boy giggles when i do something sweet looks into the cam with her loveing glare and tell me i am special to her

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