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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 5:22:52 PM   
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Hush up bitch this is gonna HURT YOU a lot more than ME!!! That said I love tappin dat ass Face to Face. Man Im smoking hot just thinking bout it

Nuff said BadOne

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 5:28:28 PM   
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I coaxed him the first time. Would you believe my first boyfriend was hardcore against it? Wuss.


Can totally believe this, my first boyfriend was EXACTLY the same!


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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 5:32:46 PM   
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I love anal sex.  Tried it first time years and years ago, my curiosity.  Later, in college, I decided I hated it because one guy was awful to me back there.  Told DB that and He said, "Me, too, I hate ass play."  *liar*  A few months later, He was very, very gentle, and I liked it.  Now, I am an asswhore.  We've been together 7 years and we do it because we both love it.  No condom, no lube, sometimes a little DB spit, most times not.  It's yummy and He loves it because it flips a very "primal" switch in me.

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 5:48:34 PM   
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 Hmm... the idea is incredibly, um, interesting, to me.  But I have yet to enjoy it, which is odd.  I've tried it, but it wasn't fun like I hoped. 

tj

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 5:50:13 PM   
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This is one of the BEST THREADS EVER!!

Takes note of all the Ass Positive subs and waits.

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 6:01:53 PM   
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I only do it for him. I think it's pretty gross and uncomfortable. The only thing I like about it is knowing I've done something pleasing.

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 6:45:49 PM   
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Hm...number 4!  Or I should say I need to have both the physical and emotional stimulation in order to do anal play.  Not my preference but once it has been done, I can get a huge kick out of it, heh heh.  After our relationship was established, and the trust is there, no condom.  Better physical sensation!    Heh, nice happy thoughts.

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 7:00:34 PM   
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No lube...no condom....sometimes spit....often told to hold my cheeks apart while face down on the bed....he cums inside....assgasms occur....

Recently tied bent over a bar stool....ankles and wrists to the bottom rung....perfect height and angle for ass fucking.....I like.



I find these very very different than other orgasms.. whole body kind of thing.. just very different, and yummy!!!

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 7:20:29 PM   
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quote:

Recently tied bent over a bar stool....ankles and wrists to the bottom rung....perfect height and angle for ass fucking.....I like.


Oooooh, I like! I'll have to remember that one!

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 7:37:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

No lube...no condom....sometimes spit....often told to hold my cheeks apart while face down on the bed....he cums inside....assgasms occur....

Recently tied bent over a bar stool....ankles and wrists to the bottom rung....perfect height and angle for ass fucking.....I like.



God, one time I tried that tied over the stool thing..it was totally awesome until he pushed too hard, we both fell over and the stool smashed me in the stomach.

Pain and bruising like you would not believe....fun while it lasted. Now I only bend over things that will not topple over, lol.



bahahaha that's hilarious Red! Live and you learn!

OP: 2, 4, no and I don't care either way.....definitely WITH lube though! (Aileen is a dirtier girl than I, I admit it.)


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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 7:39:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: xXsoumisXx

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

No lube...no condom....sometimes spit....often told to hold my cheeks apart while face down on the bed....he cums inside....assgasms occur....

Recently tied bent over a bar stool....ankles and wrists to the bottom rung....perfect height and angle for ass fucking.....I like.


I find these very very different than other orgasms.. whole body kind of thing.. just very different, and yummy!!!


*loves assgasms* 

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 7:45:41 PM   
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Submissives, regarding anal intercourse:

1.  It's something I do entirely to please him;
Up to a point, true.
2. I love the physical sensation, and would crave it even outside of kinky play;
False.
3. The pleasure I get out of it is emotional or mental, not physical;
True.
4. I love it both physically and emotionally;
False.
5. It's neither stimulating nor unpleasant. I can take it or leave it.
True.
Did you need to be coaxed into trying anal for the first time? Or was it your idea?
I wasn't exactly "coaxed" into it the first time, i was
raped by my 'nilla ex-husband. Daddy's a lot more gentle.

