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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: How does pornography make you feel about yourself? (7/8/2010 11:16:49 AM)
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I am annoyed with stuff like ugly women, obviously fake boobs, , and stuff like that because I know porn, I realistically expect the sets, the acting, everything in it to be basically cheesy, what I do not expect and tolerate, is ugly women, women who can't be realistic enough in their fake moans or reactions to be believable.
I remember one of the worst porno scenes I have seen to date, the woman was saying oh yeah, oh fuck me oh yes ect ect ect. BUT! and here's the catch. She sounded utterly bored. The only time she sounded enthusiastic or realistic was when she was dirty talking to the guy about his having just cum.
Another time, this buck tooth ugly woman, was trying to be sexy and sensual and it just came off so stupid. It was a porno about wet panties, she was in a pool splashing water onto the crotch of her panties, and saying something about how wet panties are hot, do you like wet panties" do you like MY wet panties"
It was just so lame and so stupid, and the girl wasn't even remotely sexy with her bad teeth and mediocre looks.
I watch porn for the good sex, and interesting things I can see in it, sometimes I will watch it just to laugh at the sheer stupidity of it, like the one time the fem dom group and I watched midget porn, where the midget pretended to be an alien, and all the green dye they used to color him green, rubbed off onto the pussy and the thighs of the woman he was pussy eating.
If the acting is horrible, and the women are ugly, or to lame to be convincing, I have given a running commentary consisting of comments like, ,
"this is stupid"
" this is lame"
"this is boreing, lame and stupid"
" her boobs are obviously so fake"
" SHE herself is so fake"
"She's such a horrible actor, she couldn't convince her way out of a wet paper sack, that she likes this or is enjoying it"
Better done porn, keeps my interests, and I do not comment on things like her false boobs, or her bleached out hair do. I watch, and I get hot , and horny and ready to fuck.
But bad poorly done porn? Yeah, not a turn on. it's a turn OFF, and I start commenting out of sheer boredom.
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ORIGINAL: Somethingrandom
I've always appreciated and enjoyed pornography, and continued to view it even
while within very sexually-satisfying relationships.
On several occasions, I have tried to get various women to join me watching, as a prelude
and enhancement to sex. This has always backfired rather spectacularly.
What I've found most striking is that the women did not comment on the rather obvious
flaws in porn......horrible acting, absurd situations, sleazy sets, crappy lighting and camerawork.
No comments on those aspects. Also, if the porn focused on an explicit fetish, there was not even any comment on the outlandish fetish.
So, what DID the women say? A running commentary on the looks of the actresses, all negative.
"Those boobs are fake"
"Look, she has stretch marks on the back of her thighs!"
"She obviously bleaches her hair"
"Her nose is crooked"
Etcetera......
I find this mytifying. It was not as if I were making a running commentary on how GREAT the women looked in the movie. This was not a counter to anything I had said.
There wasn't any real reluctance or resistance to my invitation to watch porn......yet it seemed as if the women were working as hard as they could to poison it.
My question is...WHY?
So......can anyone shed some light, here? Porn certainly can be boring, and very UNsexy, even to a fan like me at times. But getting the exact-same reaction over many years, from so many different women makes me wonder what the heck is going through their minds?
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