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how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 8:17:16 PM

EasyE

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My slave is interested in rape fantasies. I want to know how to go about making a scene without it just being normal sex. I figure ill catch her off guard. Wake her up and take with no warning. Forcibly strip her clothes and take her before she has much time to get wet. Other than that any ideas to make it better. Ty in advance.

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 8:27:34 PM

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I'd talk to her about what sort of rape fantasy appeals to her. Date rape after being a tease or stranger in a dark alley? Being used and discarded or being found irresistable? The idea of being forced to do slutty things or the idea of being used solely for the rapist's gratification? Does she want to be forced to come from the rape or does she want to hate it throughout?

Motivation matters a lot here, and unless you have a fairly good idea of what she finds hot about a rape scene, you won't be able to come up with a good cohesive scene.

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 8:43:17 PM

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My ex enacted a rape scene for me, and it was HAWT!!

He dressed up all in black, including gloves and a ski mask, and laid in wait for me. When I walked in the door, he grabbed me, put his hand over my mouth, and dragged me into the bedroom. He told me everything he was going to do to me, calling me all kinds of dirty names, etc.

The initial jolt of adrenaline that I experienced when he first grabbed me was real and terrifying, until I figured out it was him. I didn't make it easy for him, though, and I surprised him a little when I actually tried to get away.

This just added to the fantasy and caused him to be forced to subdue me even more, which was one of the things that I liked most.

I do agree with Elisabella, in that you might consider asking her what kind of rape fantasy interests her most. One final bit of advice is that if you speak with her about it, don't mention it again for several weeks or months -- long enough for her to think that you've completely forgotten about it -- and *then* make your move.

Best of luck!

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 9:11:09 PM

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I agree with the others - ask her what she imagines - but would recommend that no matter what she imagines, you actually do give her time to get wet, unless you know for a fact that she enjoys how uncomfortable it is to get fucked without being wet. For a lot of people, the fantasy is a fantasy because it turns them on - let her enjoy it. Or, if she isn't getting wet because you've done a good job of frightening her, use lube and mock her for it. Depends on her fantasy, of course - I just personally would never want to have my fantasy ruined by the big "ow" moment

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 9:14:41 PM

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Rape scenes are an awesome FANTASY, but really get to know what is behind it... was she raped in the past, or is it the rush of being attacked? Make sure that you are not interrupting some stressful day, too. This is seriously edgy play, and You Never Know, so planning is really essential, as well as being willing to drop the plan at a moment's notice!

If you are using condoms or lube, I also recommend being extra discreet so she doesn't see---what's more edgy than unsafe sex!

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 9:18:31 PM

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Thanks for the replies. I have a pertye good idea as to her preferences. So ideas and experiences are what I'm looking for.

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 10:06:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

I agree with the others - ask her what she imagines - but would recommend that no matter what she imagines, you actually do give her time to get wet, unless you know for a fact that she enjoys how uncomfortable it is to get fucked without being wet. For a lot of people, the fantasy is a fantasy because it turns them on - let her enjoy it. Or, if she isn't getting wet because you've done a good job of frightening her, use lube and mock her for it. Depends on her fantasy, of course - I just personally would never want to have my fantasy ruined by the big "ow" moment

Haha this. Seriously.

Also to the OP, you should probably assume whatever limits she normally has still apply during the "rape" especially if you plan on surprising her. If she wants more you can always do it harder next time

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 10:09:49 PM

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Yep thanks. Her limits are outlined in our slave contract and safeword will apply as well.

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/8/2010 10:22:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: EasyE

Yep thanks. Her limits are outlined in our slave contract and safeword will apply as well.

Nice.

Have fun then

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RE: how to put on a rape fantasy scene - 7/9/2010 1:48:43 AM

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I have talked at length about this to a few Dominant friends as it is a big fantasy of mine. I think the biggest thing is the element of surprise, definitely give it time to make her think you have forgotten.
The other thing I think is important is that yes at some point she will know it is you but by not acting like you (if you get what I mean) that may help prolong the experience too. Another idea if you have the time is to "kidnap" her for a weekend, rent a cabin in the back of buttfuck and make her your "sexslave" for an extended period.
But like others have said make sure you know her reasons and mental state before going into this, it can be dangerous territory.
There are boards on other sites that are dedicated to this topic and the folks there might have some good ideas also.

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