Finally:  condom, no condom, sometimes condom? Why or why not?
It doesn't matter to me if He uses one or not.
i mean, i'm always "clean" before i do that, but it's His cock
that's in there.....

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 9:31:56 PM   
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Okay, I have to ask...what the fuck do some people eat that it is messy? I know I have said this before but I *love* anal sex and I have never had any poo issues.. I think you all need some more fiber or something, just saying..


It's not that it's messy, it's that that is where the poop comes from. There are tiny little microscopic remnants of feces regardless of how clean you get, which is why you can't go from ass to pussy without changing condoms, or you're risking a serious infection. I actually can't do anal sex for physical reasons, but I didn't want to do it before I found that out.

I'm sorry to sound like a total prude, and I'll stop ruining the mood over here and just shut up, but it is completely reasonable for people to not be into anal sex. And at least for me, it has nothing to do with needing more fiber

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 9:54:24 PM   
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jujubeeMB,

Take it from an Ass-o-holic...

In the decade and a half I have been engaging in Anal Sex, I have gone from Ass to Vagina MANY MANY MANY times. Not ONCE did this result in any kind of infection.

Not that it can't... just that it is way less probable than you think it is.

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P.S. Aileen..... I think you're just Swell!!!!!

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/8/2010 10:02:17 PM   
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None of the above quite describes it for me. I've done it and enjoyed it one both a physical and mental/subbie level, and done it and disliked it. For me, it's a combination of how well I'm prepped for it and how much my partner wants/enjoys it. My kinks and sexual interests are fairly maleable and tend to change depending on what my dominant is into. So if someone I'm with is really into it, I'll crave it, and if they're not, I won't.

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/9/2010 1:03:57 AM   
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I want to answer with the first option, as that is how I see it, but that really is not how it fits into our relationship. I do not find it physically pleasing at all, but when caught in a rather violent mood I like for my partner to give it to me forcefully in the ass. This is just because I like the concept of being violated, it always hurts and I feel miserable the entire time. But when this certain "mood" is not there I cannot bring myself to be enthusiastic about getting my bottom stuck. ALTHOUGH there are times, especially when I know my partner is feeling down, I will offer my bottom as a surprise pick-me-up for him. It always works. Lots of stipulations and all in there, but hopefully you get the idea of where I am going with it!


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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/9/2010 1:26:01 AM   
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This is totally on topic... PLEASE MODS don't take my post away...

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/9/2010 1:37:11 AM   
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This is totally on topic... PLEASE MODS don't take my post away...

Thanks to dc who turned me onto this group... love them now:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WoQQ-mAQeE


Sorry Hun the Video has already been pulled.

Try Again Please.

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/9/2010 1:51:43 AM   
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AQuietSimpleMan... you might not have caused any infections... that you know of... whilst dipping the rod from ass to cunt... maybe yours is Teflon coated and germs just can't stick to it... i dunno... but to be fair:

it is very much NOT advisable to fuck the butt and then the pussy without taking the condom off or washing the dick before changing holes, because the ladies ARE prone to vaginal infections like thrush or bladder infections because of Pooh particles infesting the wrong spaces... so don't be stupid about it and make sure you go about it cleanly, 'cos it rather spoils some trust in the man and the memory of some great sex if days afterwards you have troubles with your twat.

as for the question... i like it... i had to coax Him into it, which was fortunate because we got going very very nicely that way... mmmm

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RE: Question for submissives about Anal Intercourse - 7/9/2010 1:56:08 AM   
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And please don't get me wrong... I am not saying "Fuck it, ass to cunt is the best thing ever, it should be done every day."

I'm saying that it is not as common as it has been suggested.

I agree with cleaning it off, before going back and forth.

but if it happens seriously don't freak out.

Maybe my dick is made of Teflon... That would be cool.

Never needing Lube would rock.

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