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Slave holidays? - 4/15/2006 12:33:33 PM

slavedan20

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hi i am a young sub and am interested in having a taster of a D/s relationship, and thought of going on a slave holiday over the summer. i wondered if anyone knows anything about slave/submissive holidays, particularly in the UK and possibly Europe. any advice would be much appreciated.
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RE: Slave holidays? - 4/15/2006 12:50:36 PM

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Perhaps you can clarify what you mean by slave holiday? Not sure I understand your meaning.

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RE: Slave holidays? - 4/15/2006 12:57:56 PM

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i know here in Canada there are camp outs and such were a slave can volunteer. Or their owner can volunteer them for general duties.

Best thing to do is fine some of the local group sites or do a search on it on google etc.

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RE: Slave holidays? - 4/15/2006 1:02:35 PM

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newwwwwwp i dun want to know. i could imagine it being a very disasterous vacation for me. "slave holiday at the chattel" and some cocky arrogant Man who i barely knew and most assuredly didnt trust said "OBEY NOW lowly female slave"

and my mouth would go off.. like a fire alarm.. except it wouldnt stop

And if they were normal "hey its what you will!" people they'd prolly kick me out and it wouldnt be so bad

But if its like a serious place.. no "what you will" (as slaves really arent what they will) i'd be in some serious kimshy. It'd prolly get worse, cos they'd piss me off and well.

Plus i just cant possibly imagine submitting to some one i dont A) know B) respect or C) trust, especially at the level i am ultimately trying to achieve. Anything else would only be second rate and definetly not satisfing or really worth my while and i'd be more likely to "play" (and most likely act like an ass)

Of course.... going with some one i trusted with my safe keeping well in mind. To a place that has my goal in mind.. now that would be interesting. BUT <grins> i dont see that as actually working out well either (tons of trouble) as i dont really think its a place i am ready to be. A place i'd like to be (of course) but not "ready" yet. Of course, being able to watch with out actual participation for awhile would be really awesome and being surrounded by it and seeing that its okay would possibly work.

Yeah a place i would like.. would be a place i think that demands total surrender and there is just no two ifs about it. And i am not ready to totally surrender, no matter how much i would love to.

Thinking about it.. there is a place i do know of, but its in the states actually. Och aye and possibly a place in the netherlands.. The one in the states i dun know excatly what its about.. but i know its basically along the lines what you're asking for. The one in the netherlands, i dont know if it is what you're asking about.

yeah feel free to email me and i'll confuse you some more = )

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RE: Slave holidays? - 4/15/2006 1:06:16 PM

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Dan, I would suggest taking just a little time and maybe finding a House or a group like that who would agree to keep you for a set period of time and have you as a slave. For safety reasons, I would personally make sure there wouldn't be any sex or heavy scening ... Or if there were heavy scening, your role would be that of a helper rather than the 'victim' ... Give you a taste without giving you the whole pie. :)

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RE: Slave holidays? - 4/15/2006 1:08:36 PM

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Try:

http://www.bondagedominationspain.com

Friendly and used to novices.

Been there for 5 years ...for straight, gays and bisexuals.

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RE: Slave holidays? - 4/15/2006 2:17:26 PM

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Oh, also be sure that whoever you submit to respects safewords and boundaries ... Be extremely clear about what your boundaries are ... If you're not sure about something, dont do it. You're new, you're young ... There's plenty of time to try everything without trying to cram it all into your first time. Remember that you have the right to say no. You have the right to ask questions and have those questions answered clearly and completely. Anyone who refuses to respect your no or answer your questions is a big red flag. Because you're so new, questions and uncertainty should be expected.

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RE: Slave holidays? - 4/15/2006 2:28:39 PM

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cheers kiska think i needed that advice. am still planning on going on one or maybe just a prolonged stay with a domme. good advice tho about boundaries and i am still young i suppose, it has its pros and cons!

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